Seriously. I'll flirt around with girls on the app, get their number, and flirt a bit through text and try to set a meet up.
But they always say they're busy. A few days to a week later I'll text again to see if they're free but they'll saying they're busy again. But they never suggest a time that works for them. Sometimes they even keep texting me about random shit, but I hate texting. And they'll go radio silent if I suggest meeting up.
Girls ghosting me before I get their number? I get it. Girls ghosting me after a date? I get it. But ghosting me after they've given me their number but before we even meet? What the fuck?
I'm sorry, but this is really getting to me and bringing me down.
You need to shut up and get used to it. This is a numbers game, and you haven't played enough to get the payout yet.
Ayden Lewis
Try different things boy
Nolan Hughes
Your problem is Tinder. Delete your account and never go back. Tinder is a cesspool that is absolutely terrible for the mental health of 95% of male users. Really delete it.
There 3 possibilities why they are ghosting you:
1. They are only using Tinder for self validation. 2. They are leading men on for fun (this does happen) 3. OR they are already occupied with the dozens of other dick they have access to
Mason Brooks
Some just enjoy texting and never have any intentions of meeting up. Others have more exciting options than you. And another are flakes.
Isaiah Hernandez
Men do this too. Tinder is a game of validation for a lot of people where they want to see if they actually had a chance with someone they find attractive without putting in the work for it.
These people had no intention of actually seeing you so find ways to filter them out as quick as you can.
Isaiah Fisher
This. I love how women complain about men just texting "hi" or some shit but you're lucky to get maybe 10% of reponses back. It's absolutely not worth the time crafting an individual message for each and every one.
Just write 1 unique message(ie. Not just hi) and just spam that shit. See who replies back and maybe go from there. Don't waste time when you're unlikely to get a reply.
Isaac Collins
What do I do instead? People say to try to meet girls in real life. But they also say not to hit on girls at the gym. That girls don't like being approached in the grocery store. Don't be the creep that's interested in girls in a yoga or cooking class. Where is it socially acceptable for me to approach girls?
I feel most guys I know with girlfriends just got them through friends of friends. Unfortunately, all of my friends are guys who have trouble with women too.