I have a fucking emergency I got my first real gf a week ago and tonight I'm going at her place to watch a movie
Other than buying a bottle of white whine I am completely clueless, I am a virgin and I am terrified, I need advice, how to relax, how to initiate sex, should I assume she wants me to even stay over after the movie?
You've already given us the whine, so you can skip it
I feel like if you just got this gf a week ago and are still terrified of her (lol), why initiate sex? Just pretend like you're going to a friend's house to watch a movie and get to know her.
Also, white wine? I feel like your odds of getting a good bottle of red are better, and that's kind of more romantic... it's a natural aphrodisiac iirc
sharp my dude
Why white wine specifically? Why not red? Or beer? Or the fixings for cocktails?
My first time was in a similar situation. Basically, we were sat on the couch with each other, talking, and we started making out. I put my hand on her thigh, near the inside, and she moved my hand directly between her legs (she was wearing shorts), and I could feel she was wet. I was like "I-Is that because of me?" (I'm still cringing at that, but it didn't wreck the mood.)
She did most of it. She took her shorts and panties off and showed me how she liked to be touched. Guided masturbation is a really great way to figure out what she likes. After I got her off, she wanted me to eat her out, which I did. After awhile, she said she wanted me to fuck her.
Easy peasy. My first gf was helpful and did a lot of advancing, but it's really simple. Make out, move hands, if she doesn't stop you, move more. Ask her to take her clothes off, show you where she likes to be touched, say you want to go down on her. React to her reactions. Do what she seems to be enjoying. And after a bit, say you want to fuck her.
And if she takes the lead at any point, let it happen.
I was thinking of white whine because that's what she was drinking at a party but thanks for the tip about the red, I'll go for that instead
solid advice overall guys thanks
Why don't you fucking ask her? No one here knows what she wants or what she's expecting out of you.
You don’t even need to bring alcohol honestly. Stop using dictation, you sound like you’re underage.
Hey op. Try meditating. Grounding meditations are useful. I started sleeping with a guy who i find extremely attractive and i get very nervous around him. Just know that youre not the only one this happens to. Don't initiate sex. Just treat her like a friend, maybe cuddle
Wow, relax. If you are unsure about something, you could simply ask her or talk about it. And you had it right the first time, white whine is great. Not because it's the best pick, you wouldn't know, but because you noticed something about her. Good stuff.
Don't assume anything.
Not many girls out there are as confident as your first girlfriend. With most girls out there, you definitely need to make the moves if you want to get laid. But your advice on how to sexually escalate is definitely true.
>Make out, move hands, if she doesn't stop you, move more.
This works with anything sexual you do with girls. You just do it and see how she responds. If she doesn't stop you, you keep going and escalate some more. If everything goes according to plan you will find yourself at 4th base before you know it.
Best advice I can give you is to pick a shitty movie. My ex girlfriend and I lost our virginities to "The Call". What a dog shit movie. I never watched it past about 20 minutes in but I credit it to having been so boring that the only logical thing to do was get naked and fuck each other.
>Not many girls out there are as confident as your first girlfriend.
That's for damn sure.
Red wine is more romantic you dunce. Ditch the white and go for red, her drinking white at a party is not a very good indicator of her preference in alcohol at all as there were probably other alcoholic beverages served and, you know, most grab what is within reach. If anything, white wine is more fit for that sort of event parties and late evenings to relax. Red wine get the libido going. And again, is more romantic.
You ain't know shit about wine; red wine is too strong and unromantic, it's a meat wine, I have no idea why americans keep seeing it as a normal thing to drink by itself.
White or Pink wine is nice, take a soft and sweet one like a Sancerre or something, it fits every light meal and can be drinked alone
>literal winelets fussing about when they could be having the best sex of their lives after some cocktails
Start the movie.
Quietly take your pants off.
Wait till about the middle of the movie.
Jump up in front of her and stroke you manhood.
Tell her to open her mouth and swallow.
Make plans for a second movie date if she does.
Well first off, accept you are going to be nervous. No getting around that. Maybe take a beta-blocker if you can get your hands on that. Get a jammy red wine like Zinfandel. Just watch the movie and focus more on the relationship than sex. You have to let things happen and your biggest opponent here is patience.
mothe
>get on sofa
>put something on tv
>get mildly drunk
>start making out
>take off clothes
>optional oral sex
>insert penis in vagina
its not rocket science
Here's what you do OP.
1. Get her white wine. It won't be good, but point out that you saw her drinking that. She'll enjoy the fact you notice things about her far more than a better wine, because neither of you are connoisseurs.
2. Get over there, and turn on the movie.
3. Discreetly take your dick out during the movie.
4. During the action scene in the middle, jump up quickly, turn to face her, and slap her with your dick right in her lying face while screaming "sausage bomb!" with a French accent.
5. She is now wet like a walrus in heat and good to go.
6. If you have any WWE trivia, this is the time to tell her.
7. Rawdog her like a boss. If you told her any WWE trivia, be prepared for a flood as she is now so wet you can start a slip'n'slide from the TV couch.
8. Prepare to hear you are the greatest lover since Casanova took half a bottle of Russian military grade Viagra and went to town.
9. Win.
What did OP do?
Does she know youre a birgin?
I went with Worked perfectly.
Thanks anons.