What the shit is up with these dumbass girls? Half of them just have the same boring shit in their bios and the other half have "ask me" or something to that effect with a fucking snapchat filtered photo or half-face-half-cleavage and then when you talk to them they are actually just boring as shit.
It's like they never learned to be a real person or something.
How do people date online? Can only boring people date online?
What the actual fuck is up with these cookie-cutter basic bitches?
>personality matters
>girls who aren't that into online dating in the first place are terrible at it
Color me surprised.
That's online dating.
They don't need anything above the basics. They have an almighty vagina and they're on a dating site. That's all they need.
theyre called women user
most of them are the exact same within 5 or 6 categories. Not that men are much better.
Even so, a girl with almost no redeeming traits can still find sex very easily so long as she looks ok and so she might never properly develop herself for a real relationship whereas a man needs to at least have some charisma to charm a girl.
they are girls and are relying on looks to rope you in. It doesn't matter that they are boring, they're pretty so people dote on them anyway.
its like this. if you made a profile you put 10 seconds of effort into it and got 50+ matches/messages per day. why would you wanna change it?
just use online dating for practice. higher quality girls are irl not online
Boring people find boring people. You can google it, look anywhere on Jow Forums and find the same fucking result: online dating is basically a retard move for men and confirms that you're a basic bitch boy with very little to offer. Kind of like how it does for women. I have no fucking idea how you people keep turning to online dating and expecting these magical instant results. You probably think ramen is a fucking food group or something.
>comes onto Jow Forums to talk trash and bash women
>swears, judges others and then defers to others to solve his problem
>such unique personality
>wow
>no cookie cutter here
>many quality
Do us all a favor and just off yourself. Thank you.
a real interest or something would be nice. all these cunts just care about family, friends, the beach and dogs.
clearly that is working so well for them. whatever happened to not being seen as a sex object?
the last girl i dated was a girl i worked with, it blew up in my face, i have a new job now and i'm not going to fuck it up. between work and study i don't really have the time to meet women.
i don't expect magical instant results, i'm just tired of clicking on a profile to see whether or not i might enjoy talking to them only to find that i need to talk to them to find out if i would enjoy talking to them. defeats the whole purpose of online dating if you can't find someone who likes the same shit as you.
i've started trashing boring profiles and anyone with an obvious cleavage shot or a snapchat filter on. fuck you
I cant imagine how to meet people for serious relationships after im done with college. Work?
Really, how are you supposed to meet single girls after uni? In the street?
Social circles. You hang with people from work, know their friends, you hang with then, they have more friends, etc.
So through work or friends you already have from college then
I wish coffee shops were more like bars for meeting people.
I think you ARE the boring personality.
>I can't find girls
>I just swipe away on all of them before even talking to them
Amazing.
You exactly expect magical instant results, you're just too much of a pussy who hides on the internet to go out and do anything about it. Have fun swiping on every girl you see because they didn't divulge their life's story in a fucking Tinder profile.
God, there's just so many things wrong with your retard point of view I don't even know where to begin. I'll just start and end at "basically everything."
make a fake profile and see what you're dealing with. they're boring because they dont care about impressing you, they literally got a message from a six pack ab footballer 30 minutes ago
it isn't only that, it's also the prevalence of casual sex nowadays. makes it really hard if your intention is to meet someone nice and settle down when you have women leading you on and cheating on you until they can trade up.
i'm not using tinder or swiping. these basic bitches are prompted to add their interests etc and instead of doing that they upload half a dozen photos of their tits with a fucking dog ear or flower filter.
stay mad though, i've met maybe three women who haven't bored the shit out of me once i started a conversation. that's why i'm fucking off these profiles, it isn't like i didn't try to talk to them.
it's not even that
it's that for every 100 guys who message them, you're somewhere around 37-42 and there's bound to be at least one easy 8.5 or 10.
This is why online dating is retarded, it's like applying online. I know a guy who applied for his own job and got rejected because his resume didn't pander out to keywords. Online dating is the exact same, chick goes on looking for a vato, she doesn't give a shit about your pasty white ass-- three paragraphs or two words.
I think you need to understand that online dating comes in two flavours. "I literally work 14 hours a day and am not spending the rest of the time trying to woo people when I'm a functional adult who knows what he wants thanks to experience," and "I'm too shy/lazy/incapable to get chicks in person so I'm on here to apply an artificial filter to my interactions so I can sieve them exactly how I want them."
Nobody goes online just to 'date,' there's always a precedent. That's the problem: when it isn't that there are no strings or that they literally cannot leave the house, it's that they can't actually pick up or get chicks, or they're socially inept to a crippling fault.
Online dating is a waste of fucking time unless you have absolutely no time left to waste. And since you're on Jow Forums whining about how hard it is to get girls, I'm guessing you don't manage an electrical company or handle contracting work for tradesmen, you probably drum up just above par at something relatively entry-level and unqualified.
Dancing lessons. Night clubs. Gym.
>Night clubs
Oh yeah, real marriage material found in a night club. Im talking about real long term relationships not hookups.
>Gym
People who go to the gym to do anything other than workout are scum.
>Dancing lessons
I guess this one is good.
>whatever happened to not being seen as a sex object?
Everyone is a sex object. We just have to pretend to be looking for something else for old time's sake. In another twenty years, that should have evolved out of the culture.
or i manage a bar 40+ hours a week while studying full-time.
i don't even have time to go out and drink with my friends.
you seem very fucking rude but i get what you're saying i guess. i find it way easier to talk to people irl than i do online.
dancing lessons is a fucking meme. you go there to learn to dance. it's like learning how to box because you want to meet people to have in your gang or something.
>>Dancing lessons
>I guess this one is good.
You picked the most virginal choice, congrats.
Night club is the ideal place to find a wife. But you don't even want a wife, you want the image of yourself as your grandpaw. Dipshit.
Ladies and gentlemen I present to you: niggers.
nightclub is the ideal place to get your dick wet, none of those girls are fucking wife material. i used to work in a fucking nightclub. get your shit together and stop looking for a wife in a drug-fueled fuck market.
>they're socially inept to a crippling fault.
That implies that there's a degree of social ineptitude which wouldn't be a fault. You needed another draft of this.
No, many of those girls are wife material. You're clearly a virgin. LIFE is a drug-fueled fuck market. You can't get married from nothing. Virgin
I dont see why you couldnt meet people at a dancing lesson. Its the same principle as meeting people at a uni club.
are you legitimately mentally handicapped? Night clubs are where you go for one night stands not actual relationships.
Go back to Jow Forums or Jow Forums if you aren't serious about having a functional adult romantic life.
holy shit you can tell its yank hours
>you seem rude
You're in the wrong fucking place if you can't take it.
>40+ hours a week
>still swiping through chicks as if they're boring
Okay, fine, I'll fucking cave and buy that you're actually doing this and that you're not baiting and actually just some retail fuck boy. For the record, I still think you are.
>I swipe on ones that seem boring
Maybe they just haven't invested into Tinder because as women, any fucking Tom, Dick or Harry will offer to stuff her minge. In fact, a lot of them are probably sick and fucking tired of being told to put in effort when 99 of the 100 guys who message them won't even bother.
Let me put it another way if this isn't making much sense: from your point of view, what interest does any girl have in being engaging, or trying to draw you in, if you're just going to judge every single book by its cover and just swipe away as soon as they don't honeypot you in?
Let me hit you with some fucking redpill: what if the bloviating and pomp in her profile is because she has a filter and time to edit and proofread herself, but she herself doesn't know or talk about anything google or facebook didn't tell her about? Like, the profile is such a facetious point to hang up about I assumed you were in high school or maybe fresh out.
How the fuck are you going to figure out if anyone's interesting without putting any work in? What kind of delusion are you under? And what kind of chick are you expecting to land with this 'won't see none, won't do none' attitude? 'Cuz me, I have a fair guess of what kind will actually go in on you, and I call them 'slum busters'-- these are the kinds of chicks who would legitimately fuck anything that moved anyway. And they're not good for a relationship, which is what I'm expecting you want.
Yes, you're right in that there are a lot of morons in online dating. Men and women alike, who expect it to be like 'dating coming to them.'
Instead, it's more like dating without being in the same room.
>are you legitimately mentally handicapped? Night clubs are where you go for one night stands not actual relationships.
You're never going to be in a relationship if you're determined to live in this 50s Episcopalian cartoon world where you don't marry women with sex drives, and "nice" girls don't go dancing. No relationship begins from dancing lessons. No relationship begins from uni clubs. Do you want to lose your virginity or do you want to burble stereotypes and urine at anons for the rest of your life? Go to the club.
no, these girls get dolled up, take mdma and coke and then trick dudes into buying them drinks before going home with a drug dealer where they can suck dick for a fucking nang.
you are naive.
>nice girls don't dance
They do. They're also taken, or with friends, and not super interested in talking to a guy who headed to a nightclub to find a future relationship prospect.
>at the store when notice cute girl looking at something you are interested in or want to learn something about
>ask her about it
>then ask more questions segwaying to other topics
>if she is flirty and seems cool ask her if she would like to have dinner
>if she says no or wasn't very flirty tell her to have a nice day and go about your life
Girls are just people too. You don't have to have some ultimate line planned out. Just say hi and be calm/cool/pleasant and ask for advice or questions about themselves. People in general love giving opinions and talking about themselves and it will break down a girl's barriers if you seem interested.
Im starring to think was right
There do exist girls who marry with less than 5 sexual partners and its actually the majority of people. Most people dont actually have hookups you just have a skewed perception of the world.
You start a long term relationship by being an aquaintance and then a friend until you become a lover. You dont start as a quick shag in the urinal
Shut the fuck up, darkie, before I get the gang together and turn you into some tree ornaments.
Be a creep on Facebook. Make sure that your profile pics includes your 6-pack-abs.
isn't the whole point of doing this shit online to determine whether or not you'd be compatible on at least a basic level via shared interests etc before you start talking so you can find like-minded people who are into the same shit as you?
communicating with someone to learn about them because they are unwilling to put any effort into it is just tedious. the ability to quickly judge compatibility is the whole point of online dating. not having any information about themselves on a profile because they keep getting propositioned is a self fulfilling prophecy because they aren't giving anyone anything other than their bodies to comment on.
decent advice desu
lol who cares what the profile says
the real problem is that actually squeezing a conversation out of your matches after getting their attention is like pulling teeth
its like no one in their entire lives informed them that they should strive to develop a personality and be an interesting person
What websites are you using, I'm looking to do some online dating too. I'm in a similar position.
triggered
Dunno, plenty of virgins at my church.
don't see an issue with courting and marrying them.
15 is fine too.
>its actually the majority of people.
No, it's really, really not.
lol why would this get you niggers mad? Normal successful people don't need online dating. Everything in this post is true.
They have dozens of 9/10 fighting for them. Never got laid on tinder.
Tbh dude ive had more luck meeting girls in based shitposting groups than I have dating apps.
3 days ago I fucked a 40kg short cutie in thigh high socks whos politically literate
>I like The Office xD
Why do you want bio to be interesting? Are you a girl yourself?