Should I call out my once friend for ghosting me?

But I think it gives me right to tell him that he is being rude and immature? Throughout our friendship we called out each other for our shitty antics. I dont want him to think what he is doing is acceptable because it's not...

It does give you the right, but honestly OP, what's it matter? If you called each other out on shit you guys did what type of friendship does that describe? Honestly, i feel the big reason you want to tell him something is because you have feelings for him, but its not up to you to tell people what right and wrong is, its not up to you to govern the right and wrong that happens in society, hell people eat dogs in china aint the us going to do anything about it especially since PETA thinks some shit.

>If you called each other out on shit you guys did what type of friendship does that describe?
an honest friendship. I don't mean to govern anyone but I think it's fair to get upset in my situation and I want to make them aware that they hurt me. Maybe just so they won't treat other people like that
I don't have romantic feelings but it was a good friendship and from a close friend I expect more than getting ghosted without a word of explanation

Yea honest, all I can say OP is this. I've ghosted and been ghosted for good reasons. I've ghosted because i've realized that there are some people that still have a highschool mentality and live in the partying stages of life versus me getting my career togehter and getting somewhere. I've been ghosted as well from people, good friends, and I didnt do a thing, why? Because I put thought into it and realized that they also developed a different path for themselves. Even when people get in relationships, some things change. Last piece of advice is this, if you feel telling him would really make a difference, seeing you know this guy better than i do, than i guess do it because you feel he needs to know how he hurt you, give it a shot, see where it goes, usually in circumstances like that and if your a girl and hes a guy, most times than not, as a guy, I never really take it serious, most guys take it as a sign of desperateness, and you never know if he did for a good cause, who knows, what if hes going through something he doesnt want you involved in or what if he got a girl, or he just needs alone time, sometimes you just got to respect the ghosting because people have things going on, just because hes not giving you the attention you want doesnt mean something else might be up.

Holy shit imagine being friends with someone like this

It's not like I want him to give me his reasons but you know what? It takes literally nothing to write "sorry I can't be friends with you anymore". It's just an adult thing to do and it leaves no misunderstanding. Ghosting is incredibly shitty because it leaves you confused and wondering if you somehow offended them. Is it a sign of desperation to tell someone that they couldve handle the whole thing better? It's a sign of hurt feelings for sure but I don't know about deeperation. I'm not trying to get his friendship back, but I'm not gonna allow people walk all over me and just mutely accept someone's emotional cowardice

Kinda sucks. I used to bully this fat asian kid at swimming. I also would trade secrets with girls that could care less about me. Idk why he doesnt talk to me anymore.

Maybe he was never your friend to begin with because you treated him like dogshit all the time.

This is why humans are trash.

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Maybe you are projecting because I always treated him with respect and warmth and supported him when he needed it

OP, Just talk to him and tell him how you feel and from there just play it by ear. Whether a friendship starts again or doesnt, whats it matter. It seems like you got your mind wrapped around this issue, so minus well just let it out what do you got to lose other than something thats lost because of ghosting.

Eh maybe reach out in a respectful and polite way. If he responds in back in a similar way maybe try to talk it out. If he doesn't respond or does so aggressively just say fuck it and move on. This really ain't worth the effort.

Then why would treat your friend like garbage? Why insult him behind his back about his problems? He advocated for you, he stayed with you when you cried about your indian gf breaking up with you. He hung out with you and talked on 'bro dates,' The poor guy stopped one of your cousins from bullying you. He gave you space when your cousin annoyed him. The man even tried to visit you in jail and remind you of the 'good ole days,' you know, before you a black man annaly raped you. He compliments you, he was really a decent guy. He even gave you his aunts golden necklace who just passed away, and you insult him, just because? Imagine having an emotionally stunted father who cant grow up from being a teenager, that deliberately aims to make his life a living hell. Then he comes to you for help and what do you do? You sacrifice the lamb to the slaughter cause you thought he was a "nice guy," deplorble. Some people just have good manners and you cant accept that? My existence justifies the scorn of man.

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Well honey, lets fucking hope you did. There are certain "entities," that sees all that transpired. If youre wrong you will be held accountable until your end. No exceptions. It is written, by HIM.

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An adult walks away and doesn't give a fuck about that kind of thing. The user trying to help you is right, that's just how life is. It doesn't mean you're wrong or right, or that the person who ghosted you is inherently wrong or right, it's just how it be because that happens a dime a dozen. People get wrapped up in their own lives, they can become shitty, or make a mistake, or realize that they don't want you in their lives sometimes for no fault of yours or theirs.

You can go give them a piece of your mind but you asked anons on Jow Forums and you can see the mostly unanimous advice. I'd walk away and best thing would be to live a good life and run into them one day, and see how happy you are regardless of what they did back when, instead of sending them some kind of vent letter.

Someone on this post agrees with me, I honestly dont ever let ghosting get to me, as an adult, theres always other things to do. I give you kudos other fellow user im outs.

I think you confuse me with someone else, sorry

I disagree... It was a close friendship, so if you can walk out without saying a word on your good friend, what does it imply? you can do that to your partner, your family, your children? Sure people have their own lives and their own issues but it doesn't mean that they can act so egoistic and aloof. Imagine if everyone acted like this. The world would be nuts, you wouldnt be able to trust anyone or rely on anyone. The wrong and childlish aspect of ghosting is that the ghoster won't end their relationship with ghostee in a civil way, even though it really doesnt require much effort. Moreover most ghosters ghost out of cowardice, they are afraid of confrontation and therefore just take the easy way out

I'm not arguing that the matter of ghosting was bad or implies this or that, I'm just giving you advice on how to deal with it, which was your question.

All I'm getting is that you're pretty hung up on this and want to convince yourself and others that reaching out to them isn't anything but an emotionally charged way to vent. Which is fine if that's what you're gonna do, but don't try to justify it to folks just answering your question.