Besides becoming fit, how else do I become intimidating so people stop making fun of me? I am not ugly or anything...

Besides becoming fit, how else do I become intimidating so people stop making fun of me? I am not ugly or anything, just have a little bit of the 'tism and have been a pushover.

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The best way is to not put up with it.
Tell them in a serious manner to back off and that it's not funny.
If they keep doing it, simply avert them of your presence.

Avert them of my presence?

Literally give no fucks.
If someone fucks with you give them a fair warning that you will do something.
If they keep fucking with you just get up and do it.
One time someone was fucking with me so i said if you do that again i will make sure to ruin your day. This was at one of those formal parties. So this asshole kept talking a bunch of shit. I came up to him stared him straight in the eyes and spilled a glass of wine all over his head.
I got kicked out but i was way worth it. That guy never fucked with me again and he was way bigger than me.
Don't let people fuck with you and if they do make them have a bad day that way they will learn.
Death before dishonor.

People can make fun of you even if you're intimidating. I'm assuming you're still in high school or whatever and people will make fun of anyone for whatever reason they can.

Back in the day some kids were like egging me on to actually shoot up the school like "haha go on marilyn manson show us how dark you really are where's your gun I bet you have terrible aim and get scared of the noise too"

They'll also make fun of each other too, it doesn't have to make any sense. This one kid from some tropical island would always make fun of another kid who was from central America like "haha you crossed the border did you ride a donkey you're so brown haha" even though he was as much of an immigrant as him.


People will stop making fun of you if you show confidence and self-respect. They make fun of you? Make fun of them right back. Make fun of them for no reason at any time. They're just words.

Only if they get physical then do you have the right to also physically defend yourself.

>Tell them in a serious manner to back off and that it's not funny.

Literally the worst thing to do next to like "tell the teacher" or "be his friend!".

They'll just say that it is funny and that you're funny and keep making fun of you lol

Fight them.

>Besides becoming fit, how else do I become intimidating so people stop making fun of me?
Thus is pointless. You won't prevent people from making fun of you by intimidating them, you need to learn to roll with it and playfully hit them back. It's part of normal socialization and if you can't do this then things will be even worse.

Something i learned early on : NO ONE will fuck with you if they think you are crazy.

I'm in college, how can I build my confidence?

I would like to avoid fights, I would win in most of them although I would prefer not to fight at all, self defense is ok
I don't want anything to do with their jokes
Not a solution I could use

>I would like to avoid fights, I would win in most of them although I would prefer not to fight at all, self defense is ok
I am the guy with the wine story.
I can see why people fuck with you, because they know you are a teddy bear that can get fucked with.
Fights are ok if you are beating down assholes.
Also i never said anything about starting a fight. You provoke them to fight you than you use your self defense if they try anything.
I found spilling something on people is the best way to put them in their place, just make sure to have that crazy i will tear you apart look in your eye when you do.
This scene from ROME should show you what to do. youtube.com/watch?v=f1IQicmIiXM

This, when people want to start shit just go honey badger on them. Dirty fighting: go straight for the eyes/testicles.

>I don't want anything to do with their jokes
Then don't hang out with them. If you're so autistic that you don't even want to be sociable then you don't have to, but nobody's gonna like you for it.

ITT: a bunch of autists can't handle jokes and don't understand human interaction.

I would rather "not handle jokes" than have some asshole passively aggressively make fun of me.
People have become really pussy in this century that is why shit like "cyber bullying" is a thing.
I don't think you understand human interaction.
You are probably one of those guys that stands there smiling while some shits on them and fucks their girlfriend. "Don't worry the dick in her ass is just joke."

OP here, this goes a little farther than just human interaction, these people look down on me.

It is because you are such a pussy.
Why does it matter if you get in a fight.
Call them out on their shit and fuck them up if they get out of place.

>bullying people is a joke
Don't mess with me man, I'm LOCO.

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In that case stop being around them. You don't like them and they don't like you.

>I would rather "not handle jokes" than have some asshole passively aggressively make fun of me.
They're not "passive aggressively making fun of you" they're shooting the shit and trying to be friendlybut you're too autisticto understand.
>People have become really pussy in this century that is why shit like "cyber bullying" is a thing.
You'rethe one who's such a pussy that he literally feels threatened by jokes.
>I don't think you understand human interaction.
Ironic.
>You are probably one of those guys that stands there smiling while some shits on them and fucks their girlfriend. "Don't worry the dick in her ass is just joke."
You're probably one of those guys who explodes into an autistic fit of rage when someone jokes about his relationship.

I am a very calm person. I don't explode into any rage.
I just don't take bullshit from people hence i am never in a situation like OP is in now.

I mainly deal with these people at an organization I am a part of, I have been thinking about quitting and joining another one for a while and I may just do that, I got plenty of friends so I don't think that the problem is necessarily me. The culture at this organization is based around arrogance, many of these people are stuck up.

Yeah I'd leave. The workplace culture is almost as important as the pay imo.

They do it because they see weakness in you.
Just take my advice and stop being a pussy.
This guy is just going to get you to quit your job because he is probably just as pussy as you.

literally wear a knife, it has to have a blade of at least 5 inches
no striped anything you stripey
ditch the solid and the graphic tee vibe
toss out your camo and your cargo pants
that should get rid of 50% of your autism.
That is if you don't sperg out in denial of my wisdom.

also learn to self defend

Bruh I'm and
There's a difference between getting joshed and not being respected. If op's correct and they actually look down on him or he simply doesn't like the culture then he should leave. But all the other faggots in this thread are just fantasizing about escalating from casual joking to getting in a fight because they actually can't tell the difference.

HE literally said it is not casual joking.
They are legit harassing him and he is taking it like a bitch.
Even if they are not he feels like they are and is not doing anything.
There is a difference between people laughing with you and people laughing at you, you should learn it.

Him leaving his job because he can't handle that would be the most pussy thing ever. Your advice is literal shit. You are telling him to run away because he feels threatened. I am telling him to fight back and give no fucks.
OP is obviously a faggot so he will probably take your advice.

There's a difference and the important part is that if they're laughing with him then he's overreacting and if they're laughing at him he needs to get a new job. That's all. Anyone suggesting he fight them or something is being retarded.

Its a volunteer organization
how do I stop being a pussy? How do I become a man?
Don't have many striped shirts apart from dress shirts, no camo anything. Can't carry a knife longer than 3 inches where I live legally.
Its more than just casual joking they actively look down on me and trash talk me, 90% of the things said about me are gossip behind my back, and I don't know how to stop it or make them respect me.

Its a volunteer organization, I would leave and join another one
So what do you recommend I do?

>if they're laughing at him he needs to get a new job
So you are telling him to leave his job because other people are assholes.
Good advice....

>You are telling him to run away because he feels threatened. I am telling him to fight back and give no fucks.
Nigga I'm telling him to run away because he feels threatened. If he can't take it he's going to look like a bitch regardless, fighting back or running away doesn't make a difference. The only "manly" option is to take it like a man. If you're getting into fights over that shit you're just a different kind of pussy.

>So you are telling him to leave his job because other people are assholes.
Yes. What's he gonna do? Get them all fired? That's the adult equivalent of running to the teacher. If he can't stand the heat he needs to leave.

I don't feel threatened, nobody there respects me and its irritating. Everyone looks down on me, while I would prefer to stay I might leave if I have to.