Evening anons

Evening anons
Which one is more likely in this scenario:
>good friends with someone of opposite sex
>occasional flirting and deep conversations
>about to leave shared environment (school) so stupidly tell them I have a crush on them
>they don't say anything about the crush but say they want to stay in touch
>exchange contacts
>never hear from them again
Which is more likely: they ghosted me or they think I don't want to talk with them because I never tried to contact them? For the record they were the ones who claimed that they wanted to stay in touch.

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Either. Also other options you apparently haven't considered. What's the real question/problem here?

>What's the real question/problem here?
Which one is more likely and how to solve it

>Which is more likely: they ghosted me or they think I don't want to talk with them because I never tried to contact them? For the record they were the ones who claimed that they wanted to stay in touch.
Yeah, no this is the typical non-commitment answer to blow you off, gently.
You blew it.
You don't confess, that shit is pedowood memes. You ask them out on a date and go for a kiss and intimacy on the date.

That is sad and disappointing. I was moving cities and asked them if they want to stay in touch and they enthusiastically said that yes and gave me their details. Why bother with lying in this situation when I gave them a way out myself. I don't get people.

It does take care of guilt.
You have to understand women are not confrontational and will give you these fake sympathies instead of being outright.

The person in question is male, and he was always very straightforward and honest, it's one of his asperger traits.

She ghosted you.
Also You should've just asked her out on a date, instead of directly telling her. For some reason some girls just like leading on people.

I'm sorry this happened to you. Honestly life would be better if all we had to do is bare our true feelings and we get what we want in return.

My advice is to move on and find another girl

See

>male

Well shit user. Does he not respond at all?

Also, be honest, are you ugly?

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I never messaged him. Which is why I'm not sure if his silence is caused by ghosting or if he thinks I don't want to talk to him. I think I'm ugly but he sometimes complimented my looks so maybe he doesn't hate how I look like.

Well shit user welcome to the world of liking an aspie. Just ask him out on a date.

If he's actually an aspie, he's probably not going to make the first move, so just make the first move for him and then when your on a date, literally tell him specifically that You want him to ask you out on a date.

Before any of that. Just ask him out via text or something. Dont be spontaneous, ask him when he's free and what day and time and make a plan. If he says no, the you have your answer.

But he used to initiate some of our conversations. And I did the first move by telling him that I like him.

Conversations arent the same as something big like a date or liking someone.

Also, just because you told him you liked him doesn't directly make it the first move, at least not to an aspie. For him its something like a given, kinda, its sort of like an obvious thing that needs to be out of the way in order for the rest of the relationship to work.

The real first move is to ask him out.

He is a high-functioning aspie so I'm not sure what to make of it. And asking him on a date when we haven't spoken to each other for almost a year is out of question.

>a year

user...its time to move on.
I thought this was like a month or a week or something.

You can try rekindling affection by texting him how he's been. But if he responds normally without a hint of affection, you'll have your answer.

What would count as a hint of affection?

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Ghosted for sure

If he wants to see you.
Or if he wants to hang out or go on a date.

But if it just ends up with you two talking ober text. Its done