How do I approach women in real life? I can do ok with girls on the internet but I have no idea how to do it offline, especially in public spaces.
How do I approach women in real life? I can do ok with girls on the internet but I have no idea how to do it offline...
Men like you and me don’t approach random women in public. It takes skill and experience in getting on with women generally.
Better is to follow the approach of meeting women in group settings, getting their contact info, and trying to hang out one-on-one.
I generally don't have many oportunities to get involved with women in the real world because of work stuff.
Knowing that you don’t have the regular social experiences guys who normally pull that shit off, you think approaching random women would be successful because...?
You need to widen your social circle, work on that.
Could be getting a hobby, dance lessons, hanging out more with your friends, etc.
Think of women like human beings. You know how you talk to family members or a friend? That's pretty much it.
This. Guys who can pick up girls like you’re imagining are not socially isolated like you. They have regular experiences and live normal social lives.
I don't have a problem interacting with women once I know they're somehow interested in a conversation, that's why I said I have no issues talking to women online or in dating apps. I can't get this sort of confirmation offline without approacing them.
That's how the vast majority of men interact with women. Maybe you should try to have conversations with women rather than unnaturally "approaching" random ones.
How do I ask a family member or a friend out on a date?
>Maybe you should try to have conversations with women
Again, how? Like I said, I generally don't have the opportunities to approach women outside of commute and my hobbies (mainly cinema and vidya) don't exactly allow for socialization with women.
>my hobbies (mainly cinema and vidya) don't exactly allow for socialization with women.
You're a fucking idiot
Nice rebuttal, faggot.
>believes he has no opportunities to meet women outside of his commute
>notes that his hobbies are girl repellent
In light of these, what makes you think approaching random women is likely to work out for you?
Some people (like me) actually have the most difficulty talking to family members. It's quite terrifying how much leverage they hold over your life. For me, the easiest interactions are the most impersonal ones. I excel at performing in front of a crowd, but run into more issues the greater the level of intimacy.
I also experience something similar this. In front of a crowd or strangers I cease to be myself and become a character so im unassailable. I cant be criticised because im not on display. This gives me unlimited confidence. In contrast, my family and close friends can actually hurt me.
It doesnt impede talking to girls though since chad me is just another mask i wear at parties.
My 2 family members and maybe 30 friends all talk about how great hitler was.
I dont think that flys in public.
Before you ask, yes its a smaller circle. Because we're the last remaining white ppl in Branford.
So what's the solution?
Socializing like a normal human being, meeting women at social events, becoming friendly, and if you feel attracted try to hang out one-on-one. If they don't go for it, move on.
This "just talk to random girls in public" shit is worse than catcalling.
>This "just talk to random girls in public" shit is worse than catcalling.
>implying shes no sopping wet when i catcall her
Try your local bookstore. And I don't mean Adult Bookstore. Girls who hang out there can actually read.
What would you call a "social event" based on what OP said? He very clearly stated that he can't go to these sort of things on the regular.
I wouldn't want to be disturbed while reading, so I doubt girls would enjoy that either.
I know that this isn't really an answer, but you should just keep doing it on the internet.