so, I need help. Really, a lot of help.
I got a girl, a really dumb one, pregnant. And at this point abortion it's not viable as it is a few months in already. She's dumb as hell, and I don't want to have a kid with her and her genes, hell I don't want to even share anything with her at all. She tried to emotionally blackmail a few times, and she's that daddy's girl kind. I wish I never met her.
What are my options? I'm thinking of bailing out, but I don't know. I don't want to feel bad afterwards
So, I need help. Really, a lot of help
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1)When she sleeps force vodka down her throat in hopes of killing it
2) when sleeping stick hand up vag and crush skull
3) time machine
You don't seem particularly smart as well so maybe you could give her a try, chances are you two will get along
Bump
so, bailing out is my best option?
How many weeks? A surgical abortion may still be viable. Adoption is an option too, but she has to be down for that. Only thing you can do is convince her to miscarry by getting some misoprostol or whatever from the black market but that’s not very safe..she can also try naturally miscarrying but the longer you wait the more detrimental it may be to the baby. You might end up with a retarded baby. Worse comes to worse, you’re the absent father paying child support but that’s better than suffering every day in a relationship that makes u wanna kys
she's four months in I think. She already told me I wouldn't have to pay child support
Oh well then bail lmao
She’s about 1 week too late for a medical abortion I think
Why you two waited 4 months in the first place?
First, she stopped having her period. She did a pregnancy test and it came out negative. Her period didn't come back, so she went to the gynecologist. And it turns out she was pregnant, so I told her I wanted to abort, but she was scared of "dying", so she was willing to go through all of it and have the fucking bastard. I fucking hate her
You should try to get something in writing and signed from her that says she does not want child support because she might come after you with it later. Once you get that bail. Then if she comes after you later lawyer up and you should be safe. Also stop being a dumb ass.
to make things worse, I think she loves me. Even though I explicitly told her I was only fucking her and to not get attached to me
I'm going to do this
She has a greater chance of dying from giving birth than having an abortion. Especially in the US where the death toll of childbirth has been rising. Damn she is dumb lmfao
Death toll of mothers from childbirth* is what I meant to put, I gotta go to bed lol She should seriously consider adoption for the child’s sake, she does not seem like she would be fit as a single mother.
at this point I'd rather have the kid and not her around. Yes she is really dumb
Takes two to tango. You've got no options here; You'll be paying child support. Hope you wanted to be a father.
The chances of that being legally binding are questionable at most.
It isn't the end of the world if I have to, but I'd rather not. I think I can get away with it
Sounds like you might be meant for each other. Stick it out. Marry her and you can both mature in time. Man up and raise your child with her.
definiely not gonna do this
If shes dumb, manipulate her into thinking adoption was her idea.
You both would make awful parents anyway, so its the best decision.
step up and be a fucking man you little bitch. You stuck your dick in her and now the baby is your responsibility.
Nah fuck this. Bail OP. If she wants to keep it let her, it wasn't your choice.
It was his choice when he stuck his dick in her pussy. It takes to retards to make a baby
I thought it was unlikely that retards would be fertile?
Bullshit. He didn't decide to have a child so fuck it. Her problem if she wants to keep it.
I dunno OP, are you okay with having a son/daughter who will hate you forever? The only way to make this guilt free is to never ever see her again and cut contact with any person who knows her, as well as leaving social media because otherwise you'll end up seeing them or they'll find you.
If I were you and wanted to bail I'd change my name and move away. But I personally wouldn't, because I couldn't abandon my own kid like that.
Everytime you have sex there is a posibility that she might get pregnant. This is common sense. He willingly took that chance and now he is partially responsible. They don't have to be together but he has a moral responsibility to be a father.
No, he willingly had sex. It is partially his fault for not using a condom just in case, but who knows if the chick lied to him about birth control? And he isn't morally responsible to be the father, because he never wanted to be one in the first place. It's her responsibility to either realize the kid is going to have a fucked up life or abort it like a reasonable adult.
Kek, you're just as dumb then, she can't get pregnant on her own.
You're fucked. Take responsibility for your kid, jackass. Your child shouldn't have to pay for your terrible decisions. Be a fucking man and raise your child. This is all your fault. Don't let an innocent kid suffer because you don't feel like owning your child.
You're a cunt. There's a lot of things we don't want that we have to take responsibility for. Not wanting something to happen has nothing to do with whether or not we need to take responsibility for it. Someone has to own up to this, user. Asserting that this innocent kid should have to suffer without a father just because he doesn't feel like taking responsibility for where he decides to sling his sperm is a selfish, shitty, deranged thing to do. He made the choice, he took the risk and now he is obligated to take ownership of it. People like you are the reason shitty kids keep springing up all over the place. He is morally responsible. Through his actions he caused a pregnancy and now an innocent child is at stake. You're an idiot and a selfish asshole to suggest otherwise.
Parsley tea and vitamin C. Extreme amounts of these will induce a miscarriage. Mind you, it's dangerous and could get you in trouble for (attempted) murder.
take your morals to the church, I want my life back
No you are dumb. Idiot.
You are black arent you? Or Trailer trash. Same difference.
damn you americans sure have a racism issue
Hit and miss. Half russian half italian grown up in germany.
Get a lawyer and make her sign up an agreement in which she won't ask you to pay child support then.
>so, bailing out is my best option?
There is this last option...
>t. Nigger
Here's some advice: commit unalive.
Shouldn't have gave it away. Actions have consequences, there aren't always easy ways out.
See Kids!
This cunt right here is another example of why you never bail on condoms before 35!
You'll regret every minute of combining RAW with SmackDown before The Royal Rumble!
But hey, what do I know, I'm just a dumb virgin!
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