How did you guys get over your first love, move on, and accept that there are other people out there?

How did you guys get over your first love, move on, and accept that there are other people out there?

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Started fucking a lot of girls that did nastier things

thats the problem girls that wanna fuck I get kinda avoidant because first gf pops in my mind

I mean it took me a decent 8-9 months before i got to the point that I could do that

How long has it been

My first was a 2 year long relationship, with a rough ending. Took me a good year to get over and out of the depressive state. At the end of the day, it's a learned lesson.

dated the girl for 3 years and we have been broken up for good since february
a learned lesson?

Time, mostly.

What condiments would you put on a burger?
Ketchup?
Mustard?
Relish?

Some people like ketchup, others like mustard some like all 3. You're relish. Either find someone that likes relish or struggle making them like you and watch them revert back to mustard.

That's all there is to it. People exist and have their own preferences. You just happen not to be it while they happen to be yours. Move onto the next person until you find someone who is compatible.

That is really all there is to it.

Kissing random chicks in the club
Honestly restarting your sex drive will make you want to seek out potential partners

Been six years and still haven't been with another girl. Haven't felt the need for another relationship. Wouldn't mind sex though

I'm afraid this is going to be me. Hell it kinda is already. It's been 2 years since she broke up with me and I've tried to see other people, but it's always so shallow. I lose interest in these other chicks within weeks and I can't hold a serious relationship with anyone else because I don't really want one with them.

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How do you even meet people that want to date? I met my ex at work and we were together almost 3 years. She broke up with me a few months ago, but we've been trying to get back together. Admittedly I don't think it was working out. But whatever chance we had of getting back together I fucked it up. My buddy had a party and I fucked one of his slut friends. I'm an introvert and avoid meeting people too.

this man described the feeling exactly
I think we just need to find a woman that pique's our interest so much that it just doesn't go away within like a week or few days but its just so hard all of them suck

Not seeing her
If I saw her right now I'd probably fall in love all over again.

This motherfucking shit right here. I'm the kind of stupid asshole that ran into my first serious exgf again after a few months of no contact and I caved and agreed to the idea of speaking again on a irregular basis. That turned into a regular one. Then daily. And now its been over a year where we talk at least once every few days or see each other once a week. I'm back at square one with this woman because I love her all over again, but she has mixed feelings. Not mixed enough to point where I should be hoping as hard as I am.

>TL:DR - for the love of god OP avoid seeing your first love at all costs. Don't put yourself in a situation where you'll see her. If by happenstance you find her DO NOT REMAIN IN CONTACT

You'll always remember your big loves user. Even the most hardened dudebros that call all chicks sluts have a soft spot in their heart still for somebody. It's permanent- sorry.

Now you know this shit ain't no joke.

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Good luck.

I was really young with the first person I loved. Maybe 16? 17? It was a stupid high school relationship that lasted 8 months until the girl cheated on me. I ghosted her. Burned her reputation to the ground. And came to hate her for everything she represents in women. I learned a lot about what to be careful for in relationships.

How did I get over her?
Time. Time heals all wounds. Took years if I remember right for me to stop thinking about her every day.
I was numb when I broke up with her. Literally numb to the entire world. I felt nothing but emptiness.

Today I am in an adult relationship and it is an entirely different affair. Better in all ways and going on strong for two years now. Nothing super long-term, but nothing to sneeze at. This relationship should lead into marriage if we remain true to each other.

Cheers user!

May you have a long and happy marriage blessed with wonderful children :)

I grew up around other guys.
As a guy I was quite far behind the learning curve with all females and such.
If I have learned anything in my pseudo normie or failed normie life.
It's that a majority of guys can not be friends with their exe's
At the very least I can't.
I can't be intimate with a women and then go back to being just friends with them.
It's among the top worst feelings in the world.

Time, for real.. everything ends.

What does first love mean here? First actual girlfriend? Or first crush I let grow out of proportion?

Honestly though the answers are pretty similar. Time and meeting new people.