this tall muscular guy and I matched on tinder and we have movie date coming up
i'm so anxious, i realise i have such poor appreciation of myself because i just think he looks way better than me and i'm not used to dating so i'm stressed out: i don't want to mess it up
i don't want to make it seem like i hate myself, i know i'm good looking and i know that guys like me, sometimes i meet guys for sex and it goes great but i've never wanted to date because i don't like where i am at, i still have some work to do on myself before i feel completely comfortable with someone. i wanted to feel good about myself first, be confident and all and then be open to something serious but anyway the date is here... i've never had a serious relationship just i didn't want to meet anyone until i am my best self...
and now there's this guy, his pictures hot af, he just looks three or four categories above me
my pictures look exactly like me, he knows what i look like and we talked a little before quickly setting up a date but i'm still scared he's going to be disappointed when we meet. i stalked his social media a little bit, literally ALL his connexions are super hot guys, not quite like me and it made me doubt myself even more...
initially just wanted to go get drinks in the afternoon and talk to get to know each other, chill, but he turned it into a movie date in the evening which i know is a very different type of date even though i don't usually go on dates so i have to prepare also for the thing that can happen late at night in this situation... causing me even more anxiety...
and then i'm thinking if he sees my anxiety he's not gonna like me and i'd have fucked it up so i'm gonna have to smile and force myself to be chill and super likable...
please help, i'm such a noob at dating. how should i handle this? i have two days ahead of me before the date
Going on a date with a guy way hotter than me
You are going to get fucked by Chad, what preparations you think you need besides taking a bath and keeping your legs open?
I haven't read it all but I'm feeling a strong 4 to a low 5 on this bait.
You matched a guy way out of your league on Tinder. He agreed to meet you. It's hard enough to get someone out of your league when you meet them in real life and have emotional attachments.
It doesn't matter what you do. Chad is going to fuck you, caring only for his own pleasure, cum, and leave. He doesn't care how your hair looks or what type of perfume you have on. He's gonna use you like the whore you are and move on to the next one, WHORE.
You know, this post makes a lot more sense when you realize OP is a gay man.
he prolly just wants to fuck, but who knows, don't be so self conscious. just have fun and be safe
>has casual sex
>thinks she's a catch
That guy is going to pump and dump you like you deserve LMAO. You're the typical slut who thinks Prince Charming is going to wife you up.
So stop worrying about it, he's only going to use you like the cum rag you are.
oh snap!
Low quality bait
OP is clearly a gay guy.
meet up with him, wear conservative clothes and dont fuck him. if he continues to date you then its more than a ons
>doesn't know about grindr
My freshman year of college I almost let a gay guy persuade me into letting him suck my dick...
let me join ill pay ya
I would have been hilarious If he did
its okay to have self confidence issues user, its normal! if you go to the date, and have a good time, you wont be thinking about yourself at all! I hope your date goes well :)
You sound like an INTJ. Someone that has to be ready for something before they're confident enough to venture out and try something. In that mindset you'll never be ready.
Instead, put yourself out there and look at every date or uncomfortable experience as leveling up. Learn on the job or during life experiences. There's nothing wrong with that.
Try to put yourself out there. I used to an awkward weeb, that became social extroverted then married. It's all possible.
He catfished me on yikyak and and when I found out he was a gay guy he lured me to his apartment
my fat malformed fupa cousin matches with chad's on tinder, really chad has zero standards. anyways just have a nice time and yeah he's going to fuck you, so make sure your beaver isnt full of toilet paper and pubes
Lol fucking slut
>I sometimes meet guys for sex
Stopped reading there don't even bother going and wasting his time
don't worry he will just fuck you then delete your number
This honestly just screams pump and dump to me. I really can't see any reason an attractive guy would go for a girl in a lower league than him other than he just wants bust a nut, and potentially have you in his arsenal when he needs a confidence boost or has a dry spell. It's the most tried and true strategy there is in the player's handbook.
If the guy in question is truly a top-notch guy he will probably just try to pump and dump you OP. Or perhaps he'll fuck you a few times until he gets tired of you.
You consider yourself several leagues below him. Do you really think you can ever get such a guy to commit to you? So yes he'll fuck you, then ghost you and move on to the next girl. Leaving you behind like a true roastie.
If you want to find a guy with whom you can at least attempt to build some sort of serious relationship with, maybe you should date within your own league OP. Attractive guys know their value and they will never commit to a mediocre woman.