Hate to say this, but am I the only guy here who feels like he's going to be a wizard for the rest of his life ?

If you take the normie "fixing yourself" advice, you already lost.
Getting girls is about being dominant. If you're taking that advice, you will have a submissive mindset and won't get anywhere.
Incels are also submissive since they believe they're too ugly or whatever. They submit to women's standards, or what they think womens standards are.

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>How many girls have you asked out?
Six maybe. I've tried Tinder and got nothing out of it.

I know the drill from here:
>get social hobbies
>become interesting
>get female friends
>pick up girls on the street
>just b urself bro
>it's a numbers game bro

Is there anything I've left out?

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If you take the normie "fixing yourself" advice, you already lost.

>Getting girls is about being dominant. If you're taking that advice, you will have a submissive mindset and won't get anywhere.

Wow, so you're telling me I should just give up ?

You prick, I came here for advice, not your negative bs.

That was a harsh truth and adv you dumbass. Honesty is sometimes negative you spoiled sensetive brat. No woman wants such a wuss.

In two weeks I'll be a 30yr old virgin. I occasionally feel it would be nice to have a relationship, but then I remember I'm garbage and set those feelings aside.

t. incel

Stop trying to recruit a vulnerable person into your cult of death.

Trust me I wish I could give you practical advice, but I believe this is something you can best figure out yourself. Remember that it's a competition. If you succeed and dominate over the others you'll get pussy, if you don't you'll stay alone.
Keep in mind that in our current society, dominance is often not directly acted out but only implied through your character and your possesions.

have u tried beeing an attractive chad? I heard that works well.

The problem is that you let society, your parents, "friends" and the retards of this thread decide your life. You think you NEED sex and relationship. Well, you don't. You don't even have to masturbate. You need food, water, breathing and maybe a shelter. That's what you NEED.

You are feeling bad about this lack of achievements in this specific area of your life, because everyone told you you should feel bad for not having it. Lies, filthy liars, they all believe in this bullshit and tell the same bullshit to others, while not following any of this bullshit, bunch of hypocrites.

If anyone ask about your sexual life and past, make an excuse, lie back, dodge the questions, you deserve the right to do so, after the brainwash they have done to you.

Only then you will be able to be free.

OP's problem is different and deeper than that. You are a semi-normalfag that just needed a little motivation and boom, you now have relationships and all that. Not all people have this easy.

>am I the only guy here who feels like he's going to be a wizard for the rest of his life?
Unfortunately you're not. Welcome to the club.

Thanks for the advice user, I'll try that next week.

Consider mail ordering

28, here, exactly the same situation. Just praying that when I break 30 the desire for a relationship will fade and I can get on with my life.

It's a numbers game is 6 is next to nothing. Even my handsome male friends have a 90% rejection rate.

Friend, I'm not going to get wizard powers because I got laid for a while freshman year of college. Now I doubt it'll ever happen again. At least you get the cool powers.
>Side note: Sex isn't that great

consider going where women might be interested and instead of waiting for one to knock on your door

Get a white collar job
Get fit
Get a haircut
Learn either Mandarin, Japanese, or Korean
Move to Asia
Get job there
East Asian women are not as superficial or shallow
Even if you don’t get a gf, it won’t matter, East Asian culture simply does not mock people who choose (or don’t choose) to be celibate.

Ignore self-loathing Asian Americans like the plague. They’re basically white people on Tumblr.

Trust me, I’ve lived in Beijing.

Hello brother, I'm another 26 khv who did the Jow Forums and /fa/ things and even tried nofap. I have been actively dating for the past 2 years, never got past 1st or 2nd date.

I asked out about as many girls as you so not that many. I actually met more girls than that since I'm actively looking and forcing myself to go out of my comfort zone to meet new people and experience things, but single girls are apparently statistical anomalies where I look.

It's incredibly frustrating. I look good, I have good conversation, I have no issue making friends, I put myself out there and am not afraid to make plans to go out. I don't think I even have wildly high standards. My best friend is an attractive girl so I know I'm not a creep and there's no glaringly obvious mistake in my game. Yet I have 0 success in dating. At this point I legitimately don't know what I'm doing wrong.

I feel like the bottleneck is in meeting and dating girls but I don't know how. Do single girls even exist ? How do you even physically manage to meet enough that it becomes "a number game" ? Am I really that retarded ? Recently one of my friends asked if I was secretly gay out of disbelief that I couldn't get a gf when even he can nail thots semi regularly.

I'm at a loss of words to formulate how utterly confused I am.

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>I legitimately don't know what I'm doing wrong.
You might just be boring and to vanilla. You have to be a bit provocative with women, start some tension. Women will ignore a lot of flaws, but not being boring.

>meeting and dating girls but I don't know how. Do single girls even exist ?
They exist. They're at clubs, cafes, art galleries, concerts, language classes, cooking classes and especially, dance classes. Couple go to dance classes to have some fun, singles go to dance classes to meet other singles while having fun. Also, dating sites, workplace (depends), university, etc.

> Recently one of my friends asked if I was secretly gay out of disbelief that I couldn't get a gf when even he can nail thots semi regularly.
Why not go out with him?

32 year old virgin here. Besides swiping on tinder, I don't even try anymore. No woman would want to deal with a virgin my age and up.

My therapist tells me "thats not true" but I don't think she gives a shit about helping me anymore, I think she just wants me to leave her alone.

I lost my virginity at 24 and the girl wasn't aware that I was a virgin. She thought I was a bit nervous and clumsy and that's it. It's not written on your forehead.

thats nice but there's a big difference between 24 and 32

tell me this lads: how much time do you spend getting friendly with a chick before explicitely asking her out? I'm thinking I am being too direct and ask them too soon.

Is born again wizard a thing?

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You make some good points.
>You might just be boring and to vanilla.
I might, I'll investigate this.
>You have to be a bit provocative with women, start some tension.
So that's another issue entirely. I was a sperg for most of my life, as in I eventually got an actual diagnosis and I've worked hard since then to "normalize" and have a better understanding of emotions.
While I've made good progress that unfortunately means I don't yet have a very good grasp of what it means to flirt, be provocative and create tension.
Imagine my horror when my last date said I had a "very analytical view of people" and I fought to contain my spaghetti thinking I didn't pass for "normal".

So how do you actually get from the platonic state of meeting someone to the stage where they want to touch/kiss you ?
I try on dates to steer the conversation towards personal / emotional topics (closeness to friends, where you'd like to travel, that embarrassing poetry blog you held in highschool...) and away from purely intellectual topics if I can help it (I'm pretty sure discussing the influence of Grothendieck's work was a mistake, even with good storytelling and passion).
I don't know what else to do though, I just assumed I'd have to get more physical or whatever on the following date but I never get past 1st date, presumably because I was too boring anyway... I've heard light teasing works so I'll try incorporating that next. I'm scared of being inappropriate so I don't know how to tactfully escalate sexually...

>Why not go out with him?
He lives in a different city now and when he's not suicidal he's out getting shitfaced at the bar / club to bring back girls of questionable consent to rawdog at his place. Not my cup of tea. Might be because I'm a virgin but I'm not comfortable enough sexually to sext acquaintances out of the blue on FB Messenger or for drunk one night stands.

~30m RL conversation to decide if she's actually interesting -> phone# / FB -> date

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I have no clue why are you in this situation.
I’m diagnosed with autism. Although I am still a virgin, I have had a girlfriend in the past. In fact, during high school, one girl had a crush on me but I friend zoned herb because she was too emotional.
I would advise you to be friends with women. Find an Aspergers support group and befriend a female member.

If none of this works. Learn Mandarin or Japanese and move to East Asia.

Mfw I am a robot

i wouldn't pay attention to it. concern yourself with the things that interest you, and eventually you'll meet someone you'll connect with. it might be a year, it might be a decade, or it might be a week, but your focus should be your interests and passions.

>getting a job in Asia as a foreigner
Yeah, good luck with that man.

>East Asian women are not as superficial or shallow
Bullshit. Some women are shallow regardless of race. There are european girls that aren't shallow, trust me.

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>i wouldn't pay attention to it
It's hard to ignore the fact that you've totally failed in one of the most fundamental and normal aspects of human life.

I don't think that's true about needs. You could argue what is the need to live at all. Why do these things to keep you alive?

>learn pickup
Big Yikes

I have given up. I realized when I was 19 that I like being alone. Now that I'm 29 nothing has changed. Humans are complicated and hard to satisfy. I learned that if you keep your hopes low then you won't be disappointed.

Your standards are still too high and you're probably a slob or smell bad