It's happening again

Nice assumptions buddy. Sounds like you need to direct that speech at someone in your life, not a stranger on the internet who didn’t indicate anything of the sort.

Are you the guy who just jump and do nothing or the one who stress out and organize everything for free?
This is a very important question.

>the immediate response is salt
I'm just saying one of us manages to get together with friends and then there are people in this thread being left behind by their friends.

Call it what you want. You're the lonely ones, right? All I was saying was just maybe, you're your own problems.
But you seem pretty dead-set on blaming this one on others, huh?

As for involving alcohol, it really depends. Can't exactly turn up when you work in the morning, and sometimes you don't want to be outdoors at night, and also drunk. You might also not want to be drunk around people you haven't gotten to know.

Are we going to make this a "let's compare to user to pretend I didn't come to Jow Forums with a problem"? Because I will happily derail with y'all.
You guys seriously maybe can't see why people wouldn't want to hang around you?

>the immediate response is salt
I mean, my initial post was salt, idk what you expected. But it’s really pot calling the kettle black to point out my salt after your completely unprompted diatribe that seriously couldn’t be further off the mark.
My friends have this problem with each other too, not just me, they’re always bitching and moaning about the same shit but then continue flaking because that’s all they expect from each other and no one has any faith in any social event actually going forward.

>Are you the guy
If I'm not the host and the hosts don't need a hand, I sleep. If I'm the host or the host asks for help (my buddy hosted the last party, but he didn't have a lot of disposable cash so I covered for food for everyone). If I'm the host I make sure everyone's got a helping of food, there's some finger food available (read: chips) and that we have SOMEthing to do, even if that's literally youtubing shit for twenty minutes while we agree or narrow down our options.

Like I said, it sounds like maybe you guys are constantly turning "hanging out" into "oh God, user just texted me, I can't wait to hear the rules for this one."

My goal when hanging out is for people to unwind, relax and forget about stress. Sometimes that involves "doing nothing," and indeed drinking. Sometimes that involves a game of Bocce ball and roasting dinner over an open fire.

One time, a handful of us went to a drag show. That was a blast.

>party
>food
>Booce ball
Doesn't count, is fucking easy to invite someone to drink,eat and play soccer.
Sorry buddy you just buy some shit and do the easiest acitivie avaiable.

You just hang out and go to parties.
I can do this every week beacause is fucking easy.

>Like I said, it sounds like maybe you guys are constantly turning "hanging out" into "oh God, user just texted me, I can't wait to hear the rules for this one."
And like I said, you’re pulling that from your ass. Here’s a scenario for you, I literally texted a couple of friends if they wanted to get burgers at a new place that just opened, and that fizzled out after two straight months of them going back and forth with each other over when they will and won’t be free.
People usually become friends with people of similar temperaments, it’s really not a stretch that a bunch of useless fucks would find each other, and that in your case everyone’s actually competent.
Used to be me and one other friend who held shit together and actually managed to drag everyone away from Netflix once in a while, but that fell apart when he moved abroad and we couldn’t tag team shit and now no one hangs out anymore.

Yeah, this is what I mean. There's no relaxing with you, you're just 100% high-strung, 100% of the time.

A piece of advice; if you're gonna be high-strung, learn how to hide it. In the age of the internet and mass communication, nobody needs people around who constantly remind them there's always something to stress about or be mad at.

It's like I said: there's a reason you don't have plans this weekend. It's because you're kind of a cunt.

Yeah, I know what you mean, there's two of us who plan shit and everyone else just sort of waits for a text or texts us, says "free this weekend? BYOB and food to my place." My other friend is far better at it than I but as part of being frustrated with my younger self, I willfully broke out of my shell and started putting my plans out there.

Your problem sounds like you're around flakes and that's unfortunate. The other guy sounds like a douchebag who got ghosted. For him, I don't know what to say.
For yours, I'd just tackle it head on. A few years ago we had some drama in the circle which lead to people being flaky and making up excuses. The aforementioned friend and I were at the heated peak of it and we basically came together head to head and talked it over and have been fine for years since. Apologized, made up, etc.

I find that if people flake, it's not just "because they're flaky." It's usually a matter of something they'd rather be doing-- sometimes that's on them and sometimes that's on you but tackling it head on will probably tell you which court the ball's in.

Remember, the more diverse your interests, the more 'out there' you can get. If your friends don't keep up, branch out and meet new people..meet-ups, clubs, hobbies, anything really.
Y'know, 'cept social media. Shit's just a mire of the problems you're having.

Mate they don't have plans in this weekend now, this is just one of the things that got canceled is like this guy said i'm giving up with guys like you who just want to go parties and boring stuff.
I'm not guy who just do one thing at the weekend and sleept for 20 hours straight.

>(You)s me twice
>refers to posts as separate posters
>thinks he's making some grand point off of my point
Sweetie...

You're your own problem. Whether or not you admit it doesn't really change that.

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What is your point btw? i'm trying to have better people to do more interesting things like interesting table top games and /out/ stuff even /diy/.
But you just say things like these boring people who just eat in a chinese restaurant or go to parties.
You made a good point in trying to meet more people with more diverse hobbies, i'm trying to meet more people sunday will be a RPG night for me, there's even girls in this group.

My point is your critical attitude and high-strung nature are naturally repelling people. It's not the what that they don't want to do, it's the with whom. Their lack of inspiration should not except you from your own blame. That's why I suggested that you're the problem, because you work very ardently to insist you are not.

I can only infer off what you give me on Jow Forums and you've given me-- personally-- more reasons to avoid you than engage you.

I don't need to see the rest of this thread to tell you that this response is spot on. Pay attention, user.

>That's why I suggested that you're the problem, because you work very ardently to insist you are not.
This is one of my problems i insist too much in people, i should give up in lazy bastards who can't keep a little promise.
I'm trying to change since whenever there's a long period without programs and activities they start to complain about boring weekends.
Maybe i should stop giving attention since they don't move a finger to plan anything.