So i just found out my ex wife is dating someone else and my child likes them more then me now...

or not necessarily OPs I guess, saying certainly not is a bit of an assumption on my part.

But my kid tells me her mom and and the boyfriend have been fighting about messages on his phone from other women and I’m not sure what I should do now? Should I intervene or say fuck off to my ex wife?

Take over britiania

>I’ve done nothing wrong here.
Family lawyer here. It's funny how so many people like you do no wrong and are always the victims

You do realize that his parents would still know they are tougher on their child than you are.
They wouldnt claim they did nothing wrong but would say they did it for the benefit of their child.

So you’re basically saying fuck me right? I hate how fucked the family court system is this is why I hate marriage, my wife is killing me with child support and alimony.

>semantics prove my point
okay.

No I'm saying there's two sides to every story and you're only telling us one. The truth generally lies somewhere in between so I'm inclined to take what you're saying with a grain of salt.

The quarrels of your ex wife are none of your business now.

The best thing you can do now is be a comfort and great escape for your child. She will go to you when she needs space from her Mom. Be there for her. Let her know that she can tell you anything and you will not hurt her.

Remember: your goal now is to keep your daughter -- not your wife.

Alright that I can understand then I misunderstood.

You’re right I need to keep
Being there for my children after all they tell me they only feel at ease when with me since my ex causes a lot of drama no matter who
She’s with.

OP just be a the best Dad you can and live your best life. Don't get caught up a competition, recognize this is your ego driving you to get involved in something petty. If she cheated on you, and he may be cheating on her, this will naturally unravel over time. That and or your child will eventually grow into a smart enough person to see the Mom for what she is. Trying to be part of this circus act is only going to hurt you in the eyes of your child in the long run.

I know it's hard. I'm struggling right now with a situation in which I wanna go find a guy who's crossed me with a girl I care about to beat the life out of him. But I realize there's no point other than to get a rush that'll last as long as I'm pounding his little faggot face into the concrete. It won't make what happened go away, and if anything he'll flip it somehow to garner sympathy. Just don't over it OP. Give time time.

*don't trip over it OP.

Good shit right here op

>how can I get back at this son of a bitch.
Be a better man than he is.