What can I do in the bedroom that signals to my girlfriend that I’m the alpha and she is my bitch

You already have the wrong mindset. Those are all things to do during sex and it's actually very important for women. Because women's sexuality has a lot to do with psychology. Your male centric view on sex (e.g. it's just about sex position and therefore penetration) already shows that you are fucking oblivious.

PULL.
THAT.
HAIR.

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If you have to ask, you are a bitch.

Have to second this statement.
Your not an alpha, you're not even a man. This is typical insecure manchild shit.

barring these...

you have to finger her butthole

Get her on her knees stand with your cock over her and tell her you are going to piss in her to mark her and she is going to fucking like it.

>not wanting to be the little bitch of your girlfriend

you can't "do" that, you have to have a girlfriend who specifically wants it. it's a fetish, not a real normal thing.

Nothing because you're a loser

This is the problem, that's not how this works. You can't just be a beta pushover in all other areas of your life, and expect some specif sex position to fix all your short comings.
To be Alpha during a sexual encounter you just have to be dominant and lead the interaction, that's it. You don't have to be super aggressive or anything, just be the one in control.
But that SHOULD come naturally because you should be doing that in all aspects of your life, so it should be your natural instinct to also lead and dominate a sexual encounter.

This. Barring real humiliation she's not into (ignoring her boundaries, spitting in her face out of nowhere, insulting her personality/intelligence out of the blue), a woman is going to feel like a bitch depending on her personal disposition.

E.g. an user mentioned getting their anus fingered. I love that, not submissive, and it never made me feel submissive. Why would I feel lesser because a man is willing to spoil my literal shithole to make me feel good? It's all a matter of perception. Similarly, a woman who loves rough animalistic sex while she gets pressed into a pillow is not going to feel like a bitch for getting what she craves. Or well, only in the good way she desires, not in the way you seem to imply by the OP.

Just use sex for fun and not to make a statement about your relationship.

If you're asking then it's possible that being alpha and sexually dominant does not come naturally to you

i actually feel like a woman dominating me is more alpha than dominating her, since that means she'd have to do all the work while i just have to enjoy it. i think the most humiliating thing for me is when i have to do all the work and she's lazy and just lays around in passive mode.

Yeah, I get that. The dominant person caters much more to the submissive person than vice versa, it's definitely a lot more work.

I agree but some men love this, I think some really like the idea that sex is something only they do to the woman, that she's being burdened with her sexuality. Like a scenario where she's the pure maiden and he forces his brutish sexuality on her. Just seems boring but different strokes for different people.

What makes a person dominant?

Aggressiveness/violence if you have issues.
Or willpower if you know exactly what you want.
Dominance can either mean leading the women (rather natural) or forcing (for people with issues, it's more of a fetish)

In terms of sex, it's kind of like dancing, the dominant person leads. He can lead gently by picking out her clothes for the day and lovingly washing her body for her, or he can lead aggressively by pulling her head back from the roots of her hair and forcing it on his cock, but the dominant person initiates what happens next and essentially comes up with the routine.

There's definitely overlap/grey area though. E.g. a woman on top can be seen as dominant for her because she sets the pace and makes the sex happen, but if she hates being on top and he sternly orders her to do as he says, it's submissive. In these cases it's a matter of perception and circumstantial details. It's not black and white as you can tell, some acts some perceive as submissive/dominant are not considered that way by everyone. I personally think few sex acts are -inherently- dominant or submissive, it's how you do it and when, in what context and dynamic.

Dude you're a bottom just say it, it's okay.

i actually had to learn not to be dominant to enjoy sex again. i actually always told my gf what to do, would command her, telling her which position to go. but at some point i felt like i'm just ruining it by being too dominant.
i don't think it's something to brag about, since it only does ruin the experience.

you get therapy because you’re fucking equals

Buy some fine china then DESTROY IT in front of her. This isn't a euphemism.

>equals
lmao

lmao

Do a few lines of coke, scream as loud as you can and punch her in the vagina, that should do the trick

Demolish her cervix.

Get a better salary, pretty much guaranteed she will be your bitch

man handle her. Pull her hair, be a little rough when changing positions. tease her and show you're in control