my gf and I recently lost our virginity to each other. before that, she had sent me nudes but wouldn't let me do much in person. in the nudes, her vagina looked like a cute little inny, but in person her inny start to protrude once shes aroused and it becomes quite an outey. not full on horrible beef curtains but somewhat close. they feel unattractive enough that I went half mass instead of fully stiff. The worst part is when I go down on her, my tongue is rather small and it just -feels- gag inducing having to slip my tongue between the lips trying to find her clit. I know this is all mental, her lips/curtains aren't gonna hurt me in anyway, but I just cant get over it. what do I do?
tl;dr: I love my gf but I'm a shallow cunt and her "vaginal curtains" turn me off. how do I get over it?
It's possible that you and she just might not be sexually compatible. You could just not do oral sex on her. That sucks for her, but you could try & find something else she likes instead.
Ryder Gutierrez
Poor gf. There is literally nothing you can do. Only shock therapy
Hudson King
Pussy
Joseph Martinez
I want to though, its her favorite. I just cant do it for long
Sebastian Rodriguez
If you have a strong preference for pussy condition right now and she doesn't fit your preferences, leave her. It wont get better. Move on.
Ryan Allen
I'm not gonna leave my gf over her pussy shape dude
Chase Perez
dump her, she deserves better.
Benjamin Harris
have you asked her to try bofa?
Charles Clark
if she decides that then she can break up on her own there are more important things than sex in a relationship, I just wanted some lighthearted advice on this moderately small issue bofa?
>in person her inny start to protrude once shes aroused and it becomes quite an outey.
Do americans not have sex ed
That is what a vagina does when the girl is aroused. Deal with it or be gay.
>The worst part is when I go down on her, my tongue is rather small and it just -feels- gag inducing having to slip my tongue between the lips trying to find her clit.
Guaranteed you're also looking for her clit in the wrong place.
Sebastian Martinez
you can type something constructive at any time
Robert Hughes
Ok, if you really love her and want to get over this, a big thing you can do is stop watching porn or limiting it if you watch a lot. It gives unrealistic expectations over time. Guys who have been with a lot of girls irl don’t give a fuck what a girl’s pussy looks likis because they’ve already seen it all. Porn showcases a very specific look and type of vagina which can make you think anything outside of that look is abornal or “disgusting” when it really isn’t. Its normal, natural and you’ll get over it eventually if you stop comparing her to other women.
You don't have to do anything. I personally love pussy. Innies, outies, all kinds. In fact sounds like you hit the jackpot, an innie that turns into an outie, the best of both worlds. I like eating out girls with curtians too, gives u something to suck and nibble on, and searching for the clit can be like playing a game. Tell you what since you seem like a swell guy I'll cut you a deal. I'll fuck your gf for you and you can go back to your celibate life any never have to worry about touching her vag ever again. Win win for everyone
Brandon Taylor
That bubble needs to be burst. There is no such thing as an "innie" adult vagina. The sooner he learns and accepts that the better for everyone
Nolan Reed
>slip my tongue between the lips trying to find her clit
i just noticed this and i can’t stop laughing
Nathaniel Ortiz
thats good advice. I'm trying to cut back and eventually quit altogether... thats actually a good mentality to have, at least for the first half of your post. I'm not white so I'm gonna have to politely decline seems logical
Hudson Peterson
Please have your way with me.
Carson Robinson
>I'm not white so I'm gonna have to politely decline
Explains a lot. I noticed ethnic men are trash at oral. Like it's beneath them or something..
D...dj Khaled is that you??
Austin Watson
lolfag
Brandon Gray
Have agree with OP that his GF:s vagina disgusts me.
Isaac Rogers
Welcome to the real world, kiddo. Now you know what vaginas are actually like in real life instead of your fantasies.
Nolan Morales
You are one bitch ass faggot.
Carson Gonzalez
This. As always, OP is a faggot.
Aiden Rogers
Lel. That's just a normal vagoo. It's basically impossible to find an innie attached to a woman you like and who likes you back.
You'll care less about this sort of stuff as you get older
Of all the goddamn things in the world to bitch about. A vagina.
Do men even exist anymore?
Noah Gray
Why did innie become the standard? I mean, naturally a woman's labia becomes larger and darker as she enters puberty and more hormones are secreted, so why is it so shunned nowadays? Same with pubic hair, all of these things are indications of fertility and that a girl is sexually mature.
Jose Powell
How old are you? You sound like a degenerate porn loving teenager.
It's normal for women to not have "innies" when they're aroused. Also, most thots in porn get surgery to get those 12 year old looking cunts. Grow up and stop being a retard, or just dump your gf so she can find someone better.
man the fuck up and love her for who she is. you both chose each other, stick with it. Don't forget to tell her this so you can come to a consensus, unless she's a crazy bitch (most are)
Leo Hall
You're probably just a faggot
Justin Jackson
You break up and find yourself a nice boy to be gay with.
