Guys uglier, poorer or dumber than me can get laid. Some are even all of that and receive pussy rewards

Guys uglier, poorer or dumber than me can get laid. Some are even all of that and receive pussy rewards.

It's not fair. What am I doing wrong? How can I change this situation? I don't seem to get out of it.

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it's unironically a self esteem issue

They ask girls out.

Have you ever asked out a girl?

>It's not fair.
It sounds really fair that people of all characteristics can get laid.

Never, I'm too shy or insecure for that. I think they'd decline anyway.

well thats your own issue to deal with, we can't fix that you aren't willing to actually get a gf.

Well now you have your answer.

>not fair
Universe is not a kindergarten, it IS not fair.

This.

How do I turn half a circle around and make things unfair for others with no or barely any consequences for myself?

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You don’t.

If all you want is pussy then just fap ffs. I will never understand why people would play some pretend games just to have sex. There is no value in it unless it's with a person you genuinely care about. In order to find a person you care about you need to start caring about other people.

But what if I were willing to do it this way? I've had enough of being a self-pitying pussy– how do *I* start being the asshole?

>Guys uglier, poorer or dumber than me can get laid
They're being themselves. Just be yourself.

>If all you want is to travel then just look at Google Maps ffs
>If all you want is to eat magnificent cuisine just chew on some bread ffs
>If all you want is to drive luxurious cars just go drive a bicycle ffs

The probably will decline. You're looking at a lifetime hit rate that *might* reach 50/50 if you're incredibly lucky early on.

Focus on your purpose in life. Find something you're good at, become confident in it, and make sure you can make money with it. Be happy with yourself.

A girl will come into your life naturally.

This will not happen overnight. Start working on it now.

Stop thinking that beauty, money, and intellect get people laid.

Self-confidence and integrity are the primary masculinity characteristics. And you are posting crying green frogs...

>A girl will come into your life naturally.
Biggest lie right here OP. If you want a girl, spend time with her. Get to know her a bit, ask her out. YOU have to do it because women are even more shy and insecure than you are even if they don't seem that way. Women usually won't ask a guy out, so make sure you dom. You also have to be confident in yourself and believe you have value otherwise you'll come to a girl with a negative mindset and she will inevitably turn you down.

>I have no idea what I'm talking about, here are some exaggerated quotes I invented to hide this obvious fact.

Not entirely true, some girls do initiate dates and ask guys out, but very few.

Last two girls i was with were the ones who asked me out, i also been told that its fairly uncommon.

Instead of just trying to get laid why don't you try having a meaningful relationship with someone.

Shy men are dating equivalent of morbidly obese women.

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This is like asking why bigger idiots than you are better at driving, only to learn that you don't put your key in the ignition.

You can't get anywhere if you don't start.

imagine in how much denial you have to be to see the proof right in front of your eyes and still deny it
>uglier poorer or dumber than me
oh well I dunno user maybe you have it backwards?

Not OP but I've asked a few girls out. Every one of them has either rejected me or ghosted me. What the fuck am I doing wrong?

One cannot have self-esteem being an all around loser.

Nothing builds your self-esteem, pretending it is way too fake and obvious.

So do some things to build self esteem
Exercise, diet, read more, lurk less, shitpost less and advise (in a friendly way), eschew toxic behaviors and take on wholesome or altruistic behaviors.

The point isn't to become the Chad Might, but to establish a foundation on which you can place your self esteem. You'll have deeds to look back to, honest results from simple, hard work. You won't have to have a story, you won't have to fake it.
It might not all happen tomorrow but then, there's no such solution that does so exist.

How come they have enough confidence to do that? What makes them so brave?

Because it gets so much fucking worse than fucking (or not fucking) women. Death. Illness. Suffering. Watching your loved ones die. Watching them deteriorate into a slow and generally painful death. You'll do this-- AT LEAST once in your life.

And you guys fucking come here worried about talking to a woman. Woooooo, big scary woman. She's gonna REPLY to you if you talk to her, and she might ASK YOU QUESTIONS. OOOOOOOO!

My dad died when I was young. If you grubs think talking to women is that bad, death is going to fucking destroy you.

Life gets so much worse.

I'm female, post face and then maybe I can tell you what's wrong from that alone. Could be your issue, could unironcially be that you're after dumb bimbos. Also are you socially competent? As in can hold a convo for a bit, not act awkward frequently, etc?

Well recently it's been found out my mother has a cancer and now I'm spending most of my money on medication. She's also moved in with me and cries every evening. Will these circumstances make me more condident or better at talking with women? I don't really see how.

Reinvent yourself

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You know I like to think I'm insecure about my height being the smallest guy at my work at 5,9 in a club but I don't think I'd get surgery, god.

Why do you think they're getting it and you're not user.

Yes, logically, we know asking out girls is no big deal. But emotions and anxieties are NOT logical

I’m a relatively confident guy who can walk into any room full of people and strike up a good conversation somewhere. I’ve been to bars alone before and come out having made a handful of new friends or contacts. Approaching people socially is no big deal to me

But approaching women for sexual or romantic purposes is something that chills me to the bone. It makes me feel weak and vulnerable like nothing else in the world can. Being 22 years old and never having been on a date has made me terminally insecure about women. My brain simply will not allow me to believe it is possible for a woman to be attracted to me. In my mind, EVERY woman is out of my league. So approaching them looking for a date is guaranteed failure for me

No amount of soul searching or therapy has been able to break this mindset. The idea of asking a girl on a date makes me sick with anxiety. I can’t imagine doing it. But it is the thing I need to do most, because being dateless is making me horrifically miserable

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You should look for GF from the internet.

Have you tried online dating? I'd never approach anyone in real life but it works fine online. Maybe try a real website and not tinder unless you are really attractive.

Cause pussy is 10x better than flapping you retarded cunt

none of those are about personality. maybe they have on and you don't. maybe you're just boring.

if you want happiness and contentment with the world do not compare yourself to others. just focus on yourself.

I just saved your life!
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You're putting the pussy on a pedestal brother

for me it’s because i never fap or look at porn.
When i used to fap i would never feel confident enough to approach girls

Ask yourself "If an opposite gendered clone of you came up to you, with your exact same personality, body type, and physical flaws and asked you out, would you date her?"
if the answer is no, then change her until you would.

What a dumb point is that? Of course I'd fuck myself as a girl.

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