Text from girl:
>user tomorrow I'm coming to your city, wanna have some drinks
>Sure! What about metting at something like 8 PM?
>Cool!
Fast forward to the next day:
19:00, I text her:
>So what's up, wanna do something?
Text sent but not received
21:30
>Sorry user my mobile was acting weird and I just seen this, somebody phoned me to have dinner, and because I couldnt get your whatsapps I thought that there was no plan for us today?
I mean seriously. This girl has been acting weird since forever (Had sex with me when she was into a closed relationship, making out with a female friend of mine when I was at her side, ghosting my whatsapps whenever she wanted too)
Any ideas for revenge? I cant give a damn no more since all the girls I've been "fooling around" with will eventually pull out this kind of shit and my trust has been mined to ashes already.
Text from girl:
95% of wahmen pull out this kind of shit eventually. Get used to it.
Ikr. The thing is that this girl seemed to be a keeper, but then red flags started appearing everywhere.
And what I hate the most of this situation is that I start to sound like some of those incel / MGTOW fags.
>Sure! What about metting at something like 8 PM?
You should've phrased it differently:
>Sure. Meet me at 8 PM at [some distinct location in your city]
What difference does it make? If she didn't want to meet in the first place, she wouldn't had sent that first message.
You're probably just one out of a few guys that she's juggling around. The best revenge is just moving on and not talking to her again. Or just keep her for sex, if she's into your dick at least from time to time
bump
It shows your intent more. She's less likely to tiptoe away from it.
What's the point of showing intent when it's more than obvious? What really triggers me is that this girl starts to seem like a selfish cunt that just thinks about of her and doesnt give a damn about other people's time, feelings or whatever.
>revenge
what a vindictive loser, get over yourself or you'll never find a good girl
At least I have a motive to be a bad person, other than my selfishness.
>this girl seemed to be a keeper
>Had sex with me when she was into a closed relationship
>making out with a female friend of mine when I was at her side
>ghosting
Yeah, what a keeper!
This, OP. She sounds like she was a worthless slut from the beginning. Pretend to set up another meeting and tell her you it's really important to you then don't show up and ghost her. And move on to a girl who's like 500% more of a decent human being.
I thought she was a keeper before all this bullshit *, may I point out.
Yeah but it sounds like it's been a good while you should have let go of the bitch.
For women, how you do things is just as important as what you do.
Ignore her unless she insists on watching a movie or something more direct
UPDATE:
She just texted me asking "Are you angry? :( "
>pic very much related
Don't bother answering like, seriously dude just leave it. Maybe a couple times a year read the unanswered messages she'll send you (because if you ignore a girl she'll get hysterical and send you shit tons of messages) to flatter your ego and that's it.
this happens every time when I don't make a concrete date.
you didnt put the place in there, where you meet.
Every time I did that and then later called or texted to set specific place and/or time a girl flaked.
Every single time. This is how women are. Don't get mad just accept it.
>At least I have a motive to be a bad person, other than my selfishness.
what? no you don't. you're not entitled to anything. Girls wanting to spend time with you is usually something you work on.
If you have to chase a girl to be with you then it means she is not into you. It's not worth developing feelings for this girl and it sounds like you're desperate for some companionship so please just make sure you understand that this girl just want to use you when nobody better is around. Sounds nasty but we do the same to all people, we choose who we want to spend our time with and we just ignore the rest of the people.
It's normal. Just find another girl
"why, what happened"
this is you tryingt o demonstrate that you were not thinking about this girl 24 hours a day. Just pretend that you had also better things to do, and that your date with her was not as important as you made it to be, because for her it obviously wasn't and you don't want to be the most needy person in the relationship
i said relationship but this girl is just a fuck buddy that is not even your buddy
I would be brutally honest with her.
I recomend OP to reply back "yeah, you flaked on me."
no thats what women do, dont be a woman
>no im not but you are one dumb bitch
I know where you're trying to get, but I think the word 'angry' doesn't fit here. How bout 'dissapointed' or 'betrayed'? Which one is better?
you don't want to show emotions to a girl who has no emotions for you. Emotions are like money, the person with the most money invested is usually seen as the underdog.
Anger is an emotion. Even if you think you're coming on top by telling her she's a piece of shit, she's actually winning because she invested nothing and lost nothing. I think indifference is worse for women than anger.
>*block* - *delete number*
done and done