How would it make you feel if your wife told you that she once slept with someone for money as a teen?

It's very possible he has paid for sex with prostitutes before you met.

Try showing him some cuck porn. See if he’s into it?
If he is then tell him what you did so he can get off on that and cum the hardest he as ever cummed

Yeah, obviously. But what about „better late than never“?
I suppose so.

The topic once came up and he told me that he drove a few friends to a brothel once and then got curious, so he went to a prostitute. he didn‘t sleep with her but ended up talking to her because he was too anxious/awkward. They even ended up exchanging numbers. A few weeks later she texted him, asking if she could crash at his place. Kek.

Anyways, he had a very sheltered childhood and upbringing and even thought he has already told me some „dark secrets“, i suspect he really told me everything. It does make me feel inferior to have stuff i don‘t think i can tell him.

He‘s pretty keen on using a dildo to dp me suring sex and he has expressed a big interest in having a 3some with a trap. He also said he‘d love to see me sleep woth said trap, so he might have some tendencies. But i don‘t think those are the same things...

Do you two watch porn together?

Or even if you don’t. If you share a computer of iPad. Try leaving some windows open where you’ve watched some cuck porn or those cheesy paid girl for sex porn and leave them for him to find. Just so he would watch what you’ve left open and think it’s hot that you’ve maturbated to them. He’ll end up liking them.

I was in a 10 year relationship and we lived together. I had left open by accident a window of stepdaughter and step dad porn. And after that I had searched the history before and found out she started watching them as well. She was embarrassed when I asked her if she watched porn but after a while we would watch them together

Holy shit, the absolute state of western men. The jews have won already.

>my wife
I would want to know why this wasn't disclosed before I married her
ESPECIALLY if I'd been honest enough to tell her about my encounter with an escort.

Well, i just think that trying to get him into cuck porn or inidcating that i‘m into it (which i‘m not) is a bit of a risky move since that‘s a different level of sex play than „let‘s do some role play“.

Well he wants to have a trap involved with you. That’s pretty much leaning to a soft cuck.

Im not into cucking and even just the the thought of having another penis go inside my girlfriend would anger me even if it’s a trap.

Would „i was afraid it will make you think less of me and lose interest“ be a good explanation? Althought that makes it highly manipulative... which it probably was.

I mean, that wasn‘t something to be embarassed about. We came to talk about it because we had seen some news concerning brothels and so we started talking about our views on prostitution. I said that i think it‘s important it exists and that i see nothing wrong with it since it seema like a fair deal. Obviously only if the girls do it out of free will. I also said that i don‘t think it‘s pathetic for men to see prostitutes since it seems very exhausting for a guy who just wants some sex to actually find a girl that‘s down for it and not having to deal with drama in the aftermath. So he knew i wouldn‘t judge him for going to a brothel.

He also said he thinks it‘s alright prostitution exists, but said nothing about what he thinks about those girls who actually do sex work.

On the other hand, he‘s very possessive and jealouse.
I think he‘d be ok with the idea as long as he‘s horny but definitely not once the horny has faded.

I think if you have no idea how he would react, you don't know your husband very well.

I think if you're worried about it, it's probably because you already have a gut feeling that he wouldn't take it all that well.

Even though I'm not judgmental about someone's past, that doesn't mean that I'm 100% comfortable with someone forcing me to be aware of everything that past entails. I assume that people have a sexual history (especially considering how old I am and that I look to have relationships with women who are age appropriate), but I don't need or want to know a whole lot of details.

I don't want to think about the woman I love fucking other guys, even though I know it's happened.

If someone needs to tell me something that they consider to be something that has a huge influence on who they are as a person, I do want to understand who someone is and how they got there. I don't need to hear stuff that is simply reminiscing or essentially gossip.

I think you should consider whether or not this is something you really need your husband to know. If it's a part of your past that is something you think about a lot and influences your behavior to this day, ok, I guess tell him. If it is something you did then that has nothing to do with who you are now, it's likely that telling him about it isn't going to bring him to some new understanding of you. All it's likely to do is completely distort how he sees you as a person.

I'm certain you've seen posts here that run along the lines of "How do I get over that my girlfriend had sex with someone else before she met me". This feelings about this sort of stuff isn't rational. For some guys it's like the reaction is "I'm just hearing about it now, so to me it feels like it just happened."

It doesn't matter what he will say, he's married, you have control over him, you stupid worthless slut.

This might come as a surprise to you, but i actually do care about him.

enough to lie by omission and keep it going to maintain a false image of who you are.

Obviously you didn't care enough about him to tell him that you got fucked as a prostitute when you were a teen before marriage.

On the contrary, i cared so much i witheld it out of fear of losing him. I know it‘s not right, but come on, i‘m only human.

Lmao, I really hope that you're just a great troll otherwise I hope that you kill yourself, get murdered by someone or get cancer.

I hope you can see that that is not caring for him at all, it's pure selfishness.

Don't take notice of the incels.

You fucked up by not telling him earlier. Obviously you also fucked up by doing it in the first place, but teens are stupid and fucking up is a part of developing towards adulthood.

However, your fuckup of not being honest with your husband can't be regarded in the same way and you will either have to live with your secret, or live with the very real possibility that he will distrust, resent and/or divorce you.

Ultimately, you know your husband better than we do, but it WILL impact your marriage and you should only tell him if you can accept that fact.

I‘m sure you always tell everyone everything about you. Does your mom know about all your fetishes? If not then you‘re witholding information from her to keep up her incomplete idea of you.

I am not in a romantic relationship with my mom so my sexual desires are not relevant in my interactions with her, unlike my partner.

This, don't listen to the incels.
I personally wouldn't even marry a girl who hasn't been fucked for money as a teenager. Makes me very hard haha.

>getting married

Why would you make me cringe this hard?

There are things that are better off left unsaid. Dont listen to retards. You could easily destroy yourself and him with a bullet like that. It is honorable to be honest, but at what cost does this particular honesty have? If you are both happy and stable, it is best to let the past go. I could never tell my husband i was molested as a child, not because i dont love or trust him, but because that burden is not something I wish to put him through if I can move forward regardless of our secrects. And it is straight up better to live a life with your previous sins behind you and between you and god only a lot of times. There will always be walls. Some men here will screech at me for saying this, and if anything that should inspire you more to keep your mouth shut.

There's a difference between being molested and choosing to sell your body for money.

Was it before she met you?

Older user here. I know a respectable married woman, a university professor, who admits that once in her grad school days, when in a foreign country, she gave sex for money, just to see if she could go through with it. She learned that she could, that she didn't like it and that she had no need to wonder about it again.

How did this information affect how you view her?

A lot more men and women have engaged in sex for money than you would thin.

So? Would things be any better if it was for "true love"? "Hey man i had this boyfriend and we used to have sex like 3 times a day everyday". Thing is, it broke the image and trust you had in her right? If she was capable of that, what else is she capable of? No human being is perfect. It's in the past isn't it? The past is an illusion. Can u trust her now? If the answer is no, divorce her and move on, if yes stay with her. Wanna do a little experiment? Stay with her like for another year until she thinks u are ok with things now and contract a personal detective to see if she is cheating on u. That's it. She is a bad person, like we all are, a relationship is when two people can accept the ugly in each other. Your relationship will be better now that you know yourselves better.

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Since I knew her before and knew what sort of person she is, I saw no reason for this bit of information to change my opinion in any way. (If anything, I had always thought of her as a bit dull, and this suggested that at least in her youth she had more to her than I thought)

Depends on the context, I guess. If I knew she was a slag before I married her, I suppose it wouldn't shock me. If she played an innocent, I'd feel betrayed and get paranoid about what else she might be hiding if this is what she chose to confess after however many years of marriage.

she’s probably having sex to get money from you, aka rent, alimony if divorce

if anything get her checked for stds, if no stds I wouldn’t worry about it

Incel cult members like you choose to die angry and alone, virgins.

>getting married

You care about in so much as he’s beneficial to your life.

"Once", don't be naive. She said "once" because it's easier to say that than outright say she used to be a prostitute.

Ex-wife*

Sounds like the roastie is toasty.

This

A marriage
based on the lie
is doomed
from its beginning.

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