So im 30, have a decent job.
for the most part I've avoided serious relationships and commitment to another.
I am very insecure about trusting someone to be in a long committed relationship, part of me is the change in generations and how relationships work now a days, part of me is I dont want to settle for just anyone, but i end up in a self fulfilling prophecy of being alone
TL;DR my hand is not enough of a girlfriend anymore
Prostitutes
If you're 30 and unmarried you've hit the fucking lottery dude
A man being alone is NOT the same as a woman being alone. Women fear dying alone. For men there's literally nothing better, stop being a bitch.
There's going to be loads of post-wall cunts who traveled the world sucking dick and chugging wine who will want to settle and marry you cause they're "not like that" anymore. Pump and dump them with no mercy.
Maintain multiple open relationships with 18-25 year olds and tell women your own age to kick the curb
Is this what you do?
Don't listen to this zoomer and his fantasies.
If you're 30 and have had no relationship experience casual or otherwise you are fucked.
Well you're wrong and you're right.
You're missing out on your first love and being in control of stupid bitches at a young age. However you can become the king of thots if you play your cards right.
At 30, most bitches either have a kid or have fucked like seven black guys. There are a bunch that didn't do that, and are desperate to settle down. If you play your cards right you can fuck all of them with no consequences.
Are you a washed up 33 year old dog mom who is addicted to wine? Begone!
>At 30, most bitches either have a kid or have fucked like seven black guys.
Haha insecure white Boi detected
Maybe, but at least I don't fuck ruined mudshark meat.
It'd be a bit awkward if you fucked your mother yeah, but then again I really wouldn't be surprised with your kind
>your kind
So you admit that women in their late 30s who slept with a bunch of black guys is pretty trashy? At least we're on the same page.
Fucking your relatives is worse imo
Why did you avoid the question?
Sorry that your thread got trashed immediately. There's no help for 30+ losers on these boards.
In fact there's no help beyond the usual zoomers crying about problems that are solved with a little efford.
Why aren't you married with children yet? Swine
How many black dicks have you sucked?
For someone who hates the nogs you surely seem fascinated with black penis
Maybe you have some self reflection to do young man
So, at least one then?
You're so desperate for the image of sucking black dicks it's quite telling
Okay sure.
learn to RESPECT women and you wouldn't be an incel loser virgin
at last i see
>how to never get laid...ever
>the virgin says
> my hand is not enough of a girlfriend anymore
www.realdoll.com
Olivia 2.0 is only $6,323.99 US. For one with a decent job, that's hardly a year's savings.
>having kids now
I have no idea why you'd force a kid to live in a world with SJWs and rampant, uncontrolled progressives.
eh, there's way cheaper similar quality ones. Do research.
You're assuming an awful lot of things.
Are you a successful 30-something who sleeps with 18-25 year old women?
Being alone and being lonely are two different things.
Things aren't going back to nuclear. Adapt.
Yup
I endorsee this message.
>I have no idea why you'd force a kid to live in a world with SJWs and rampant, uncontrolled progressives.
Tell that to the Jordan Peterson fags
OP here
took a nap.
I have dated, i have been in relationships but they have been mostly with bad women and thats my perception of relationships.
Being the Other, the rebound guy, casual hook ups, friends with benefits or have been led on to one night stands.
they few times I've been in meaningful relationships its been with someone who is over controlling and tried to track my every move, someone who cheated on me or someone who was too clingy and never let me have time for my hobbies.
what im saying is, i havent found someone who is just normal and not a bitch, a cunt or an attention whore
Shit OP you're me.
I grew up a fucking neck beard but still managed to get a kiss here and there
Finally got to college and only got hook ups. I would always lose my hard on during sex because porn addiction. That said, I failed the sex test so they didn't stick arround.
Thats how I see relationships nowadays: Fuck first, trust later.
if you work and have some money over do yourself some favors buy things you want to try out or get into woodwork, also get yourself into clubs nearly all of the 16 to 25 year olds have a daddy complex and like older men.
no one keeps you away from getting into psychedelics, if you never tried them, they can give you new fun in life and also help you with your problems
Bump
this, absolutely.
men become relevant above thirty, around the time when women hit the wall and desperately try to "settle down". live life and enjoy, OP.
>I have no idea why you'd force a kid to live in a world with SJWs and rampant, uncontrolled progressives
Move out of the US/Europe/Australia
It's a fact. Women have a clock that's ticking, men don't. Men will last longer and stay attractive longer than most women, once they hit menopause.
This. Being male is a great ride as long as you don't lose your head. GL user
I can confirm. I personally don't enjoy random pump and dumps but once I got over 30, I had a ton of interest from older women looking to settle down. It was actually pretty interesting because younger women still didn't care and older women were all over me and by older I mean a solid 5 years over usually.
Don't you want to settle down, or at least find young, short term relationships frustrating now that you're older?
Sure but I have standards mixed with bare facts and logic. Getting married is dangerous business these days. I'm not just going to settle down with the first person that looks decent. Scientifically, you're doing your kids a disfavor if your wife is over 35 and tries to have kids. There is a major increase in potential issues with the kid at that point.
Coupled with the fact that I do still believe in traditional roles as well as a belief that marriage is not something you just peace out on when it gets tough and you'll find that the pool is much smaller than it used to be. People are more selfish and quicker to leave when things don't suit them perfectly these days.
I'm not there yet but I am prepared to just go through life solo once I reach a certain age. I feel no obligation to get married or have kids. They are just things I'd like to have with the right person.
Why did you avoid the question?