A girl I met online made it very clear to me she didn't want a boyfriend, dates or even a friend, she just wanted to fuck. Basically I showed her a picture of my dick, and she found it appealing as she basically needed a "walking talking dildo", her words, not mine. So we met up, and we did fuck. For hours. Repeatedly. She came something like 5 or 6, possibly 7 times, she lost count. Some of the most satisfying sex of my life, she was very attracted to my large penis and found my sexual technique suited her well. We fucked until we passed out, woke up in the middle of the night, fucked some more, then slept again, woke up, made breakfast, ate it together, then fucked again.
Despite her seemingly having no emotional attachment and reminding me repeatedly this was just about sex, I found myself strangely developing emotions for her. I even tried to make conversation with her, and she hit me with "Look, you really don't have to talk so much." or "You DO remember that this is just about us fucking each other, right?". It actually hurt a bit, I at the very least wanted to be friends who fuck each other sometimes, but she doesn't even seem to want that. Very clear cut and divorced, she wants zero emotional attachment to me: she loves my dick, not me.
How do I get rid of these feelings? I do enjoy the sex, but not the emotional frustration.
literally the thread got deleted last time before I could wake up and read it. so yeah sorry for posting this again cause I didn't get to get much out of it the first time.
Grayson Long
You’ve posted the same thing before... at least now we know it’s b8.
Bentley Howard
OK none of you guys have clearly ever had a thread you made deleted before it could get like 10 replies. I was dumb enough to use an image that was porn that I thought was sfw enough to not get deleted but I was wrong.
Whatever, if any of you guys have any advice besides "b8" "repost" or "fuck off", please go right ahead.
Adam Jenkins
Are you the rough sex guy from earlier this week?
Charles Thompson
Also to add to this, the girl contacted to me to tell me that her pussy felt very sore and she decided to see a doctor. A few days later she said she felt a bit better, but thought we should have used lube, even told me her favourite brand so I decided to buy some on Amazon. She still wants to have sex again, but isn't sure if she wants to this weekend because of her period. And even over text she keeps reiterating: this is just about sex.
It feels weird. She's beautiful, intelligent, funny and clearly sexually experienced. Is it really that weird for me to catch feelings for someone like this?
Ethan Johnson
Well if you must know, yes that was me. Pretty much the girl who contacted me for rough sex is this same girl I'm catching feelings for. And it sucks, because I know she's probably out hunting for other guys while still deciding to keep me (or my dick, more precisely) on a line where she can call me for sex whenever she wants. She stated that she is very, very selective and for whatever reason (my confidence, sex appeal, penis size, whatever the hell it was) chose to have sex with me. She's even said she has in the past just straight up put her clothes on and walked home in the middle of the night when a guy's dick sucked or he didn't know how to fuck well.
Ryder Morales
Let's have a little back and forth OP I haven't read your story before and every time I post something on Jow Forums, it doesn't get enough attention because the board is slow as fuck and people fall for LARP threads.
Anyway, you don't get rid of the feelings. You either make them known and have her react by accepting or rejecting them or you keep your mouth shut and keep getting laid. I suggest the latter option until it becomes too unbearable.
I actually have my own tangentially relevant sexual issue. Wanna read it? It's not that great but I'd really appreciate some feedback.
Keeping it a secret until I can't take it anymore and confess how I feel sounds like something like a plan, albeit not the ideal, but I just don't think she views me as boyfriend material. I'm just some guy with a big dick who can fuck well and made her cum several times in a single night.
All I can say is enjoy the good pussy while it last, when its over just walk away and dont look back. Ive tried looking back and ended up feeling like shit.
Jose White
Fuck off with your racemixing propaganda fag.
Henry Jones
Your thread got dozens of replies, except half of them were you humblebragging and not actually looking for advice.
Sage.
William Mitchell
Which one is it? >You can't be together because she's not looking to be in a relationship Or >You can't be together because she doesn't want YOU specifically?
Anyway, here's my story >be 23 year-old virgin 2 weeks ago >go out to bars by myself >meet two girls that I went to high school with >get mauled by and have sex with one of them at her apartment (she was 2 years older) >chat a little bit in the morning and get her number when I leave >I text her last Saturday night around midnight to come out for drinks at her local bar >She replies 40 min later by saying she's out of town at a resort town an hour away >I personally don't know if I got rejected or if she's out of town >Regardless, I didn't reply to her because I was drunk and nervous and didn't want to fuck it up >Her reply is our last interaction via text
For the record, I do not want a girlfriend at the moment and REALLY want a fuckbuddy. I want to find a way to have sex with her at least one more time. With girls, I normally try to be friendly and initiate contact that builds rapport but I've been told by some of my friends to just hit her up this coming weekend again to see what happens since apparently that's the way to treat potential one-night stands. I could easily wish her good luck on her exams (since I usually remember those types of details about people) but like I said, my friends claims that's too much.
I guess my questions are: >Did I get rejected? >Did I fuck up by not replying to her (given she was telling the truth)? >Should I send her a text that shows I care even a little bit? >How should I approach trying to see her again and should I do it this weekend?
Ask her if she wants to meet up again in her bedroom.
Jose Martinez
So be completely direct? If so, how would I specifically word that?
I generally feel like a fuckboy being direct but I'm well aware of the game/hookup culture.
Caleb Sanchez
Some guy screencapped this, it was my recap of our encounter.
I'm guessing from your posts she was a cute black chick.
You didn't necessarily get rejected, maybe she's just at a resort. If you didn't feel like replying to her, you didn't have to. If you want to text her, text her. If you want to approach her to see her this weekend, approach her.
I know these responses probably all read as being asinine, but that's the honest truth. You're really over thinking this too much, and perhaps it's because you lost your virginity to her.
Honestly, I would just ask her "So do you feel down to have some more sex this weekend?" I've literally texted women things like this, and either gotten laid or it just turned out she was busy or not interested. Honesty is sort of the best policy. But I mean, whatever works for you.
You should really just be more relaxed about this whole thing. Maybe she was just drunk and felt like fucking you that one time, maybe she's down for round two. You should ask her if you really want to know.
Actually, this is just a random image I have saved. The girl I fucked was actually the exact same ethnicity as me, Indo-Guyanese
Dude, this is the whole thing: you sound like you think there's some "right" way to do this.
You're an organic human being. She's an organic human being. Just try some shit man, if it works it works, if it doesn't it doesn't.
Ayden Richardson
I'm actually black and the girl I lost my virginity to was white, funny enough. I just think the girls I posted are really attractive. But yeah, I'm just overthinking it. I just don't want to be to clingy by hitting her up two weekends in a row pretty much just for sex but I guess it doesn't really matter. Any more tips?
no actually, we're both ethnically south asian, guyanese. Apparently she used to only fuck 30 year old white dudes until she met me or some shit. this guy however fulfills the bm/wf meme successfully.
And yeah man, if you just want to fuck her ask her what's good. Maybe she'll be down. I mean, to her you might have just been a one off thing, who knows. I would try to send her flirty texts from time to time or something like that just to remind her you exist and stuff. And eventually it might develop into a more regular fuckbuddy relationship. Which is what I'm hoping from from the girl I posted about, since she also seems very interested in a followup encounter when she's physically/mentally prepared for it, apparently I hit it too hard the first time we met.
Basically man, just play it cool, don't worry too much about seeming "needy", if you want to hit her up to offer some dick, it's not really a weird move. Chances are she really was just at a resort or something. If she didn't want to fuck, she'd probably just not reply. At least that's what I'm thinking.
Jayden Miller
Yeah I got you. I really wanna try again tonight (Friday night) because I'm super fucking horny. Should I be flirty in the early evening and then go for the kill closer to late night or just wait until late night to try my luck again? I don't even know what flirting would even entail in this context. It would definitely be easier after seeing her again. Like I said, my three methods of re-initiating contact would either be >whatcha up to tonight (aka let's fuck) >come out to walkable distance bar >or relate to the exams she just completed
I also met a different girl with her friend at a bar on Monday and I will also hit her up as well. It's obviously easier to strike with someone you've already hooked up with especially when the iron may still be warm.
Ian Taylor
a different two girls entirely** and got one of their numbers and I'll hit this one up to go out to bars and such since she's new to the city we live in
Cooper Sanders
That sounds like bullshit. If there's a problem with a nsfw image, the image is usually erased but the post is not (unless the new crop of mods/janitors are retards). Adv also archives inactive threads for quite a while.
Regardless.
Trying to fuck someone just for sex without any emotional involvement is a new thing for you. It isn't surprising that you're finding that you cannot do this without starting to feel attached and that you want more with someone than just sex.
Some people are able to easily disassociate sex from feelings, some aren't. I think it would be wise to accept that you fall into the latter group.
I think it's also foolish to try to continue and hope that this girl will change her mind about what she wants. She KNOWS what she wants, and it's likely that she's already aware of what she's willing to let herself do.
Do not expect a relationship with her. Don't fuck her hoping for one. If you know you can't do that, don't fuck her.
You can find someone else to have sex with who will want a relationship (at least something you're both comfortable with). Getting your head and your heart all fucked up really isn't worthwhile and just prevents you from going after what you really want.
Eli Adams
here's my advice: forget the girl and improve your writing skills, your post reads like a confession of a faggy robot
Tyler Hall
Man or woman it fucks with us all to run across someone completely emotionally detached. Hard for your ego to process. If she flipped and got attached you would run.
I've been both sides of the coin and I suggest you find another lover
Gabriel Butler
if the image is in the OP, then yes the whole thread gets deleted.
The real problem is... I really enjoyed having sex with her. Like a lot. And I'm pretty sure she did too, she's just busy and apparently in pain and on her period soon and some other stuff. The period thing she told me before our first encounter by the way. She's almost very clinical about describing the state of her vagina, it's a bit off putting from a complete stranger.
Still it's like I look forward to meeting her so much I don't care if she's menstruating or bleeds on my bedsheets or whatever. The sex was too much fun. We were laughing out loud in ecstasy while fucking each other, it was much more exciting than other encounters I've had.
I remember her saying she gets "clingy" if she fucks on her period and part of why she was hesitant to do it... I have to admit it motivates me to want to have sex with her just in case she does get attached, since I could get quite accustomed to having her around. Astonishingly sexy, had that "hot teacher" vibe (she teaches kindergarteners). I'm very, very attracted to her. And the messed up part is her bitchy, standoffish personality makes me feel all kinds of mixed emotions, including arousal. I don't know how to explain it but I really wish this girl thought of me as more than some guy who can fuck really hard.
Tyler Rogers
Have some fucking self respect user
Henry Diaz
Stupid ass man lost his head over a piece of ass. Some pussy refuses to be caged and you'll ruin yourself over this. Here's something you need to consider. She is fucking and/or has and will fuck other men and telling them the same shit
Adrian Martinez
Why don't you hatefuck her?
Colton Harris
I don't have experience with fuckbuddy's myself (unfortunately) but i can give you some insight based on what i have heard from experienced friends and some research i've done.
Basically, a friends-with-benefits type of relationship can only work if the two people involved like each other enough to have sex, but don't care about each other on any other level. If you like the other person too much (or the other way around), FWB relationships don't work.
From reading your story, it's clear that you like this girl more than you should. You said you tried to get a conversation going and you are talking about how she is:
>beautiful >intelligent >funny
You like her too much to have her as a FWB.
>How do i get rid of these feelings? You can't. It will only get worse the more you have sex with her. So you either stop fucking her, or you continue fucking her and deal with the feels. You will do the latter because you are a man and we always fall for the pussy.
/thread
Dominic Lee
it wasn't really hate fucking, it was more like really aggressive, passionate fucking. Which I enjoyed a lot, involved a good amount of choking and slapping. That bad attitude of hers made me enjoy slapping and choking her.
>You will do the latter because you are a man and we always fall for the pussy.
lol you're right. fuck.
what does self respect have to do with it?
honestly, I'm pretty sure she's either fucking or looking to fuck other men, which is why I use condoms. but apparently she's super selective and I was lucky enough to make the cut.
Ian Cox
Keep us updated mcfuck
Ryder Nguyen
will do family
Gabriel Ward
Do big dicks cause hemorrhoids? I developed a hemorrhoid after dating s guy with an 8.5in dick for a few months. I don't have digestive issues and I'm not sedentary so I've always assumed it had something to do with the stretching; I'm very small. No I never did anal. It kind of stretches from my vagina to my butt. Id always have a painful, tingly sensation there after sex.
Evan Flores
I honestly don't know, the girl was like the same size as me, maybe slightly smaller (I'm 5'8") but she did say I stretched her out a lot. Whether that was the cause of the hemorrhoids I don't know. She did let me know over text she was feeling a bit better and might want to meet over the weekend, we'll see if anything goes down. She might not even have anything wrong with her now, just some prolonged soreness from hours of sex. If not, I'll just try to hit up some of my other hoes. At least this one 32 year old divorcee says she wants to come fuck at my place over the weekend, we'll see if she really comes through.
The fucking worst is the women who work all weekend and can never meet you except some random fucking weekday evening when you probably have to wake up early and go work and already feel tired from work, or just don't have the availability to meet them. I'm convinced that's the reason 99% of these women on POF and other apps are single: they just work too much, and they ALWAYS work on the weekends and are completely blind to how much this impacts your sex life if you don't have a partner who works a very, very, very similar schedule to you. Like this one girl I just talked to who literally told me she's down to fuck Tuesday night, like fuck off I work late and I have to wake up early and do shit. If you can't fuck on the weekend, it's probably never going to work or just be way too difficult to make it work.
Aiden Long
now apparently some chinese girl uptown wants to meet me, but is scared my dick is too big for her. well this is kinda lame lol.
Blake Carter
Didn't read your post. Ask her out, have a good time, try to make romantic overtures. She's not feeling it? Drop all contact. You've got better things to do than pine over a one in a million.
Chase Diaz
the problem is her pussy is too flames though
Easton Campbell
You must've had a really shit father, or he fucking died while you were young, so I'll reiterate like an actual good and alive father: You've got better things to do than pine over a one in a million. You truly do. Either take this advice, or continue living in your stupid teen TV show plot.
dumb OP. having feelings for a fuckbuddy is like going to eat to a friends house, find out his/her mom is an excellent cook, start thinking about moving in with them. Worst part is she fucken cautioned you and you just choose to ignore her warning, hope she dumps your sorry ass dick and whats attached to it.
i don't get it man. like yeah my dad sucked ass and is basically a dumb crazy fucker, but what does this have to do with her being a one in a million or whatever? what's so rare about her, really? basically having sex with her is really good and I kinda caught feelings.
idk man I kinda hope she starts feeling clingy next time we hook up.
Zachary Morgan
Wow. And you're a fucking idiot, to boot. The comment about your dad not being there has to do with him not giving you the right advice on how to live, and how to deal with women. >but what does this have to do with her being a one in a million or whatever? what's so rare about her, really? You fucking moron. She's one of a million, billion different women you can fall in love with. She's not as special as you think she is. She doesn't want to date, or love you, so drop her and move the fuck on. >Either take this advice, or continue living in your stupid teen TV show plot.
>She's one of a million, billion different women you can fall in love with
I don't think I could really fall in love with this girl. Nor do I think there's a million girls I could fall in love with, a guy like me will probably die never falling in love. I just said I kind of like her. As in I'd like to at least be friends or something. Part of it too is that out of all the women I've hooked up with, she truly has the bitchiest attitude. My mother was a bitch so this is probably why this is so attractive to me.
Like, there's not really any women who seem to think of me as boyfriend material. Women all treat me like a walking dildo cause I have a big dick or know how to fuck or whatever. It's just so refreshing to meet someone so honest about it. And the fact that she seems like a cool person makes it kind of hurtful that she barely seems to even want to make conversation with me and just wants to talk about sex or have sex.
idk man, I see so many people get girlfriends and I'm near 27 and it's never happened for me, ever. Like it's never even come close to happening. But plenty of casual sex has happened, it seems I'm just that kind of guy.
Cameron Moore
Dumb OP. when you find that kind of fuckwhore what you're supposed to think is "Damn! I have to get me a harem of these fuckcompatible bithchsluts to bang them hard and always have one on call"; not, "Damn, that's the best pussy I've had! I want to marry this cock loving, cock carrouselling, free range sperm addict". Pic related, it's the cock carrousel.
dude I'm literally dealing with like 6 women I want to hook up with now. probably will fuck 1 or 2 over the weekend if they actually come through.
but yeah idk, this chick's pussy is something else. and her bitchy attitude makes me feel things.
like she was literally telling me things like "look dude, you need to use a condom. Cause you're a broke ass and I don't think you could afford my child support, baby". And then when she rode my dick she was like "AAAAAAH CUMM INSIDE ME GODDAMMIT. I WANT YOUR SPERM". That crazy pussy is the best.
Carson Sullivan
So you're just another dude who doesn't know what he wants. Got it. Keep living your teenage drama. Smell ya later.
she's literally the same race as my mother, looks a lot like her, has the same bad bitch attitude. if I'm only being used for my dick, that's cool. gotta keep la raza strong my boy.
basically west indians are the non-beta versions of indian people who were heavily influenced by the british commonwealth to the point that our native language is English and we hate Indian culture.
Here's a pic of her, she's wearing shades so might as well be user.
who cares it's just some fag on the internet with no balls
Jordan Clark
I honestly don't have one I didn't hit her up last night after all I decided to have a chill night and sleep on time so I could work out in the morning and get some work done. However, I'm on the fence about hitting her up tonight. On the one hand, I'm horny af and I need to make moves while the hookup is relatively fresh. In addition, next weekend is Labor Day and she could travel for all I know. However, I feel like hitting her up today is kinda clingy since it would mean that I hit her up on consecutive weekends. To counter that though, if she's interested, my clinginess would be irrelevant so maybe I should just get over it tonight so I can get my answer. Such is the life of the (might as well be a virgin) overthinker.
