I feel angry and resentful towards beautiful girls because they have power over me by being so desirable, and I feel they are undeserving of such power because it is only the result of good genetic luck, rather than skill or hard work.
I don't want to resent women. How can I view this better?
Attractiveness is temporary. Personality is forever.
Nigga just give in and hate them. You can't climb out of the hole you're in unless something happens that makes you change your mind.
Get a little bit more self control. Then just treat them how you'd treat anyone else.
Elaborate if you could.
Attraction is at the base of relationships. You can't discount it, especially during youth.
The impulse is biological. You can't turn it off. I feel like I have very good self control, and I do treat girls as best I can.
Ooooof the absolute state of incels.
The gist of it is that no Jow Forums advice, or any words for that matter, are going to help you. You already resent women, and that'll stop when something in your life happens that changes that. Contrary to popular belief you didn't actually start hating women because of Jow Forums, and you won't stop because of it either.
You can't sit on your ass and wait for a woman to decide to push through the layers of hate what you built, though. If you want to deal with your crap, deal with your crap. Get therapy, find new hobbies, cut toxic relationships, change enough to be someone worth the effort.
youre a vurgin, just lose it already and you'll stop putting women on a pedestal. Save up 500 and get an escort wear a condom. I didnt lose my virginity that way but if you dont like parties or not sociable enough to find loose women just do what I recommend.
HOWEVER, if you are a devout bible believing saved by grace christian then I suggest you wait. The latter is better because youre not ruining sex. Being a slut ruins sex so yeah your choice.
Hookers don't work, believe someone that tried it.
You don't hate women, you're just lonely and severely horny. Try being a nice guy and taking care of your looks and fashion sense. Any guy can find a girl, girls like guys who are nice and funny and maintain themselves.
Thank you. That was really helpful.
Except most women will setlle for one of those then try and build from there don't be scared OP. Most girls don't set all of those to her standard trust.
Hate to break it to you, user, but attractive people work pretty hard to stay attractive. Exercise, eating right, maintaining an active lifestyle, and hours of maintenance per day. I understand your resentment but it's no walk in the park being hot.
Gonna be rough when you meet someone beautiful with a personality
that's quitter talk. you can feel whatever you want but self control over your thoughts is something even retards can form. you already made progress by treating girls fine now it's time to chip away at the resentment you're focusing on.
i mean there's always something to be jealous of that people don't deserve. some people never work a day in their lives, others are born beautiful, others are born into perfect loving families. why focus on women on not all of those people? it's pointless.
>hours of maintenance a day
user is just hurt and salty no it doesn't take hours of maintenance a day to stay attractive. Moat attractive people can stay good looking and fit by doing a 30 minute jog/run in the morning.
>call someone an incel
>offer no advice
You are what's wrong with this board.
OP literally says attractive people have power over him because they are attractive, am i no allowed to speak the truth?
Why bother posting if you don't want to offer advice or answer the question?
That's not sustainable. It will catch up to them eventually. Those people maintain a pretty good diet in order to exercise that little yet remain fit and attractive.
Also maintenance includes grooming/makeup/clothes/self care as well.
They have power over you because you let them. Because you are weak. Take the pussy off the pedestal.
How do you do that.
You're angry because you find women attractive and they don't find you attractive.
Thing is, it's actually easier to attract women as a man because the things they want are not just the physical. Ugly chicks have it harder to attract men because we only want hot chicks. Ugly men with great personalities pull a lot of pussy. If a chick things you ugly but still finds you irresistible attractive, she'll forget how ugly you are.
Go to the gym
get a decent haircut
buy decent clothes
socialize more
develop your confidence
the way to get women is by being successful in life
why aren't you successful?
girls get everything they want because they where wiling to use violence against men and have been doing so for centuries
in the muslim world it was the other way around so men get everything they want unless they are gay
>Cloths?
>maintenance
Ahaha what?
Picking out not shitty outfits takes time, user. Also staying in fashion takes time as well. What I'm trying to highlight is that there's a lot of small things that attractive people do that take up more time cumulatively than what most people realize.
/adv
Here we go
stop asking people to solve all your insecurities for you on Jow Forums and seek professional help or fix yourself and stop being b8 m8
when you are into your 30s maybe
Realize that women are just people. They piss and shit and fart and burp just like the most disgusting piece of shit guys you know. They like mostly the same things men do, even if they also like makeup and dick. There's nothing mystical or magical or so desirable about them that you need to let yourself hate for no good reason. Lots of people get by on genetic luck or inherited power rather than skill or hard work. Women are just men who look funny. Take the pussy off the pedestal.
>fashion
Are you saying attracive people aren't desirable if they aren't Adhering to dumb modern fashion trends what??!!
this. I don't care much about myself but I still find it makes such a big difference whether I dress on my saggy pants and hippie clothes, face covered with hair, or whether I shave, get a haircut and wear my three-piece suit and my wayfarers
Sometimes men just think women should find them attractive just because of their personalities, but come on guys, looking nice always helps
I feel like appreciate women as flawed and three dimensional human beings, as good or bas as any of us instead of this pale façade for sexual use, but I can't deny that some girls I could look at forever without tiring myself. I know it sounds like beta cuck thing to say, but I do genuinely get blasts of awe with certain girls. I don't mean I become a bumbling idiot, I actually feel like I'm a pretty interesting, relaxed and talkable guy, but I do feel it strongly.
You're intentionally missing the point and you know it
replace help with being necessary 90 percent of the time and you are correct. Girls are just as shallow as guys, everyone just pretends otherwise.
No i don't putting on decent cloths is not maintenance that attravive people need to go through to stay attracive
And i wouldn't say its pretty hard either
I think you need to focus on your spelling and grammar studies and less on looking good.
Oh yeah you got me there nice one mate. I got absolutely destroyed
Oh you cleaned that one up alot. Good job!! You're making progress.