I'm terrified of having a daughter one day

>A lot of girls often just want sex no strings attached
I don't want her to be sleeping around for no reason. It's a bad habit. Regardless if how harmless it may seem, it breeds other bad habits like being unable to settle down or unable to be monogamous. And yes hypergamy is bad because nothing will ever be enough for you once you go down that road

You just want/wanted other girls to do that for you.

You know, nobody likes a hypocrite. Even hypocrites don't like hypocrites.

I don't think it is.

Girls might look slutty because they take bikini pics for instagram when they're at the beach, but people our generation have been having less sex than our parents and even grandparents.

There's a big old world between "only has sex after marriage for the sole purpose of procreation" and "hypergamist nymphomaniac who is literally unable to be satisfied by one man at a time".

and again, going by your worries, it's something that should affect your theoretical boy as much as it should your girl, no?

>you just want/wanted other girls to do that for you
Exaclty.
I already admitted to being a hypocrite. I'm just saying I can't cope with the fact that one day there is a high probability my daughter will be sleeping around with guys like me who see her as a hole to fuck and there's nothing I'll be able to do about it

>it's something that should affect your theoretical boy as much as it should your girl
Of course. But I'm not that worried. like it or not, society respects men who sleep around more than women who do. It's a fact and you can't deny it

what makes you think the daughter won't be seeing guys as nothing more than dicks to jump on?

>high probability

Imagine being this much of a bad parent that you've already given up on your fictional daughter.

>society respects men who sleep around more than women who do. It's a fact and you can't deny it

It's actually not really something that either gender would put on their CV like "I graduated from harvard and also I fuck a lot", it doesn't really carry respect either way unless you're still in high school or some shit.

>Yes I'm a hypocrite I don't care
yet you want us to care about you now
topkek get bent faggot

my ex had a similar way of talking about sluttiness in both girls and guys. I got to listen to him rant about loose morals in people our age, but before (and after) he was with me he looked for ass on tinder and irl just like the very people he complained about. the hypocrisy boggles my mind desu. admitting that you're a hypocrite is the cherry on top

>care about my daughter everyone!
>but i didn't, dont, and won't care about yours!
good luck with that

>most of us are well adjusted
Most girls dont fuck random dudes. If they are hot then they can get attention if they dont put out. If they are introverted then they need to get past their social anxieties to be open with another person who could at any point rape them.
If you think that half of Jow Forums is well adjusted then you are retarded. Most of the "well adjusted" work a shit job and do drugs or are general fuck boys. Fuck even the furries that dont out themselves constantly think they are considered "well adjusted".
Personally, I dont care if my daughter is a whore because I will just kick her out like I would for a son who spends all day gaming, doing drugs, or anything else I decide.
And Im damn sure going to charge rent when they are 18.

There is one person who has the most influence on a girl, normally: The father.
Most girls with issues and most sluts either had assholes for fathers, basedboys (for the lack of a better term) or no father at all.
Though there are girls with issues despite having great fathers, these are often not sluts.
I know plenty of girls who only had long-term relationships and will probably have less than five of them in their entire lives. These are the girls who are not on social media 24/7 and won't sleep around, because they want a decent guy and know they can't get him when their labeled a slut.

tl;dr: bad men make bad fathers make sluts.
great men make great fathers make great women.

>admitting that you're a hypocrite is the cherry on top
If i don't sleep with this girl who clearly wants to fuck me then someone else will. And we don't look at her as a person, but as an object to stick our dick in. I don't want my daughter to be that girl who sleeps around, and there's a big chance she will be, given the state of society today. Go to any college party and look around. You'll see what I mean. Casual sex is degenerate. It turned me into degenerate and there's no going back from it. I don't want my child to make the same mistakes I did

>people our generation have been having less sex than our parents and even grandparents
not saying you're a liar but do you have a source my guy

>I am not sexist/misogynist in any way but seeing how slutty young girls have become
lol

Finally a good reply. So how I be a good father user ?
I think I've been exposed so much to slut culture that my mind has been poisoned and I think every girl is a slut

You completely lack self-awareness

The fact that you don't have the same worries about a potential son being turned into a degenerate and instead just wave it away as "having respect" tells us all we need to know about you and about the issue. I hope you'd realise it too soon. Hint: the beginning of the OP is not true.

I'm not sexist if it's true !
It's like saying there are more black men in prison and being called racist. It's a fact, just like teenage girls being super promiscuous is. You don't believe me? Google teenage pregnancy

I do have worries that my son will be a useless piece of shit who jacks off to porn all day and looks like a sack of potatoes. But the topic of discussion here is my potential daughter. Why mix things up? One thing at a time my friend

>If i don't sleep with this girl who clearly wants to fuck me then someone else will.
>So how I be a good father user ?
Well, first of all live up to the example and stop being a male slut

The current generation of people are the least promiscuous generation since the 1920's. Teen pregnancy and average number of sexual partners has steadily decreased over the past 80 years. The CDC itself has stated that the drop in teen pregnancies is at least partly due to the decrease of female sexual activity. The best way to make sure your daughter doesn't try to get validation through sex is to not be a shitty father. Basically, the problem of a new generation of whores and slutty women you're talking about isn't happening. It doesn't exist. You made it up in your head because you're a man-child and an idiot.

>Casual sex is degenerate. It turned me into degenerate and there's no going back from it. I don't want my child to make the same mistakes I did
>I do have worries that my son will be a useless piece of shit who jacks off to porn all day and looks like a sack of potatoes
See how you don't worry about him becoming promiscuous? See how that's blatantly sexist and in contradiction to the statement you wrote when you were trying to convince yourself that you aren't sexist?

Is this bait?

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>Basically, the problem of a new generation of whores and slutty women you're talking about isn't happening. It doesn't exist. You made it up in your head because you're a man-child and an idiot.
Hahahhah this can't be real. Why don't you leave the basement and go out to a bar/club/party ?

Just because i forgot to mention that I'm worried he'll become a useless druggie who fucks a new girl every day I'm being called a sexist. Okay then

forbes.com/sites/janetwburns/2016/08/16/millennials-are-having-less-sex-than-other-gens-but-experts-say-its-probably-fine/#7c4ba7ded958

If you don't like forbes for whatever reason you can find the same story all over the internet, or look at the studies.

including you in this post because you need it

I wish I can. But I can't get it out of my system now. But when I find a girl I truly love I will 100% commit to her. Thanks user you are a good person

Apparently I have to /thread at the other user's post since you're literally unable to follow your own train of thought

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Statistics are statistics. Going to a bar/club/party doesn't change the facts. Admittedly, this generation has the laxest, most accepting attitude concerning casual sex and sexual individualism than any other generation but is statistically having the least amount of casual sex. As I said, the CDC itself attributes a drop in teen pregnancy with a drop in sexual activity. As attitudes concerning sex become more open and accepting, teen pregnancy and average number of casual sex partners goes down. Those are the facts whether you want to accept it or not. Causation vs. correlation aside the data supports the argument that open conversation about sex safety, access to contraceptive/sex education and the de-stigmitization of sex in a social context has actually contributed to an overall decrease in sexual promiscuity. A study throughout the UK and Wales also showed that not only are kids less likely to have casual sex they are less likely to participate in a host of other illicit behaviors like drugs and crime. As generations progress they statistically use less drugs, commit less crime and have less sex. Again, these are the stats. No amount of autistic flailing on your part will change the data.

teen pregnancy rates are at all time lows you fucking retard. just do society a favor and get a vasectomy
>I'll just use my empirically worthless anecdote instead of actual empirical data
>there's no global warming, its cold right now!

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When you are a male slut, you cannot find a 'girl you will truly love', for you will only attract sluts.

>t. very wise and experienced 23 year old who has seen it all after so much time on earth

>How should I cope with this?
since you aren't a parent its an irrelevant and irrational thing for you to even worry about.

If you were a parent of a daughter you'd realize that you have a lot of influence over what they believe. You can raise them to believe that sex outside of marriage is not okay. You can raise them to believe that if the sex isnt respectful and loving then its not acceptable and wont be tolerated.

Shitty slutty women weren't raised right, its really that simple.

pro tip: nearly every slut I've been with was raised in a conservative religious household.

If you try too hard to shape your kid into x y or z, they'll end up the opposite

Have a turkey baster baby that is a boy.

OP half of Jow Forums is made up of fat "artistic" whores. As in female.

You'd unironically get better advice from Jow Forums

The people here are normies. They don't see any problem with women being passed around. They don't know what it's like to raise someone and then see them throw it all away.

>You'd unironically get better advice from Jow Forums

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Nothing is ever simple, especially raising a child. At first, boys are hard. At last, girls are even worse.

Try to raise her without a phone, or at least a smartphone. Explain to her thay just because they have a phone doesn't mean she needs to have it. And that love stuff is difficult, but you seem smart OP, and that trait will pass on to your daughter. Love is real to them, it is a real addiction.

Anyways, I know you don't have to worry because you're already thinking. And that's better than at least 50% of America, OP. Good Job! :)

Just send dick pics to 100 women. It'll all make sense

I don't post here much but I noticed that in my post. Roasties everywhere man. And I thought Jow Forums was bad
>Love is real to them, it is a real addiction.
Makes it easier to manipulate them

Yeah all my male friends feel the same way. We've talked about it at some length.

The general consensus is that you should love your daughter but teach her shitloads of morals, teach her to value her personality and soul over her body, and teach her to be ultra-suspicious of men's interest in "her" (read: her body). But overall, you should keep fuckin' until you have a son or two, because even with all that moral training there's an 90-100% chance your daughter will end up slutting around and being an ambitionless sack of shit by her twenties. And anything you try to do to stop it will just be met with her "rebelling" by letting dudes blow loads in her mouth.

This is the worst time in history for women. They are complete fucking pigs. If you can raise an astrophysicist who happens to have a vagina, I say go for it. But expect to have to spiritually and emotionally disown her, just in case.

>1920's
WW2 sorted that out. Well at least for a decade or two. In some countries.

I'm 21. I've never been to a club in my life. I'm still a virgin. I've never brought a boy home. I study at a top university in the world. My friends in school were girls into gaming, into internet culture, who wore jumpers and trousers, and kickers. I do like degenerate porn though.

My parents brought me up in a certain way, and one which I doubt you'd be able to replicate. We weren't allowed to wear skirts without leggings, no boyfriends, no drinking - so it was natural that I turned into this modest social recluse.

>How should I cope with this?
get a daughter, follow guide.

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Just a question, do you like where you are right now in life?

This

I feel like raising a daughter to repressed will just make her go full whore mode once she has her sexual awakening. Which means having sex for the first time and being more in touch with your sexual side and the confidence linked to it.

I want to say "plz be my waifu" but instead of that I'll say plz find an uncannily, strangely nice guy who doesn't view you as a sexual object and whose brain hasn't been nuked by porn and hookup culture, and then plz raise wonderful children together and create a world where you don't have to be social recluses because you have dignity. Thanks.

It's not about repression, I never believed I was repressed. It's just that '''normal''' girl things weren't normal for me, and that was okay. Kind of like modesty just became my character. Instead of developing some things, I was encouraged to develop my intellect - my older sisters are equally intelligent, aspiring, and hard working.

Yes! I can say that I'm in a good spot in life, with respect to my education/career trajectory, family, although of course some things could be improved.

Bless your parents for raising up a hard working daughter with goals in life who hasn't been poisoned by society, and whose sole goal is to impress men. you're the exception to the rule.

That's great! Dont feel bad for being a virgin, focus on relationships when you get outta school with that degree. You got everything in line for you.