We met at 19 and 15 years old, lived through our 20s with plenty of partying and traveling, and both feel it's time to settle down.
I have been excited for this day for years, but the reality of the lifestyle changes I will have to make is hitting me like a brick wall. How do I prevent my child from growing up to be a degenerate piece of shit? How do I prevent family and friends from uploading my child's picture online without seeming like a fucking nutcase? How do I hide my hate for jews and niggers? Stop making perverted remarks? Not swear every other word? Deal with cucks trying to brainwash? The list goes on..
We are financially stable and I have no concern about waifu leaving me for gibs. So I have that going for me, but the lifestyle change is scaring the fuck out of me.
Always be honest with your child. Lying, even for good intentions, can be damaging. I find that children rebel often because they become disillusioned with the false reality their parents have presented.
Jeremiah Martinez
Luckily there are traditional women out there that would never destroy their family for money. They're few and far between, but I found one, faggot. I suggest you do the same.
Get the cunt on Jow Forums soon as they can read and they'll grow up to be a fine person, (just keep them away from all the weeb boards and r9k)
Anthony Green
follow your instinct when needing to drop subtle pills. offer counter truths to lessons they bring home so they learn to question for themselves. you will do fine and congrats
i hope wholeheartedly your child grows up to be the gayest slut that ever lived. like sucking cock at 13 and doing everything that makes him or her happy without caring about your bullshit
Also: get off this site and talk to normal people. i assume it'll go away on its own
Go back to plebbit you cuck faggot. Wishing misfortune on a fellow anons unborn child shows you're miserable and jealous that you will never experience the happiness that I will soon have. Go to/r9k/, hang a tarp, and blow your pathetic face all over the wall. God I fucking hate Europe and everyone in it
Luke Collins
sigh, good luck with it all bro. I suggest you ask your fathers and grandfathers for advice since I can't give non, well, take your son/daughter to the mountains with you.
Cameron Hernandez
>How do I prevent my child from growing up to be a degenerate piece of shit?
Have a boy
Cameron Ross
Op, as a self professed degenerate, you must understand that if you have a daughter she is more or less fucked in most cases. There is not nothing you can do mind, but please understand the law is not on your side.
The biggest and best bet you have is home schooling. do not be fooled by (((them))). home schooling is actually superior. I imagine home schooling used to be shit because only spics and niggers used to do it. now with the internet, and the rise of the 30 year old boomer, there has never been a better time to not send your daughteru into a den of nogs and horny kids.
Second. if daughter, teach your daughter the value of men. Don't necissarily tell her she cant be anything she wants to be, instead confront her with the reality of the obstacles. For example, if you raise her to understand that women should not be in politics, confront her with the expectation that if/when the government decides _everyone_ doesn't get a voice the only way to disagree is with weaponry women are mostly engaged in banning and otherwise not arming themselves with. Kids are stubborn and short attention span but they aren't stupid. shes not going to want to be given a voice just so she can be jewed out of her other inalienable rights that you, her father, are determined to protect.
Basically wherever possible guide children by setting them up for success. IF you gate in an animal and trap it and leave it no recourse its going to fucking rebell. all children are going to buck you. The trick is to get them to rebell in the right way.
watch your happiness fade away when you realize you won't be able to control your child the way you picture it. they will fuck when they want to. they will drink or take drugs when they want to. funniest thing would be a gay kid though, you'd really deserve that
Adrian Ortiz
It's going to be the best thing that's ever happened to you. Congratulations.
Aaron Hernandez
What a disgusting pedo. You shouldnt be attracted to 15 year olds at 19 fucking freak. Gas yourself.
>adult preying on a child >worried about someone else being a degenerate
I've got bad news, user
Hudson Cooper
No, but do your best to get him or her into a Christian school as soon as you can.
Jacob Davis
It’s not yours. She fucked a Muslim.
Brayden Hill
Get a paternity test. If not yours, gj. You can dump the slut. If it's yours, you're fucked. She will cheat on you eventually. Probably already has. Women have to be chained inside the house.
Jaxon Long
As demoralizing as ever.
Ian Campbell
The Fuck ? That's me being optimistic
Brandon Walker
Your priorities will shift quite severely once the child is actually out of the womb. It's going to be the most important thing in your life, and you'll feel all these concerns slide away as though they were nothing to start with.
It is going to be hard to raise a child to follow your lifestyle and beliefs when so much of it goes the other way, but that's a practical problem which you'll sort out as you go. If you can homeschool that's probably the best way.
I don't really support your lifestyle, but good luck anyway.
Carson Bell
Unironically move to Saudi Arabia or some other ultra conservative country where women have no rights Only trade off is she's more likely to get raped in these countries to factor that in to your decision Best of luck with your family senpai
I don't think that happens as much in KSA or the UAE. I think that's more in the nigger countries like Pakistan and England
Carter Thomas
Daighter is the biger problem here. Be there for your kids. Start teaching them to read and write when tey turn 3. It will make them smarter. Do a hobby together like boxing or swimming. They will ask you all the time about the world. Try to answer them all and drop redpills in between. You have to cultivate them to be based. Most sluts who "rebel" and suck tyrones dick, have fathers that didnt give a fuck about them and wasnt in her live. When she asked something he didnt answer. He told her to shut up because he wants to watch his favorite show while drinking beer. When she brings tyrone home to fuck, she will just brush her father off as a racist retard.
William Myers
He's right you know
Camden Cox
I’m in the same boat user >beautiful white wife with Dutch ancestry >nice house >good jobs all around both salaried avg 100k+ a year (Florida no biggie) But yea the lifestyle change is giving me a fucking tumor, I had an exstisential crisis after watching synecdoche, New York and the realization hit me so hard. Best thing to do is talk to experienced individuals who have raised good kids to get some insight, read books I’ve got a couple and more importantly, if it’s a boy talk to your father. If it’s a girl don’t bother and raise her like you would a white rhino. Keep her away from everything social and show her good Christian values. Other than that it’s a free for all man no one has an answer proven by science on how to raise kids you just kinda do and hope they don’t find the degenerate crap that causes so many kids to stray from the right path. Good luck!
Owen Sullivan
Eh my lifestyle isn't what it used to be. We stopped being destructive 2 or 3 years ago. At this point, I'm more worried that I'll strangle the first Marxist fucboi trying to warp them. Along with my inability to sugar coat how disgusting the world is, I'm not sure how to raise them properly without making them bitter or isolating themselves when they are old enough to hate everyone. My dad died when I was 14 and my mother turned into a severe alcoholic. I just want to give my child the life I couldnt have, really.
Grayson Long
You're going to do amazing, and you're going to have many beautiful children. Don't be overbearing. You can try to redpill your kid but don't force anything because it's in the nature of kids to rebel. Lead by example and spend out doors time with them.
The idiot insulting Europe is another D&Cer, by the way. Don't take it personally. Half the "American" flags on here are paid zogbots.
Lincoln Brooks
Really bad advice. How old are you? Hope they dont find degenerate crap? Ofcourse they are going to find that crap 5 minutes after they first connected to the internet.
Robert Bailey
this.
Luke Bailey
Be a good father. Congratulations, btw!
Ayden Collins
It’s called firewall and safety guards silly kraut c’mon man plus I’m tech savvy so I know how to block off this garbage site and other ones like it to make sure my boy NEVER finds this shithole and gets sucked into the pathetic vacuum of hate and misery that comes with being here everyday. You research this stuff like a smart adult so silly germans can’t call you out I’m 29 btw :) how old are you? Where’s your wife? How’s your house doing? How’s your finances? Did you complete something worth your life? No.
Sebastian Kelly
Thanks leaf. Hopefully I can pump out like 9 more if this one goes well.
Connor Nguyen
It’s gonna be okay man, don’t get so caught up in making sure your child carries every single belief you have. Remember we’re all individuals. Just don’t let him be a faggot
Landon Green
You pump in, your future wife pumps out
Aiden Ortiz
Liberal = Faggot
That's the issue
Jaxson Torres
15 year old fucks a an 11 year old >But it's only 4 years difference!
Connor Jenkins
Exactly. 4 years diff is nothing.
Landon Scott
That's literally nothing
Ethan Evans
If you live in America, watching local nightly news with the kid is a redpill. Limit tv, but not too much; it's better to point out what's wrong with what your watching than totally restrict because they will learn what they see on tv isn't the gospel truth. Make sure to compliment them for their skin color, tell them they have pretty pale skin, what lovely blue eyes, what lovely straight hair etc. As they get older and understand about marriage, tell them they should seek those sorts of traits in the people they date if they want kids that look like them. Always portray getting married and kids in a positive light (but be realistic about it), do not encourage your daughters to spend their 20s "finding themselves". Play classical music in the house, have western art on the walls. Make them like European culture. Spend time with them. When they start getting to teenager years you can probably start to show them things like IQ maps etc but also warn them they can't just talk about that sort of stuff in public because they will be punished. If your public school doesn't have a good rating, charter schools are an option (as is homeschooling but that's not possible for every family). It is important to directly talk to your kids about various things and explain why they shouldn't do x,y, or z. Don't outright forbid stuff without giving a clear explanation why.
I am a mother, my husband is only the second guy I've dated and I've never cheated on him nor will, so the boys in this thread saying women all cheat, aren't correct and are as bad as women who say that about men. You may have some difficulties adjusting, but both you and your wife need to remember how much lonelier it would be in old age if you didn't have children. Plus what a service you are doing to society. When it comes to babies, the days are long and the years are short, so enjoy it. Also make sure your wife doesn't helicopter, it causes burnt out. Have fun and have many kids!
Austin Fisher
Muslims forcibly rape and murder swedish women >its their culture to rape and murder! You cant possibly expect them to NOT rape my daughter, can you?
Carson Brown
>pregnant fiancé >How do I prevent my child from growing up to be a degenerate piece of shit?
Shouldn’t have had premarital sex, you degenerate. Hope you don’t mind having 20 different Jamal’s raise your baby when your soon to be wife divorces you and takes all your money.
Jacob Garcia
You're a man now user. You'll figure it out, you'll raise a good kid and you'll have a happy family because you won't let yourself do anything but.
Lincoln Ward
>my fiance is pregnant >been together forever >financially stable wtf is wrong man, is it not yours?
Alexander Ward
Never in a rush to marry, engaged last year but everything has been hectic so haven't followed through. We love each other and don't need to get the gubment involved in our relationship? Idk, didnt even consider it until recently.
Mason Bennett
>don't need to get the gubment involved if anything you get reduced taxes a kid is another tick in the dependencies coloumn raise the kid right and send him to vocational school (electrical) he'll thank you later.
Mason Phillips
Idk man seems like single moms rake it in while their married counterpart have to earn it
Michael Campbell
single moms may get alimony/child support and kickbacks from the state/federal, but they hardly rake it in. majority of single moms see a paycheck for $1400 and then go out and buy a $1399 purse. they should hardly be granted the privilege of your thought process.
Ryan Moore
I'm really proud of you user. You'll figure it out, and you're going to make a great dad. Just remember to love them, and guide their hand steady through life.
Ian Walker
This, don't let your wife helicopter either. I know from personal experience how bad it is.
Matthew Morris
May be different where you are, but I have the unfortunate fate of living in a blue state. Single moms get free health, food, housing assistance, and huge sums of money from tax returns. My scumbag sister didnt work a single day last year and ended up with a return over 10k. I had to pay over 5k for running a small ebay business on the side. Even after wagecuck earnings.
The system is fully rigged to reward broken homes.
Parker Watson
shut up and teach your kid 1488 way, seriously
Logan Smith
I hope my kid does all the good drugs I just want them to be happy
Jaxson Diaz
yeah you are right, it does vary state to state. if you can help it, regardless of your political affiliation, get out of the blue state, the taxes and cost of living are always higher for the average joe because of people like your sister.
Alexander Lewis
>college sophomore >dating high school sophomore
You were already degenerate senpai
Luke Jackson
First of all, congratulations brother. I remember being in your shoes once years ago and I remember the fear. Take a deep breath. You're okay.
Second, literally the best thing you can do for yourself, your marriage, and your child is to raise them in a Biblical church with a healthy fear of the Lord. The Scripture contains all the answers you need to raise your child. If you're ignorant of it now make it your job not to be.
Good luck brother. >t. former atheist degenerate, now God fearing father of three
Brandon Rodriguez
I was actually a homeless high school dropout when we met. I am now a college graduate with a rewarding career and a beautiful pregnant 27 year old that sleeps on my shoulder every night.
Her and her family quite possibly saved my life. Does that 3.5 year difference really matter at this point?
Nope. Couldnt have turned out any better.
Thanks bro. You give me hope that I wont fuck this up. Congrats on the family to you as well, living the dream
Jack Smith
That's the goal. I'm just not sure how attainable it will be with a child. Maybe when they're a couple years old and I'm not dependant on family and friends to babysit. The field I'm in pays much higher in other parts of the country, so if moving makes daycare affordable, I'll be out of this shithole.
Owen Taylor
Kek what a massive fag. How does it feel to have aids
