In a romantic way, I am only attracted to short haired girls.
Not necessary bratty tomboys, they can be calm and well-balanced.
I went on Tinder, and all I can see are basic, boring, samefaced long haired chicks. I literally can't see the difference between them.
Why is that? Where do I find the women I seek?
In a romantic way, I am only attracted to short haired girls
So, long hair is enough to turn you off, eh? That kinda sounds like obsessive behavior to me. I mean, I'm not an expert, but damn.
Choose "gay" in tinder settings
I came here to say this
This is a very simplistic way of looking at the world.
There are boring basic girls with short hair (tons of them desu) and interesting women with long hair.
You sound underage.
Not really, there are a few girls I know who I find attractive and have long hair.
But short hair automatically makes the girl stand out in my eyes, I feel like a girl who desides to wear her hair short has the personality I want.
I usually feel incompatible with long haired girls. They feel too grounded in reality for me.
I'm not saying there aren't, I'm saying that my mind and heart perceives them like that.
> a girl who desides to wear her hair short has the personality I want.
Their personalities are usually
>I hate men
or
>I'm so quirky and not like the other girls!!! I love obscure nerd stuff like star wars
tumblr and instagram are FULL of girls like that.
I know a few personally and none of them fit any of that.
More like
>I'm confident, smart, not clingy and great in bed
>be me, girl with short hair
>can't grow out because it looks terrible long
>get called a dyke on the regular
>get hit on by girls nonstop
>guys treat me like shit
>even long term boyfriends suggest i grow my hair out
>refuse on principle
>inevitably leave me for long haired girls
>finally take up a gay girl on her offer
>am gay now too
Where were you, OP? Where were you?
Bro, plenty of guys love short haired women, I myself am one of them
But, maybe you should consider the possibility that a good number of guys weren't immensely physically attracted to you. Not saying you're ugly or anything, just remember, not everyone will be attracted to you, but for most people, there will be someone who is
They didn't treat me like shit by not being attracted to me. I'm cool with people not being attracted to me.
Dude, you are the definition of a fetishist. You are putting way too much stock on something with no basis in reality.
Yes, you have met awesome women with short hair. But the hair is not the reason of consequence of their greatness. You are the one putting a value on it that it doesn't have.
Op here
>meet a sexy short haired bisexual girl with D-cups
>super freaky, high libido, submissive
>it's super nice just to hang out
>eventually I meet someone else and we break all contact
>sometimes check her Instagram and tinder
>she's only hit on by ugly lesbians and nobody snitched her yet
It's really weird how there are so few straight guys into short hair. It even screams "good sex".
Once again, im not arguing. But I can't reprogram myself.
Why not try making a genuine connection with someone then asking if they would consider a shorter haircut?
I think you're just a superficial child. I can tell OP is a faggot kiss-less virgin.
My girlfriend has super thick hair and keeps it short otherwise she gets headaches.
Cool with me I prefer short hair.
OP just get a long hair girl to love you and hint that she'd look cuter with short hair, she'll probably cut it for you.
they might have just been shitty people dude, hope things are better for you in the future
I can tell you're a long haired girl
I consider myself bisexual now and am happy with my girlfriend. So it's all good.
But I do think I would be living the typical 'heteronormative' lifestyle if so many guys and straight girls weren't dickheads.
>But I can't reprogram myself.
Maybe you need to deal with those thoughts man. They are not healthy. If you latch unto silly stuff like this, I can only assume you do this shit all the time.
I don't think there's anything wrong with having a type, but yeah, OP should stop associating it with arbitrary traits like confidence
"Having a type" is not the same as what OP is saying, though. Apparently, he can't get it up for girls with long hair. And the association he makes is so very dumb.