>I got a long distance relationship with a girl..
>we text everyday...
>she said I'm not romantic
>what should I do to make myself romantic user?
>suggest what I can do
How to be Romantic?
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I had this same complaint about my long-distance bf.
Tell her how much you want her and the things you'd love to do if she was there with you.
Have you met in real life?
Get on a plane and turn up at her house. That's what she's thinking of when she complains you're not romantic.
>LDR
>ever
Write letters instead of texting.
Not op but what letters for example?
Become a fan of Frank. I introduced my now gf to this guy and she loves his music. He formed a long distance relationship and after several months of talking/video calling we decided to meet. We met in Paris in a 4 star hotel along the Champ-Élysées. The first night we slow danced to this song below and she seems so happy
*we, not he. Jesus. I made myself sound like a cuck over a famous dead music legend
The romantic ones, duh.
That's code for "buy me stuff."
snoop her phone to see what the other guys are saying to her and what gets her best responses.
know whenever your gf starts up with this you have competition she's comparing you to
What can one write in such a letter that is romantic? Any examples? I'm guessing shit like poems or something similar?
yes....I moved to other place because of work
she got a lot of guys chasing her..but she chose me instead...thats normal for her comparing me to other guys
Depends how intimate you already are. The history of correspondence knows all kinds of romantic letters, from describing idealized platonic projections to straight-up sexual dirty talk. You can probably find tons of classic examples online.
You can leave and find a girl who isn't long distance
No joke, it's kind of a raw deal to begin with
Just show her that you're thinking about her. If you're sitting at work and a memory with her pops into your head, text her about it. Text her that you miss her when you feel it. Involve her in your day and ask about hers, send her photos of goings on that you're keeping her updated on. Make plans for your next time together.
>I got a long distance relationship with a girl
Break it off, LDRs don't work.
just ask her for clarification of what she wants
listen closely because you might hear some crazy in her answer
Dammit user, this was a wonderful post. Do you browse /lit/ at all and wear a brown wool coat?
Send her flowers or small gifts (can do this online).
Send her letters.
Send her chocolates.
Send her cute drawings or stupid shit.
Make her playlists on spotify.
Actually go visit her.
Organise a cute "date". Send her a box with popcorns, a blanket, snacks and organise a movie night.
My boyfriend has done these things for me and they always make me happy.
OP here...the problem is...I'm not sweet talk kind of guy... I'm background in computer programming... I understand more machines compared to human emotion
My boyfriend is literally autistic and he manages to do romantic things for me. It's not hard, stop trying to find excuses.
Be nice, surprise her.
>I got a long distance relationship with a girl..
No you don't. There's no such thing as a long distance relationship. You're role playing.
>suggest what I can do
Dump her and find a real relationship
> she chose me instead
That's what she wants you to think. You're not in a relationship you tosspot.
Why do you have to say this bullshit all the time?
LDR relationships are relationships. People are people, and have feelings for each other, even when they're far apart.
Cringe post.
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Ignore this asshole.
I know it's hard, just call her man. Texting is inherently not romantic, but if you call her and say nice things, she will really appreciate it.
All you have to do is describe your feelings and be a bit poetic.
Best of luck
Try poems, those are pretty romantic.
You need to be 18 to post here, also LDR's are a meme, and this is coming from a dude who had 2 LDR's, one with my first gf for 2 years from different countries, we met three times for a couple weeks each time, and a second gf for a year and a half, I'm a dedicated nigga and I really show my love and well, I realized I should show my love to someone IRL and not through a screen, texting fucking blows, living infront of your screen blows, go live IRL
We got to LDR, I work very far... I trying so hard to be close with her again....but finding work here so hard, I need to migrate