The girl I would like to date told me yesterday that she takes baths together with her brother. She's 20

The girl I would like to date told me yesterday that she takes baths together with her brother. She's 20.

How much of a red flag is this? I honestly don't know, shit seems beyond weird to me.

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Depends. Have you seen his brother? Was he a giga chad?

Maybe her brother is like, 5

That's kinda weird. Dunno if it says anything about how she's going to be in relationship, but it does probably mean that her family doesn't give a shit about social norms.

Haven't seen him. Think he's about the same age, give or take. I know of families where people barge in the bathroom when someone else is taking a shit or something, but this seems kinda next level to me.

It's pretty weird

Dealbreaker weird, red flag weird, cute weird, ...? I don't know what to make of this.

bump

What else are you expecting form this thread?

Hey I had to wash my brother up until he was 8 years old because nobody would give a fuck about him. Are you sure the lil bro isn't just a lil bro?
I'm a girl and usually just pee next to my mom If I'm in a hurry. She might even be bathing and I just gotta pee.

Nobody really cares. But bathing with your grown up brother is kinda a stretch. I'd say it is pretty weird

She could have like really cheap ass parents that make them shower together so they can save money on the water bill.

Are you kidding dude

It's fucking "the hills have eyes" degenerate cannibal incest cult weird. Get the fuck out of there.

Well here in Finland the whole family goes butt naked into a small, dark, hot, dank room for about half an hour to just chill and get sweaty

Dunno, why don't you probe her yourself? She's the one that knows anyway

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Why are you even needing to ask about this, OP? Shit is crazy weird. Christ.

Idk man, if she's willing to bathe with her brother than she's probably a pretty intimate and relaxed person and could be worth taking the chance on, or she's inbred with a fucked up mental state. Flip the coin user

Are they wearing bathing suits and bathing together to conserve water? Otherwise, this is common sense you dip the fuck out dude.

Opinions, obviously. They seem to vary a bit, but more towards the "it's weird" side.

Not a lil bro.

Not the case.

At the very least it (on it's own) is not a sign of emotional/mental instability, so I would still dick

Are you rednecks?

No, quite the contrary actually.

Someone check /a/ and make sure OP didn't just wander into an incest story through the side door.

Are they Asian? This is important.

Europe.

you think bro fingers her while they bathe?

Some of them have family baths I guess. Its extremely prevalent in Asian cultures is my point, like the Scandinavian cultures that have saunas.
In truth its kind of an American thing to be disturbed about this.

Doesn't really answer the question these days mate...

a girl having a male sibling is already a red flag retard. she would have fucked around with half his friends. trust me it happens every time.

go back to Jow Forums

Even with Asian families they stop bathing with family members when they reach puberty

Not really, no. Neither do the scandis stop going to sauna.

>Not really, no.

uh yeah

They might go to a public bath together, which is parallel to the northern european sauna, but they don't take private baths together past that age

It doesn't matter if it's a "red flag" or not, what matters is that it weirds you out and makes you uncomfortable.

Rather than letting it gnaw at you or annoy you later, don't get invested and move onto another date.

Yeah, that is weird. She is a weird person. Insane? No. I've checked the DSM. Taking baths with your brother does not make you crazy.

Actually, I played it pretty cool. It weirded me out a bit, but it doesn't make me uncomfortable, per se. We had a laugh about it. Just wanted to know what other people think, because it IS weird imo.

>Insane? No. I've checked the DSM. Taking baths with your brother does not make you crazy.

Oh thanks doctor I didn't know it was that easy to just toss out a diagnosis like that. bathing with your sibling as a grown ass adult is totally sane

I've always wondered, what is the difference between a grown adult and a grown-ass adult? I'm genuinely curious.

the booty, obviously.

maybe she's trying to turn you off without rejecting you?