I really fucked up guys

I finally got a girlfriend and I fucking blew it. I just didn't move fast enough to keep up with her. I feel like such a beta... It tore apart our otherwise really happy and good relationship so bad that there is no way I think I can save it from here. How do I avoid moving this slow in the future without experience ya know? I don't wanna feel like shit again anytime soon

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try harder next time fag

But is there actually anything I can do? What do I try harder?

Care to explain, OP? What do you mean by moving slowly?

It had been almost been 6 months and we were still just starting to reach making out. We talked about the pace of the relationship and she really tried to stay in it but she gave up.

She needed the dick user. You are just lucky she had the decency to break up with you instead of going behind your back. If you can't move faster than find someone else who moves as slow as you do.

>It had been almost been 6 months and we were still just starting to reach making out.
Jesus user that's some first second date shit. I've never been able to move slow though so maybe we can learn from each other.

How old are you and the chick?

be daring

it's attractive and it helps you get your dick wet

when a girl gives you that shocked open mouth frownsmile you're doing the right thing

Welcome to your first relationship. Sorry that you weren’t the one to end it. We can’t all be that lucky.

As to ensuring physical shit moves at the right pace, you kinda need to use your powers of observation. Was the problem that you don’t have as much of a sex drive as her, or that you couldn’t figure out how to get to the next base?

If it’s an issue of sex drive, honestly, that relationship was probably doomed anyway. As men we can only push ourselves so far when we aren’t interested. Women can just lube up and let you have your way for a few minutes once in awhile and if they’re smart you might not notice the difference.

If it’s an issue of you just not knowing how to push things or that you were waiting for her, it’s an easy enough fix honestly, you just have to be more observant and test your boundaries in the right situation. Making out? Try moving your hands around to various places. If she responds positively, you push a little further. It’s a real gradient, the path between making out and fucking. There are clear milestones, but you don’t, at least not at the beginning, start a session with fingering her or eating her out. You move from making out to sensual touching and then into more and more sexual stuff.

do women only want fuckboys then?

No. But making out before the six month mark doesn’t make you a fuckboy.

you can't never win then. women don't like fuckboys or guys that take it slow.

That’s right. It’s a Goldilocks situation. Fortunately it’s not that hard to figure out what the right pace is. You make small moves and when she’s receptive, it’s the right time to press further. It’s just that easy.

There's a gap between trying to fuck immediately and not doing anything for 6 months, dumbass
In that case the girl in question could say the exact same thing
>you can't never win then. Men either just want to fuck and dump or they don't wanna have sex at all

>How do I avoid moving this slow in the future without experience ya know?
Do childish moves like put your arm around her and shit. Then slide your hand smoothly on her hips, and from there to ass. Let your fingers wander, explore the curvature and let your fingers be soldiers, scouting for anus. Massage the balloon knot with a little bit of spit on your fingertip, until it slips in to the 2nd knuckle. Then tell her with a raunchy voice: "Suck my fucking cock bitch!" and guide her head down to the flesh-flute concerto. Let her play the pre-cum song, then rip off her clothes and meathammer the shit out of her. Literally fuck her until shit comes out of her ass and when you can smell the turtle peeking out of the shell, tell her: "Eewwww.... you disgusting slut!", then pull out, grab her by the hair and splash her face with a big glob of cum.

Whatever you do, never call her by her name. Always call her 'bitch', 'slut' or 'whore'.

That's about it. Good luck.

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there is always a moment when kissing is right user. you can manufacture it but i'm sure that in 5 months you missed countless opportunities.

pay more attention next time, when your faces are close and she keeps doing things that get hers closer to yours (you can do that too) or when you are watching a movie and cuddling, lean back a little and look at her, if she wants to kiss then she'll turn and look at you too. this shit is extremely easy. kissing is nothing nowadays.

it really isn't that hard. you were already with her so she wanted you to kiss her, my advice is for when you are just hanging out or on a date but i guess it can be applied if you are moving that slowly too.

>How do I avoid moving this slow in the future
this:

atleast you don't have phimosis like me

>GF for 6 months
>starting to reach making out
Fucking kek... i'm not even gonna ask if you guys are 9 years old. Because even couples were both of them are 9 year old kids escalate quicker than you OP.

>How do I avoid moving this slow in the future without experience ya know?
I'm 21 years old and i think the following is pretty standard :

-Making out after anywhere between 1-3 dates
-Having sex after anywhere between 2-5 dates

op do this. success guaranteed.

Anyone who fucks that early ain't worth the time.

Making out is fine but sexual shit should be a little further down the road if you're looking for a quality person.

Remember kids, if she's fucking you on date 3, she's fucked 100 other guys around the same time or earlier.

Next time don't date a slut.

>Remember kids, if she's fucking you on date 3, she's fucked 100 other guys around the same time or earlier.
And?

This basically. You gotta watch it though because you’re in groping territory pretty quickly if it’s the wrong time.

Every girl is different, as it turns out.

The last girl I dated thought holding hands and kissing on the second date was "too fast" for her. Oh well.

Not op.
But thank you for your post.

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Am OP
Thank you for your contribution to the thread.
All the help here has really helped me think about what happened and now I feel I at least have a better chance moving forward.

Everything. Follow the hero’s journey.

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When does the supernatural aid kick in?