Female sexual frustration?

Yeah I'm pretty sure I'd want to have a gf who loves me that much.

He probably would think I'm a creep if I told him I love him

>tfw no horny virgin gf to deflower and train into a slut

Why would he?

Because you have never met? Yes, he would get scared. Arrange to meet up asap.

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H because I'm weird I don't think guys like the tomboy type. Pic related

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jokes on you I'm 18 and he's 20
I'm into that femdom shit lad

Kek. It just reminds me of shit i would do as a teenager i guess

To be fair, I'm romantically inexperienced in a lot of shit due to my social anxiety and whatnot

Just wait it out. Im sure youll get his penis eventually.

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But I want a relationship with him..

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Just wait it out. Im sure youll get his penis, and heart eventually.

B-but why do I gotta wait?

Quit being a pussy, I just jerked off to trap porn for the first time, and now im worried im gay, so their are bigger problems in the world, then waiting for a guy whos def into you, to fuck you.

but what makes you think he's into me..

he sent you shirtless pics

Could him talking about his mum and what he does throughout the day be a sign too? Example he messaged me this week talking about how he went to go food shopping for his mum and he bought dinner for his mum and whatnot. Mundane shit but it's sweet

of course. why would he bother texting you about such trivial shit, if it was not for the fact that, he just wants to talk to you.

Do guys usually do that? Maybe he was just being nice I dunno ... if he likes me then why can't he ask me out? I say shit like " I want to hug and makeout with you" and all that so I don't get why he wouldn't say anything I'm being pretty obvious desu.

I guess to be fair tho he's only had 1 relationship when he was 16 and that chick broke up with him because he didn't want to have sex with her after the first month because he wanted to get closer to her and love her more he's mentioned wanting to fug me after 3 months and I said no to that offer so I dunno

Idk, i dont really text girls first, as im scared of being a burden, but theres nothing making him reply to you. If he was keeping the convo going then thats a good sign. Why dont you just ask him out, pussy?

Don't tell him you are into femdom if you want a chance to be with him. Guys expect girls to be submissive.

He likes soft femdom too, we spoke about me dominating him.

I'm in the same boat with my boyfriend. Except, I'm not attractive and I know he doesn't masturbate to me so I feel like a dumb obsessed tool for coming so hard to only our homemade videos and not porn anymore.

Get some discipline and don't use his pictures to masturbate. What helped for me was finding some really good new porn! It's so much fun to masturbate to a great new videos which turns you on.

I still think about him and want to finish to our vids, but I control my urges. Practise that discipline, gl op

Like I said he does ignore me sometimes because he gets destracted by games or he's stressed out/sad but yeah he does make a effort when I ignore hum

Ummm... Why aren't you having sex with your boyfriend?

You two are meant for each other.
Invite him for netflix and chill, and sit on his face.

How close are you to each other?

Is this sarcasm?

Well I would say decently close, we have inside jokes and we tell eachother private things. We're still getting to know eachother at a deeper level since we've known eachother for 3 months. But he's been on my Facebook for awhile so it was always kind of there. I'm falling for him gradually

If he's into femdom, he's going to like it.

I do, but I also masturbate

>Well I would say decently close, we have inside jokes and we tell eachother private things
That's enough for you to initiate. Your feelings won't go away, so the two things you can do is either take a break and distance yourself from him if your feelings get too distracting, or try to get physically close to him.

well I wish but like I said we're long distance

can't physically get close to him when he lives in another country bro. but if we do get together I'd visit him and he can visit me

Then the only thing you can do is try to distance yourself, unless you can get one of yourselves to move. LDR-s aren't really relationships with a future, at least that's my experience.

Id move for him I have the money for it, I'm prepared to do whatever it takes. And I'm sure he is too

Does he know you masturbate to him? Any chance you can coax him into more sex?

He helps me masterbate through text, by telling me what he'd do with me ( nothing that crosses my boundaries of course) but I feel like lately this is making him sad and my friends have told me " you should confess to him because he's giving you signals for you to confess "

Then get closer to him, and initiate.
Once you coordinate your lives so you could be together, and willing to make the sacrifices to do so, you're set.

Then post him lewd text to get his imagination going, the more you fill his mind, the more he'll want to do something irl.

I'd rather he didn't know that I crave him so much that I masturbate to him instead of hot porn :/

And eh I don't want to ask for more sex. He's finishing in my mouth of my ass/vag everyday, I don't think more is the answer.

You're a fucking weirdo

tfw my gf doesn't allow me to finish in her ass

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My gf doesn't even let me finish in her mouth.

I know, which is why I'm forcing myself to use porn instead of our videos. It's working, I've found some real great vids actually; lingering thoughts of him persist but hopefully not for long.

I don't know why that could be. I get so turned on and use the memories of him finishing inside of me to aid my solo orgasms. The idea that he's releasing inside of me, clutching onto me hard and tight, that he's feeling so my pleasure inside of me, and just laying with him as he's turning soft is so, so, so, delightful.

Your bf is lucky. It took me 6 months just to convinece my gf to let my dick near her ass.

no I mean it's fucking weird that you don't even masterbate to your own boyfriend, does he just use you as a cum dumpster or something ?

How long have you known each other?

He's probably shy type , so suck it up and go fuckin say to him that you can't be without him. You both are made for each other

It's normal. I used to masturbate to porn and erotica daily, but when I started to fall for my current boyfriend I could only get off to thoughts of him.

3 months going onto 4, but we're in the akward phase of our unofficial relationship if that makes sense

And yeah he's told me that he's not a very talkative person since he doesn't reallt have friends irl and whatnot, he said he has alot of anxiety and is worried that I feel like he's bored of me. He says he cares for me so I dunno. What makes you think we're made for eachother ?

How's your cum taste? Maybe she really doesn't like the taste, look into some bromelain supplements.

My bf's cum doesn't taste like anything and the texture is good too, I love feeling him throb in my mouth when he finishes.

Oh, I do masturbate to him. I ask him for solo pics and vids all the time, and use our own porn. But I don't like feeling so enamoured and obsessed so I'm trying to wean off it.

It does make sense. Talk to him, talk to him, and time will solve it.

This

He sounds shy, so you'll have to take the lead, and tell him how you feel.

I'm just worried that he'd reject me and be like " what I was just fooling around? " there was one time in June when I asked if we could cuddle if we ever met in real life and he said we Wernt close enough for that and he thought that we were just joking around. I left him for 2 weeks and within those two weeks he messaged me 14 times talking about games and saying he misses me and wants to invite mer to a game. After that we became closer and started talking about cuddling and snuggling eachother, he wants to snuggle into my chest and fall asleep he said. He was worried when I was gone and he said " because of the convo we had last time I was worried " so I dunno I'm just worried. I never out right confessed to him though

You both sound totally inexperienced, and bad at expressing what you want. Don't go too quickly, because that may scare him. Go slow but steady. Snuggling is great, get the converastion more and more into intimate and sexual territory.

Yeah we are going at a nice pace,we do talk sexual but I feel like he does get spooked at some points because of past experiences and so do I. I don't send him nudes even if he wants it, but he respects my boundaries and doesn't press other than in a jokey way. We both do the same shit where in my experience at least, I get overwhelmed and nervous so I pull back and ignore him sometimes. He does the same and it makes me sad, and when I ignore him he will message me like in pic related ( 1:30am is in the morning his time so he messages me right when he wakes up) h I can't tell if he is falling for me or not, I'm confused

Forgot to send pic related lol

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>I'm into that femdom shit lad
He's a lucky guy. Where can people find girls like you? I could't find a single girl who didn't think it as repulsive or pitiful.

1:30 am my time, but at 1:30 am
My time is the time it's morning for him. 10pm Lol silly me

H really? I feel like I'd be even lucky to be with him man you wouldn't want someone like me lol

Everything sounds cute so far, but beeing almost 30 and knowing this stuff from my GF who was 19 when we met, Im gonna have to be the devils advocate here, and give the advice, that i would have given her in such a situation:

> Can you say for sure, he isnt catfishing you? You did videocalls or have seen him in person before, or do you only have pictures he send you?
> you said he lives in a different country, how resonable are you going to meet him in the next couple month in person or even live closer together (les than half an hour)? Maybe a shared vacation trip?

> is he aside from beeing shy and introverted and having no friends a good pick for you? This means, he is financially, religiously, sexually, morally in the same field.

> Does he have goals in his life (family, job, hobbies, partnership) ?

> is he psychiologically stable?

If he wanted to wait for sex with his ex more than one month, i seriously advice you against confessing anything before you have spent at least that amount of time face to face with him, then have a talk with him, and only if he is on the same page emotionally, you can progress to anything sexual. beeing too direct might deter him.

In my opinion, try to get closer physically, then emotionally, and in the end sexually. You can do this, he seems to like you, so all signals are on green rigth now.

He appears to be interested, move slowly to more sexual things.

Why? What's wrong with you?

Pretty sure it's not the cum's taste, other girls have let me cum in their mouths. She has never wanted to try. Although one thing is that girls tend to tell me I come loads when I come, so some might be surprised by a big load into their mouth.

We've video chatted and I heard his mum in the calls we've been in. And I can meet him next year since I will be getting a job soon. And he has a job and drives and does anything a normal person would do, and it's not that he is a and person and repels people it's just the friends he had got into drugs and started pushing him away ( I know how he feels because I've experienced this kinda thing) he isn't into drugs, smoking and alchaol to some extent.

Honestly I feel like I'm too much of a weirdo for him since I like vidya and anime

That's not bad at all, especially at 18. If someone judges you for that he doesn't deserve you.
The only thing you should pay attention to is not to put entertainment before your responsibilities.
Shy gf who's into gentle femdom is the best.

>tomboys are the best girls

>is that a bad thing?
>I don't think guys like the tomboy type

>tomboys are the best girls

Sounds to me like you're just autistically insecure to the point you can't even read anymore.

Why are you spooked? What you posted seems totally normal, only a bit awkward and autistic, but knowing that you're a virgin that's something to be expected.

I'm only one sentence in and i can already tell you're going to get raped

Yeah I'm pretty autistic when it comes to these things, I have terrible self esstem. Do you think that he does like me back?

He clearly likes you, you're lucky to have someone.

From the conversation you posted, it appears to me that he likes you, yes.

I dunno why then he doesn't ask me out and ignores me sometimes... I don't get guys lol

Are you particularly ugly, or do you have any reason to have a terrible self-esteem?
Just try to be a little more confident.

You said, you were living far away. That's a pretty huge dealbreaker for most guys, especially when he meets local girls daily who might also be interested in him.

Well everyone I know says I look like a 8/10, I get my hair done, self groom ( waxing eyebrows and upper lip) I don't wear makeup but I don't have any acne. I asked him if I was ugly and he said that I wasn't, he said I looked good so I dunno. A lot of the time when I prompt him to compliment me he doesn't usually do it, but he has called me cute and stuff before though.

desu he doesn't really talk to people irl other than his job, but your right we're both pretty scared of the distance however I think it could work out because we're reallt compatible

Are you fat?

Nope average build

And that's why he's doing what he's doing. He enjoys your company because he can get along well with you, but doesn't want to risk turning his life upside down by trying to move or convince you to move.

I fit into a size 10-12 for women's

Then why do you have so low self esteem? Did someone hurt you?

Yes he likes you back you dummy.

Yeah I've been abused by my dad,uncle and my mum in some cases. I've also been in a absuive relationship and I was bullied in all the schools I went to