How can this be fixed? I am a guy who would fit most of the “what I want in a guy” except for this one.
I don’t have any friends. How can I demonstrate myself as trustworthy if I’m not part of a big friendship group. Bit of a background story, I had to move interstate for university and it’s been really tough to make new friends. It seems like no matter how much effort I put in people are already “set” with their friends who they have grown up with.
Is this really that big of an issue? I always thought women would care more about a mans physique, job, character. But from what I’m seeing, most women are with guys they met in high school or who they’ve known from they’re local town because they’ve spent so much time together, even when the guy is a complete loser and they could do much better.
The problem is there’s no way for me to do that because it’s gone. And I can’t move back because i have to finish my course. Plus it’s very far away and I’ve lost connection with the people there.
Women always lie about what they want in a man because they don't want to admit how shallow they are or how sexist and unreasonable they're standards are. Ignore any advice women give about what women want.
But that aside you need to make friends. Not to get women, just to have friends. I joined rec sports leagues which are laid back and a good place to meet people
Jackson Ross
Make some friends
Jeremiah Ross
Lesson number 1 OP:
Don't listen to women to know what they want in a man.
Lincoln Ramirez
Lesson number two.
Fuck whatever a woman says and reread lesson number one.
Jack Smith
I strongly advise you to ignore the redpill assholes.
There's no "THIS is what women want!" quick answer. Different women are different and want different things. But in general, yes, women are going to pay more attention to things like what's in your pic. It's not always a dealbreaker, but it's going to make it harder for you than it would be otherwise.
Anytime anyone asks for help meeting people, I tell them to go volunteer somewhere. Find a charity that does good work or a local politician you support, call them up and ask how you can get involved.
The people you meet while volunteering are (in general) interesting, engaged, active, friendly people. If you've picked an organisation you care about, then you'll already have something in common with the other people there. People usually feel good when they're volunteering, so they tend to be more chatty. And there's work to be done, so don't worry about awkward lulls in the conversation. And, worse-case scenario, even if you don't meet someone you get along with, you'll have spent some time making the world a slightly better place.
Go volunteer somewhere.
Austin Young
Ask any woman what she wants in a man, and you'll get an answer along the lines of: A nice, caring, sweet and funny man who i can trust.
Okay if that's true, then why are there so many nice and sweet guys out there who are bitter virgins?
Women THINK they want a man like that. But subconsciously, they are attracted to guys with status, money, good-looks and confidence.
Hunter Allen
women want status. what"status" may mean can be different depending on the woman. but they all want status. and they get status by fucking men with status. not by their own merit.
Dylan Green
>t. Woman who lies about what she wants in a man
Tyler Wilson
This. Having friends is relevant because men with status usually have strong social lives, while "losers" don't have many friends. OP you should also learn not to be honest. Go on a hike by yourself but tell her you went with a friend. You should have a couple real friends but she can think you have more