I used to be on a discord, with some discord friends, that was all about helping one another improve, with also dealing with mental health issues. I used to talk, give advice and help others, whole I was occasionally helped. I also ended up Sexting a lot as well which was amazing for a PermaVirgin.
Long story short, I left because I wasn't really reaching my goals anyways, and it became clear to me that the server was really only supporting certain individuals, rather than everyone. I also realized no one really cared for me. So I left and no one has seemingly messaged me Ti find out what happened. But now Im wondering if I was brash and if the server is actually a good place. I'm also kind of missing the Sexting as well.
Well if they don't give a shit about you then the only thing you have to gain from returning is the nudes. How much do you want to sext?
Connor Bennett
currently a lot. I do kind of miss it.
But I'm also going back to college soon, so maybe it won't be as important on a couple of weeks
Aaron Anderson
Sleep bump
Kayden Gonzalez
Normie fag
Gabriel Carter
How?
Matthew Stewart
Bump for advice
Colton Edwards
No advice at all?
James Bailey
Discords are just hugboxes for very sad people and do nothing to push you toward improvement
On the other hand it's perfect for having nudes and erp around, that's basically the only reason I can see a single dude in post-secondary keeping it around.
Caleb Price
Our server did push us, which was nice. And why are they hug boxes per say?
Alright, same difference. Is it worh it to go back?
Nolan King
Bump
Bentley Carter
Bumpin and fuckin
Brayden Scott
Stay woke, niggas bumpin
Samuel Sanders
hey OP. I'm in a similar situation. I joined a Discord earlier this year, primarily to try to get closer to a girl I liked. People there were cool af but I felt out of place being the new guy. Got along with a few guys there but I really just wanted to talk to the girl. Never sexted her but I'd send her poetry I wrote to her DMs, which I'm sure she never read, as I would never tell her to check her DMs from me in public. It wasn't going anywhere. I asked her friend to help me and to my surprise, she actually responded to me. She gave me pretty good advice but I did something stupid...I told her that I kind of liked her too, in the cringiest way imaginable. I'm not sure if it was a moment of weakness or if it was genuine desu. She told me not to pursue her friend (basically told me to fuck off but in a super nice way). I ignored her advice and lingered a little while longer. Eventually, my shyness and me putting her (first grill) on a pedestal just made it impossible for me to even interact with her. A bunch of a shit happened and I convinced myself that this was never going to happen, even though I had plenty of reasons to believe it would.
Then...there was that weekend where I'd finally be able to meet her. All signs led to this moment. But I fucked up, like I always do.
Sorry for /rant. If you really miss them that much, go back to them. It may be awk af because they'll be wondering where you went.
Nolan Cruz
Don't. I was in the Jow Forums Discord and left because it was too much and nobody cared about anyone.
I'm sorry to hear that. But practice makes perfect right? You know the mistakes you made and you won't do the same thing twice, right?
Isaiah Adams
i'd just like to state that I think any person who spends any amount of extended time in a discord is a weird post-millennial faggot.
go talk to people in real fucking life where you'll develop actual social skills.
Luis Campbell
So what's the alternative? Where should I go and talk to others? For the most part, people don't want to be bothered.
Jaxson Howard
>was all about helping one another improve, with also dealing with mental health issues
From personal experience, places like these are best to avoid. One day I just realized how toxic the whole thing was.
To be clear, I was certainly one of the 'key-members' of the community. It was pretty fun to talk to these people at times, but generally, it all revolved around the same people (just like in your case). It gets rather obnoxious to talk the same person out of "suicide" three times a week. It gets rather obnoxious to hear about the same guy's drug habit five times a week. It gets INCREDIBLY obnoxious to see the same people sabotaging themselves for the sake of getting attention (because that's often what it is about.) They'll just pretend to take your advice, and go back to the self-sabotage LITERALLY ten minutes later. I've seen this happen.
Honestly, find different people. Leaving the group was some of the smartest shit I did this year. It was literally affecting my mental health.
