Do all women cheat?
All the married women in my office constantly talk about how sexy other men are, how much they want to be dominated by other men, openly flirting with attractive coworkers, etc.
Is monogamy a meme? Am I a gullible fool for believing in it in the first place?
Not even trying to make an anti-women shitpost, I’m genuinely curious.
>Do all women cheat?
No, not even most women cheat.
>All the married women in my office constantly talk about how sexy other men are, how much they want to be dominated by other men, openly flirting with attractive coworkers, etc.
That's completely normal work husband/work wife behavior. It's also totally healthy to be in a committed relationship and still be able to admit and be open about finding other people attractive. A healthy committed relationship recognizes that just because you're monogamous doesn't mean desire goes away, and it's healthy to acknowledge it.
>Is monogamy a meme?
Probably. Perfect lifelong monogamy is definitely a meme. Fuck I'd say it's even a little healthy to have a little bit of side action going on for both people in a relationship, so long as everyone's on the same ball, and consents.
>Am I a gullible fool for believing in it in the first place?
No, you just have unrealistic expectations of what a committed monogamous relationship means.
Men cheat too. When I was younger and had less morals I used to have fun “testing” guys I knew had girlfriends or wives by flirting with them and acting interested. Almost all of them went for it or were at least tempted. I’d say maybe 2 guys out of 20 gave me a solid “No, I love my girlfriend.”
Not OP, but
I can find lots of girls attractive. But besides whether it's appropriate to express publicly, besides whether it would hurt your partner's feelings, what is point of doing so unless you're such a narcissit that you just speak in a stream of consciousness whatever comes to mind. It sounds like the cousin of "ihavesex", like congratulations.
I don't tell me friends, "Aw shit bro look at that girl over there, you see, I would totally BANG her."
It's not a conversation, it's just unfiltered noise.
How it is unreasonable to have people keep pointless thoughts to themselves, especially in the workplace.
>That's completely normal work husband/work wife behavior.
its completely normal thot behaviour my friend.
behold the thot.
>I’d say maybe 2 guys out of 20 gave me a solid “No, I love my girlfriend.”
>2 out of 20
>2 out of 20
>2 out of 20
Not
>1 out of 10
C'mon
>what is a quick way to express sample size
>I used to manipulate people for fun
I hope you live a shitty, unfulfilling life.
>Do all women cheat?
do all men cheat? have you cheated or attempted to cheat? you can't generalize people like this.
>All the married women in my office constantly talk about how sexy other men are, how much they want to be dominated by other men, openly flirting with attractive coworkers, etc.
i see it happen too, and i try to be the one to remind them that they're in a relationship and shouldn't try to push their boundaries. even if i sound like a dick, they can't argue with a guilty conscience. but that's also the time where they'll start to complain about their s/o that they've settled for and are too afraid to leave.
>Is monogamy a meme? Am I a gullible fool for believing in it in the first place?
cheating happens when a relationship is stale and unhappy.
i can tell you that every time i see someone scouting for potential "side fun" it's because of a core issue in their relationship or because of low self esteem. too many people "settle" in a relationship or don't bother to work things out because they valued time/ego/status/money/whatever over genuine compatibility and communication.
there are honest, mature, and genuinely good people out there but you gotta try to become the person you want to date in order to find like-minded individuals.
>not averaging your sample size to the lowsest fraction
It's okay to sound stupid sometimes , you still sound like a "clever girl".
>behold the thot
I mean I never actually slept with any of them, just led them on and and then told them they were trash when they fell for it.
You're destined to be someone's 2nd wife one day.
lies, i bet you jerked off each one in the stationary cupboard with your mouth. not hard to guess what kind of pie you like.
You work at a low-class workplace.
>Do all women cheat?
No. Neither do all men. But we're all hardwired to be sluts anyway.
>All the married women in my office constantly talk about how sexy other men are, how much they want to be dominated by other men, openly flirting with attractive coworkers, etc.
>And men don't do this? Idiots have problems in their relationships, and instead of fixing the problem, they look elsewhere and throw away what they've got.
>Is monogamy a meme?
Yes and no. It works when it's enforced through social life. Unfortunately, it hasn't been for years now.
>Am I a gullible fool for believing in it in the first place?
Yes and no, see above. Unfortunately, the Age of the Slut is well upon us. A few generations from now it'll cycle back to monogamy and working relationships with family units again.
Yes, its mostly a facade. Some stick to the plan, some don’t. Humans still make human decisions.
Get married because you feel its right.
Not because you feel pressured to.
>Do all women cheat?
No, not even most women.
>All the married women in my office constantly talk about how sexy other men are, how much they want to be dominated by other men, openly flirting with attractive coworkers, etc.
That's not cheating. It might be inappropriate, but it's not cheating.
>Is monogamy a meme?
No. If you think you will never feel physical attraction for anyone else then yeah, your idea of monogamy is a bit of a meme. But otherwise, no.
>Am I a gullible fool for believing in it in the first place?
No.
>Fuck I'd say it's even a little healthy to have a little bit of side action going on for both people in a relationship, so long as everyone's on the same ball, and consents.
I agree with the rest of your post, but this is just retarded
the fuck, at my work everybody is a fucking saint no drama, kids, good mothers, id fucking demolish their asses but they are so, uh, they are so unflirty i would rather not risk losing my job over trying to fuck a milf
Is it though?
I mean, I'm not saying go full-force cuck and start letting niggers fuck your wife. But I think it's healthy to accept and recognize that your significant other is human, they're going to be attracted to other people, and that's not a reflection on how they feel about you. And you know, maybe letting slide a little flirting at a party, having a 'work wife/work husband', or being accepting of them having a crush on someone, does more to foster a committed relationship than it does to harm it.
Like, a truly healthy relationship is based on mutual trust, respect, and unspoken commitment. I've never felt threatened when one of my partners has said 'oh x is so attractive' or 'man i've got a bit of a crush on x at the moment', and I know I've done the same in reverse. Being confident enough in your relationship and feeling free enough to communicate those kinds of thoughts to your partner is way more important in building a monogamous (monogamish?) relationship that lasts.
Couples that communicate stay together. Couples that don't feel like they have to have crushes in secret don't have affairs. Couples that don't have to keep secrets work through their problems instead of letting resentment build.
And fuck letting your partner get a little loose every now and again is healthy too. You don't want them to feel like you own them, because that will definitely drive them to cheat. Sometimes all it takes is a little kissing with a stranger at a party to refresh their sense of freedom and re-ignite their passion for the relationship.
you just have no confidence in yourself satisfying your so fully so you come up with mental gymanistics, pitiful existense
I agree with you but personally I draw the line at physical antics.
Flirting with a student peer, work colleague, person at a party = whatever yeah that's par for the course. Bit of emotional cheating is fine ha
Physical stuff though is a bit 'meh' for me. My father cheated on my mom and left us when I was very young though so I am probably a bit more hardline than others like yourself on this issue.
>I was merely being manipulated when I was ready to be a cheating piece of shit
I'd kick your teeth down your throat, you fucking mongoloid.
>they're going to be attracted to other people, and that's not a reflection on how they feel about you
It actually is, though, but you're too much of a cuckold to realize this.
confirmed for controlling girlfriendless douche.
>when I was younger and had less morals
suuuuure keep telling yourself that thotty
Yes, and that's perfectly understandable. Every person has their own boundaries, every couple has their own boundaries. Its up to each individual to communicate with their partner and work out where the healthy and safe boundaries for their individual relationship are.
Yes, for most people that probably doesn't extend to physical stuff. My personal experience is that it can, but that's not for everyone.Again, each person is an individual and every relationship is unique. Talk to your partner and work out what your mutual boundaries are. You may be surprised. I know that's how I ended up having my first threesome.
Your father was an asshole. Cheating is never ok. You either do it together or you don't do it at all.
Alternate, less wrong theory: I'm so confident and secure in myself and my relationships that I don't see anyone else as a possible threat; so confident in fact I feel compelled to satisfy multiple women at once.
Literally the opposite is true, but good for you, Jack. Enjoy being possessive and controlling the rest of your life.