Seduction

Any people good with flirting or seduction ?
I want to get this guy I met online
He is like most Jow Forums guys- a bit autistic and specific so he is shy and not into slutty behaviors
I met him online but we are friends now and before I see him in real life I want to start making him see me as a love interest
I'm not interested in a LDR but I have to get him into me before going to his country
So
How to seduce a guy with the distance ?

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Be his fantasy.
It‘s easy.
Guys want you to have solid moral values and losen them up „just for them“.
Makes him feel like a million bucks. So let him work his ass off to „losen you up“. You dictate the pace. The harder he works for it the more he‘ll value it. Don‘t forget to throw him a morcel here and there so he won‘t lose hope.

There's really no seduction when it comes to men. Male attraction is different from female attraction, ours is like a light switch, not a dial. We have already made a decision on rater or not we would fuck you within the first 5 minutes of meeting you. That can change for some guys, if you show signs your into them, they will change there mind and fuck you anyway, even if they aren't really attracted to you.

When you’re seducing a guy, you should play to their alpha or beta nature.

Alpha men prefer you directly appeal to the sexual instinct. Flirting, saying subtle sexual stuff, massaging his ego, etc. Make him feel like a sex god acquiring another notch.

When you’re trying to seduce a beta guy, appeal to his provider nature. Act cute & vulnerable rather than sexy. Play up your perceived innocence and sensitivity. Let him help you with shit you don’t actually need help with so you can praise him as such a good, capable, chivalrous man. Betas eat that shit up.

>He is like most Jow Forums guys- a bit autistic and specific so he is shy and not into slutty behaviors
Jesus, if you believe that you haven't been here long enough. Be slutty if you have to, but just towards him.

Pic may not help but I've been looking for an excuse to post it.

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This too

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We’re not talking about wolves, nigger

If you're around a legit Alpha, you're not going to be able to control how you act. You are going to be sucked into his masculine polarity naturally. And you're going to respond to that polarity by acting super feminine. You're going to giggle ans smile, you're whole tone and demeanor is going to change. You will respond to him.

Why do anyone want to be an alpha then?
Seems like helping her out with shit is much more fun.

Hey guys can you please stop alpha beta discussion

Why? It's relevant to OP's question.

You don't really pick, you're either more alpha, or you're more beta. You're more masculine, or you're more feminine. You're natural leader, or you're a natural follower.
A real "Alpha" though will always be the person in the social situation that everyone is responding to, both men and women. If you're a legit alpha, random dudes will want to be your best friend, and random women will want to be you're girlfriend. There's no way to turn it off, and it's not anything you do directly, it just sort of happens. If you study for years, you might be able to mimic Alpha behavior, and use it to convince drunk women to sleep with you, but thats as far as your gonna get. Alphas are born not made.

If he is what you claim he is then all you need is average looks and he'll already be into you, he'd at least want to fuck you but if he actually likes you and likes talking to you then you might as well just ask him if he wants you to be his gf and he'll say yes in a heartbeat.

Women are different to guys in that sense. You like playing games and hinting at shit, we want you to be direct. The guy knows he would fuck a girl within minutes of meeting her, he would consider a relationship with her if she doesn't do anything thats a turn off for the guy, for a certain amount of time after they meet to make sure she is what she appeared to be at the start. If you don't go out of your way to make him jealous, if you don't openly flirt with other guys with him knowing about it, if you don't come across as a slut then he'd date you.

do guys like women who initiate stuff ?

Being the sort of guy as described in original post, yes, I'd love if the girl was the one to initiate stuff, takes the pressure of me and I'll know she likes me instead of me wondering forever if she does. I'm shit at picking up hints or realize them too late so her initiating stuff would eliminate that. At the beginning only tho, later if I know she likes me I'd like to get opportunities to initiate things myself just so I don't feel "weak" in her eyes, like she has to do everything for me and I only agree to things, I want her to know I can be fun and that I can take initiative so she can count on me if need be

>not into slutty behaviors

gay

Or with some standards. Guys who like casual slutty antics with random women are trash.

The post in the quote is only partially true. The alpha/beta/omega dynamic remains true of wolves forced into captivity, but not the wild where packs are where they are almost completely familial like the post says.

Come on people

Don't twist and turn to get a guy to bone you so you can rationalize visiting him.
What happened to serendipity?

This made me sad, OP.

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this is true

what ?I don't want him to bone him
I want him to fall for me

Eye contact and friendly conversation should convince him that you love him

Are you going to move there for him alone?