How do I gain life experiences
pic related is me every day
How do I gain life experiences
pic related is me every day
Read a book, go outside. build something. go from there
>reading
This is just as passive as posting on computer.
If I go outside, how do I make experience when I have no friends and nothing to do?
Bring said book outside. Fuck friends, go do something. Wander into nature or something
take up painting
bitches love paintings
There are two kinds of books fren. One kind teaches you things (texts/manuals), and the other wastes your time (stories).
Yet you read neither
Pretty much what everyone else is saying. Just go out and do something new every day if you can. Doesn't matter how small, just be sure you try to do it and keep up with it. When you find things you like, stick with them.
>How do I gain life experiences
By living, duh.
People keep saying "go outside" like you're gonna magically stumble upon a magic lamp with a djinn that's gonna send you to another world so you learn valuable lessons and then come back to your life knowing exactly how to fix it.
Get a job, if you don't need a job then just get something part-time, also sign for a class or anything, drawing, dancing, japanese, doesn't matter just sign to a class.
i also lived like this for the last 2 months and i also want to do something, but whenever i go out i either feel observed or tense, and when i go out with friends i am more relaxed, but as an adult i shouldnt have to rely on friends to feel comfortable to go outside
>Stories do not teach you things
Retard brainlet detected
wow imagine being this guy
Join the military
sex in public toilets
you are making a choice to sit at the computer every day. join a bowling league, rotary club, go to trivia, etc.
Why not join the country women association?
Do activities alone, after a while youll bump into somebody cool. Happens all the time
nice picture fren
It's really not, when's the last time you spent 20 hours reading a whole plot on the internet?
Yeah let me just crack out my 644 page Morphy Richards 48281 Fastbake Breadmaker manual. Good read
op thats one cool pic frendo
life experiences and going outside is overrated-i used to be in the woods a lot
ive almost died many times going outside. rattlesnakes, ticks crawling on me, poison oak, mountain lion ran behind me, deer hitting me with their hoove
I have learned that mostly everything is selfish in this world and will consume your soul if it benefits their soul. life is dark souls. the best memories i have are playing cod4 with my online friends
make a video game and sell it, that will benefit the world and probably make you satisfied
Larp until you believe you actually did what you said irl
>life is dark souls
my man
Are you tarded? just watch the Elon Musk video, no need to read anything
If you're looking for friend and a workout, go to a rock climbing gym. It doesn't matter if you suck, nobody judges you. The rock climbing community is really nice and welcoming. Find a gym with a lot of bouldering walls. Mainly because bouldering is extremely social. But also because you only need a pair of climbing shoes to get started. (and a chalk bag with some chalk if you start getting serious). Whereas with top rope or lead climbing you also need a harness, belay device and a friend who is also certified to belay.
Go alone and work on some routes. Somebody else might try the same route you're on. Say something like "what are you doing for that second move?" (don't worry about not knowing any of the lingo) There, you've made a friend. If you keep to a regular schedule you will bump into the same people often. It's almost impossible not to talk to people while bouldering. You basically have to wear headphones if you don't want anyone chatting you up. It's the most social part of the sport.
Another fun part about rock climbing is not having to constantly look people in the eye when you talk to them. It's perfectly okay and normal to look up at the wall while talking to someone.
>get job cannery or factory
>buy a 1976 camaro
>restore the whole thing from scratch.
>Let your balls drop
>give firm handshakes
Dont listen to any of these retards, set a BIG goal and execute on it. Something that takes a few years and requires working with other people and taking risks. Document the journey getting there every day, even a small blurb in a journal or a video or something, stuff that helped you get there, stuff that held you back, people that fucked you over or helped you, basically dont let it fall down the memory hole and become hazy.
After you accomplish your goal, or fail at it after a noble effort. Look back on the things that helped you get there and what didnt. The conclusions you draw from that IS what life experiences are, so when some faggot posts online about life experiences you can respond with direct knowledge, knowing youve been there and done it. It will give you a certainty that literally no second hand experience can come close to.
How do you decide what your goal is? That part has to be YOUR choice, if anyone else decides this for you, even if its an unconscious influence over you, it ceases to be your life experiences.
1. Stop fapping
2. Go do some shit thats not in your home.
Not OP
Thank you dude
This post inspired me