Backstory: >Meet this kid, T in freshman year High School >Became best of friends >Fucked around in class every day >Hung out after school >Even went to a national competition as Partners and brought home 4th for our school >First year of college starts >He went to CC and I went to University >Any time I try to ask him to hang out he'd avoid me like the plague >Tried to start personal projects and share it with him and I'd get ignored >One day I bought him a game on steam that was related to an inside joke from high school >He explodes at me and tells me that I haven't grown up >I've never been his friend and he hated me all 4 years >Blocked me on everything and I haven't spoken to him since >3 years later >Thoughts of T and things we did in high school pop into my mind and I wish that I could forget and move on >It was so abrupt that I never got a clear answer why
I've grown up a bit now and I just want to forgive him so I can move on from it all. I can't seem to do it. What do I do?
We are all Different user some Mature Quicker and move on to other things.
And start Disliking things and stuff they use to Love back in other Times.
Don't Blame Yourself you simply didn't know he didn't like it anymore.
Besides if he was Truly your friend a Sorry and a Simple Explanation would have been enough.
But he didn't give you the chance he wasn't your Friend not anymore.
Just Calm Down and learn that Folk won't find Fun Past things like that inside Joke anymore.
Gabriel Moore
why do you need to forgive someone who doesn't want to seek it? he clearly wants nothing to do with you. but you should know why atleast. forgiveness isn't needed
Brayden Stewart
Those are good points. Thanks user.
I want closure most of all. The reason I want to give forgiveness is because I've grown a lot as a person as a result of his actions.
Josiah Green
You Already Forgive him That's enough.
In my experience Even if you want to apologise they will ignore you or Play Deaf.
Don't Bother it would only cause you more pain and will make you think you are to Blame and only give you Depression the important thing is that you want to Apologise in the Inside and that's enough.
Probably he doesn't remember the incident from what you said The Guy sounds like A Normie and Normies are always Ignorant of the kinds of things and may Forget moments like this in their life.
Daniel Murphy
Yeah. I guess you're right
Ryder Nguyen
still definitely ask him why he reacted the way he did
Lincoln Myers
He has me blocked for 3 years now. I'm just trying to get personal closure. I have no way to get in contact with him.
Jayden Jenkins
oh shit i totally misread the OP. i thought you were friends for 3 years and he did this recently. just give up on it, he's a pathetic little pussy who couldn't just tell you why he disliked you and decided to take a little bitch route and block you
Carson Jenkins
You and I have the similar situation, the only difference is you're worst, 1 year later he came back to me, but he wasn't my everything you know, unlucky you, just gonna have to swallow it.
Leo Perry
I don’t understand the need for closure. Isn’t it enough that we experienced and learned? Do we have to have a last official talk to mark it. Is there something I’m missing?
Angel Hall
Don't forgive him at all? I mean that's a pretty dick move by him. How could you've guessed he didn't like you or the things you did back then when he never told you?
What you should be looking into is FORGETTING and not FORGIVING. These type of people don't deserve your effort, move onto other things. Life is too short to waste on forgiving people instead of enjoying it yourself.
Josiah Sanchez
That's a better idea probably. But how do I forget something like that?
Austin Foster
Focus on other things that are going on in your life. What are you currently doing? Studying, working? What do you do in your free time that could use more time of your day? Think of these things instead of regretting the past and thinking about someone who obviously doesn't care about you.
Adrian Anderson
I'm in school. Imy mostly busy, but when there's nothing going on and I think about past good times it comes into my head.
Wyatt Cooper
Then find something to fill that time user. Get into reading, working out or planning future events. Do anything but whatever you are currently doing. The reason you keep going back to it is because you made that a habit of yours. Gotta break out of the cycle and eventually you will stop.
Liam Parker
Okay, that's a good idea. Thanks user.
Adrian Ramirez
No problem. Good luck in improving your life.
Daniel Rogers
Copy the greentext and send it to him.
Nathaniel Taylor
This is a perfect example of why your a faggot, only children say no u
