Virginity was always important to me

>you idiot.
Why are you shooting the messanger. I agree with you. I was trying to help you understand what he meant since you direcetly asked. Chill the fuck out.

Please give us the link

Storytime please

Was obviously directed to the guy who posted that message, sorry if you took it personally.

>Was obviously directed to the guy who posted that message
>obviously
You replied directly to me and called me "you idiot" in the same sentence you refered to the original user as "he." Nothing "obvious" about that.
>sorry if you took it personally.
Apology accepted

Oh. Well the problem is I'll end up mentally cucking myself with insecurities and I can't seem to get over that. Even if I didn't care about virginity I'd still break up with her for lying to me for so long.

It's better than 2 years but your married and she takes your shit and your kids.

Not gonna green text, just gonna press enter alot.

Met her when I was 15, she was 18.
Both virgins
Over the course of 2 years start sexually exploring eachother, finally hit the big bang at a play ground one night.
More of the same.
Get married
Join military
We move to Japan
She goes to visit her mom in Cali
Find out she told a dude we were swingers and he went down on her
Told me he raped her
I bought a plane ticket to the states to murder him.
Next day he contacts me, showing me the message history between them.
Wasn't rape.
Refunded ticket.
Stupidly forgive her.
Fast forward a bit, still stationed in Japan
Have daughter.
Get stationed to south Dakota
Buy house and car to give my family a good life.
2 months later, I find out she was banging my best friend while I was at work when she was pregnant.
I try to end the marriage but her mom keeps slinging heat, making me realize I'm a fucking sad man.
Give in, try to work it out.
Exit military, lose house, move to north carolina.
She cheats on me with 46 year old man who works at a grocery store. While my daughter is in the house.

Needless to say we're divorced now and I've moved on. I just miss my daughter. I'm in Florida, she's in Cali being raised by a whore.

/fin

The old fashioned way

Oh. Forgot to mention. She convinced me to have sex with her, so she was my first and I don't even really deserve one anymore.

Jesus. Holy shit I am so sorry. Thank you for your service, you deserve far far far better.

>The old fashioned way
The old fashioned way is your parents tell you who you're marrying at 14. Don't think this is really an option for me in today's world.

All good man. You live and learn. I met a better girl, who loves having my daughter around during her visits. It hurt to go through, and I withheld massive amounts of details because it would be a novel. But in the end, it works itself out. She lied because she didn't wanna lose you in the first place. Unadmirable to lie like that but it's understandable. Women are odd animals. She did it before she met you. She wanted to seem perfect in your eye. Needless to say it could be much much worse.
I would take some time and reconsider if I were you. Just friendly honest advice.

You seem like you probably hold a grudge when somebody doesn’t hold the door open for you

The ring is only $2500?

>she 15 me 17 exchanged v cards
>together 11 years
>married for 6 weeks and she wants to open the relationship after completely monogamous
>i say if we can't fix that then lets split
>she moves out the next night after i beg to work it out
>next day during my finals she messages she wants a divorce
>found out she immediately started dating a former co worker of hers we fought about constantly cuz i knew something was up

That was 8 months ago and life's never been better. She left right before Christmas so it was super fucking ruff

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Id like to read a novel

Glad you're out of it. Shit, you guys are making it sound like virgins are worse.

You aren't a virgin anymore. Find someone with a similar sexual history.
One or two partners.

Plenty of girls in their 20s like that.

If a man doesn't marry a virgin within 1,5 - 2 years, there're no excuses other than serious health problems (including mental ones).

If the alleged virgin doesn't allow her future husband to verify her status, she should be warned of the possible marriage annulment.

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Hello bizarro me! Our stories don't match up entirely 1:1, but I'm sad to learn you were the version of me who married instead of being able to escape just before that point.

She wanted to wait to get out of grad school which I was fine with. Also it looks like waiting ended up being a good idea. Where and how do I find virgins now?

>verify her status
How? My own sister was born without a hymen and much more commonly its broken in other ways or doesn't fully cover the vagina.

You have problems op.

I don't really understand how you can simply discard a person you were supposedly in love with for 7 years because of a lie. I hope she finds someone better honestly.

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Virgin or not, there is one thing so many people in this thread have done wrong in their life:
>getting married

She held back a lie that in OP's view was too big. I can sort of agree with it, especially since it's a sex tape up on the hub. He has every right to throw her lying ass out.

Post a time-stamped pic of just your hand to prove you're not a bitter woman.

So do you guys not realize this is a bait thread or do you just like arguing for practice?

>Where and how do I find virgins now?
In the nuthouse you belong to, since you wrote this horseshit:
>much more commonly its broken in other ways
You're really have serious mental problems.

What's your story ?

Yeah getting married and then left like that was brutal.

I saw her yesterday at a wedding we were both in. She tried to talk to me and I just ignored her. Im glad she didn't join the party after the ceremony.

I'm not sure even why she'd want to talk to me.

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I'll keep it short

>break up 9 months ago
>high school sweethearts
>lose v cards to each other
>together for 8 years
>quasi LDR due to college/work, still made time to be with each other
>things are going okay, except she'd made more time for her friends than time for us
>she orchestrates a situation where I'm forced to break up with her
>when I try to talk to her, she immediately ghosts me
>week later texts me she wishes me good luck in life
>learn(deduced) she immediately went on a trip to Japan with her coworker
>later learn she's now living with him

I likely got cucked, and if not she wanted out to go be with her coworker. So much for highschool sweethearts huh? Luckily for me I know getting married is a fool's errand, and told her if we were still together by the time I was 30(24 by the time we broke up) I'd marry her. Looks like I dodged a bullet, but now I'm an alcoholic, so it evens out.

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>anti-marriage thread
Atheists are garbage.

>implying people who don’t want to marry must atheists

retarded

What religion calls marriage and what government calls marriage are two completely different things.

Oh my God OP, you are such a fucking gigantic fucking retard if this is actually true. You could've had a good time with your wife, but you blew it because you are petty, autistic and pedantic. Grt fucked. I hope you look back on your stupid actions with regret in a few years.

Jesus Christ and the courts didn't care one whit that the mother clearly has problems with impulse control?

Mix feels op

I mean if it was before she met you...
Maybe you straitened her out, she thought she was doing everything right then the past punches hee in the face.

...also how did you find out?
Just putting it out there she probably sent the video to some chad who posted it online

Maybe the timing isn't coincidence either...your friend might have been giving you a warning

Honest question, even if there was no pornhub video, how could you live knowing your wife fucked others before you?

Are you retarded or just underage? The back of a hairbrush when they're 12 and experimenting is extremely common. Horseback riding when you're 5, falling injuries, gymnastics... Hell, many woman are born with hymens that are so small and shaped around the vagina that it doesn't break with penetration

Found out through my friend. If you're worried it might have been him in a the video it definitely wasn't him. Guy in the video was some fucking white boy.

I'm so sorry bro. Get help on the alcoholism thing, you're just gonna get more and more miserable. How heavily do you drink on the average day?

Femanon detected.

Link?

Christ women are evil they have the remorse of a serial killer

It's more the remorse of a long term molester.

>does something violent and destructive
>look what YOU caused to happen!

Fuck you.

she lied to you for seven years, she deserves that video to be posted on Jow Forums
besides, what's the point of protecting her if she lied to you for seven years?
I call bullshit

youre a fucking loser if you wanna call someone w a porntape on the internet you wife lmao
A) you just watched you wife getting fucked
B) the whole world just watched you wife getting fucked

OP did the right thing

Hmm.

32, wife, job, house... Not balding.

Overall bretty good

I will say, i can see how all this shit gets exponentially harder the older you are. I started laying the groundwork for this stuff right after college

do you have a link to that video?
asking for a friend.

Kill yourself OP, even if this is LARP.

Jow Forums virgin moralists: the thread

No chance at all unless you find an amish girl who didn't go nuts.

You know that feeling of being cheated, not getting full thing, being told the truth, feel like a loser. Well most people don't like that and will end it with someone that makes them feel that way. It's like a switch in the brain, but of course afterwards hurts...a lot.

>about something supposedly nobody finds relevant apart from Jow Forums incels
And good Christians.

>wants to open relationship so she can cheat guilt free
These are some horror stories. Hope you two didn't have kids.

What race are you two?

You're a total failure.

About a tall glass a day, which probably isn't much maybe. I can go a day or two without it, but then the heavy feels start to hit.

No thank God we didn't.

I just saw her at a wedding we were both in. She tried to talk to me 1 on 1 and I just walked past her.

The bride alluded that she wants to be friends. Seems like a terrible idea

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Definitely not a good idea.

this. she'll try to rope you back in. I had an ex who was a slut and she would always use sex to stick her harpy claws into me

So what? If she's a good virgin girl, she has a right to ask that question.

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Imagine being a nigger and getting cucked by a tiny dicked whitie. No wonder that was his reaction

This is why I'm not in a relationship. I know it's a low chance of happening, but with my luck, it would happen.

>Gets proven wrong
>"Y-yeah well you're stupid"
That's what I fucking thought.

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Doesn't matter

It was before we even met so it wasn't getting cucked.

Of what? Beer? If it's a glass of beer a day you should be ok, but don't do more, the bottle isn't the answer.

I don't know what you're talking about. Are you talking about her being a liar?

Don't forget Muslims

>How am I gonna find an actual virgin now? Is it too late?
No but you won't find her in the west, your better off to travel beyond North America and "most" of Europe. Poland, and Argentina are good places to look and if you not against it try Asia but avoid the hell out of China. I wouldn't look for a wife older than 35 or younger than 20 but the older they are the least likely chance their still a virgin. I travel a good bit for work, I lived in several different countries and I can say without a doubt your just looking for a Unicorn in most of the west.

The sexual revolution really fucked up the marriage dynamic in the west. But now you really need to ask yourself is marriage really worth it to you? If you want kids than go find a girl overseas and marry her but stay in her home country the west WILL ruin her. If you don't want kids I'd say it isn't worth it in the long run. Friend of mine married a nice polish girl and they have 4 kids, he has a decent life but he had to leave America behind to achieve it.

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