I have been asked out by guys from my university and high school multiple times before, but I always turned them down because I always assumed they wanted sexual relationships... so where do you meet guys that are willing to form a loving relationship without sex until marriage and seriously commit to you?
Where to find good & handsome guys willing to wait til marriage for anything sexual?
Church.
>I reject people because I assume they are X when I want Y
You're fucking retarded. Grow up
What's your age and sexual experience?
So what do you want me to do? The truth is 90+% of people want sex before marriage and will be disappointed if you ask for something else. Women or men. Specially people my age.
21. I'm a virgin, but if it counts, a boy kissed me on my lips when I was 8.
Church? Religious people are the only ones who think sex until marriage is a good idea.
Also you're making it much harder by limiting yourself to a type of relationship a majority of people could never consider. Perhaps you could just stop caring about such a dumb thing.
I don't care what you do. I am pointing out that you have voluntarily decided what other people are thinking when you have no basis to. That leads me to believe that you are either underaged or are immature.
And the truth? If you live in the United States there are literally chruches in every town. There are no shortage of people to not have sex with; a moralfag's paradise.
OP heres the thing. You need to compromise a little bit on this one.
>without anything sexual
This means no kissing. This means limiting things when you feel like doing more. You need to not put limits on your relationship.
I am going through a breakup with someone I love right now. She put hard limits on our relationship and because of that, we lost all of our momentum. OP trust me, putting limits on your relationship instead of doing what feels right will poison something that had potential.
>but if it counts, a boy kissed me on my lips when I was 8
No, it doesn't count, girlie.
Why wouldn't you focus on places, where people with the same interests and values as yours belong to? E.g.: libraries, art galleries, conservatory, science / discussion / book clubs, etc.
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Go to church
Go to incels.me
Go to East Asia
Right here
You ready to take it anal from Rod Thickerstiff on your wedding night? Because you have no idea what you’re signing up for if no premarital.
Well, I'm looking for a tradwife. Does Jow Forums count?
the sorta gurl I want but would never love me.
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I'm somewhat attractive I guess since I've always had girls into me, and I'm definitely willing to have that kind of relationship. Where are you from, OP?
Unironically try /soc/ I know it's mostly degenerates but look, there's a virgin thread going on, or you could try the ideal mate threads. I've seen a lot of attractive guys their but who were kinda shut-ins so they don't sleep around.
t. femanon
This. Just filter the dick threads from the catalog and you're good. I met my bf there and we're getting married next year.
>good & handsome guys willing to wait til marriage for anything sexual?
That's a very very very small pool of potential partners you've selected. Not only do you have to find this person but you have to be good enough to get this person. I don't like your odds.
You're talking like there are other options. What do you suggest she do? Go for a guy she doesn't find attractive? Go for a guy who's not good? Go for a guy who's not willing to wait until marriage and will dump her after he's got what he wanted?
Here's her other option: Accept that her standards are so high she may wind up alone
She can have whatever standards she wants but the higher they are the lower the chance of finding someone who fits them
Yeah but what's your point if you're not saying she should lower her standards?
I'm not saying she shouldn't, but she might not even be aware that what she wants is next to impossible to find.
Lol, it's not. I'm a fairly attractive guy, and I'd be totally down to wait for marriage if I find the right girl (I'm not a virgin myself though but they exist too and they're way more numerous than you make it to be).
If I had told you " I want a cute virgin girl who wants to wait for marriage" you would have told me they don't exist, yet here's OP, a female 4channer who's like that. What are the odds, right? Greater than you'd think. I've met plenty of virgin girls on here.
Why do you want to wait?
But to answer your question, internet dating. And or in person dating. Just in general, if you're completely forward with what you want, you'll filter out most of the people who don't want the same.
Unfortunately OP, dating kind of sucks. It's just a series of compromises and playing the law of averages. But sometimes, things just work, and it's genuinely amazing when they do. If you keep trying, you'll find someone. Don't give up.
In your imaginination. This is not how the world works, sex is the major biological driver for relationships and no man is going to want to postpone this in the chance you just might change your mind. It's quite delusional.
Some guys are willing to wait before marriage too, why would you talk as if that just doesn't exist?
If you know where they are go get them.
I'm one of them...
Funny thing is I rejected a beautiful woman because she wanted exactly what you thought men wanted, and she seems to love a lot of men.
Seems like I pissed her off, but truth is I also look for this.
But what do I know, I ain't that handsome.
>i want someone who can attract a lot of pussy
>to choose me but i'm not giving pussy
Good luck with that. You better have something special to balance out the no-sex.
Church.
Waiting until you've made a lifelong commitment before fooling around and finding out if you're sexually compatible is extremely foolish and will probably lead to infidelity. But I'm sure you have religious reasons or something that outweighs that so I won't knock it.
But most non-religious people know this and don't wanna step on that landmine so church is your only real option.
A relationship without sex & romance is like friendship to me
>sex until marriage
Isn't this most people. Once married you start looking elsewhere.
Yes, but you said you want a good & handsome man. A man who would wait until marriage is neither.
I'm not OP. I'm a somewhat attractive guy I guess (been asked out by girls several times). I'd say I'm good, though I don't really know what that means. And I am totally ok with waiting until marriage.