User just discovered hes kinky af

now i have some concerns. is there any chance i might find a kinky girl who isnt:
1. a slut
2. fucked in the head

or am i being unrealistic?

if im not being unrealistic, is there any other catch to kinky girls that im unaware of?

(pic unrelated but i wish it was)

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>Isn't a slut and is into kinky shit
How do you think she got into that shit user? Anyone who is kinky were either
A: Influenced by a past bf
or
B: Are fucked in the head because truth be told, kinky shit is pretty fucking weird (I say this as someone who's also kinky, not being judgmental).

The only way you'll get a kinky girl is if you find someone who is vanilla but submissive and loves to please you. Then you can work your kinks into your sex life.

What are you even talking about when you say "kinky"? BDSM I assume? If so, eh, lots of people into that, from all walks of life. Especially if you're into maledom. The issue is less them existing and more recognizing them for also being into this. But some flirting should help there.

"Being kinky" is just desensitization from watching too much porn. Stop fapping and go to church

>A: Influenced by a past bf
this is fine by me i guess but id prefer she had it on her own. are they generally the harmless kind of fucked in the head? or the 'burn your house and fuck your friend' kind? im fine with the first, im not exactly a normie either

lots of shit
and yeah, im a male dom so i guess i should be fine?
>more recognizing them for also being into this. But some flirting should help there.
agreed, but how? my kinks are weird as shit (im into hypnosis for example)

Hypnosis isn't that weird. It might not be the first thing for many to think of, but anyone who's into following orders and lowering their self control (MANY people) has potential to be into hypnosis.

Also there's a big difference between not being able to meet every single need with a girl, and missing out on stuff you need to be able to be satisfied with your sex life. If your most important kinks revolve around dominating women that is pretty much the easiest one to find a partner for.

>but how?
Other people are also intensely aware of their turn ons. If you have a personal, preferably tipsy conversation going you can throw in a playful "you like it when I give you orders?" if she comments on you needing to decide/having decided upon something for you. Or if she asks you what you're going to take when making her mind up (at a bar or restaurant) you can ask if she likes to delegate a lot in her life. If she asks if you like dancing give a cheery "I love to lead".
Look at it like wolf whistles. If a girl is not paying attention to the aspect of dominance because it's not her thing, 99% surely she won't notice or think you made a kind of random joke. If she is, she'll know what's up. And you can get away with saying a lot as long as you're vague and act confident and matter of fact about it. People look for a huge part to your demeanor/body language for deciding if something is weird.

how kinky are we talking? I'm sure if she likes you enough she would be willing to experiment at least to some degree.

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man, thats some subtle shit. thanks for the advice brah

very. and experimenting is cool, but id rather find a girl who is already kinky (its weird but thats how it is). not saying im not open to a non-kinky girl that will experiment: its just a preference.

God I love being a degenerate. Why are people so closed minded when it comes to sex? I dont understand vanilla people at all.

im not the religious type brah