Do you regret your marriage?

I wish I had this

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No, I never will.
My husband is the best person I've ever met. He's my best friend, we live in our own world. We don't need anything or anyone else, it's always just me and him.
I love our relationship, I love him so much. I couldn't imagine being married to anyone else, honestly, and I didn't want to get married before I met him - but with him, fuck, it feels perfect.

Anyone who says "no" to this is lying and lives in a mediocre reality. Humans weren't meant to be emotionally and spiritually melted with only one person for their entire lives. Especially with the government involved.

Uhm. Nah. What do you expect fron such a view? National orgie day?

I can imagine some people may regret it, if they got cucked into the relationship. But most people truly feel like they belong.

>Humans weren't meant to be emotionally and spiritually melted with only one person for their entire lives
Literally a thing over millions of years.
>"Not meant to be"

I knew I would and then I did. It's mind over matter to stay in this marriage now, because damn I really want to fuck my friend.

You wish you had my autism or my wife?

>19991696

Uh, what?

The thing is, people don't actually belong to each other. Having a party and telling everyone you do doesn't change that. Modern marriages are mostly about how they feel at first, and it changes over time. Sometimes it gets better, sometimes it gets worse. Still don't "belong" to each other.

I am also on the spectrum, but I've never been on a date let alone been married.

You mean she's the only woman you've put effort into making a deep connection with. All women are the same in the dark.

Kek

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I do.
Turned out she never grew up, she's still the dependant irresponsible brat from 10 years ago.
She can't even read a map and what's worse: she doesn't want to learn so she's always depending on other people for a lot of stuff.
I didn't wanted to marry a little girl, I wanted a woman of my same height (so to say).

Yes, I have looked at myself in the mirror and I'm not a big deal either. But she's way too much of a child and never does the stuff she promises she'll do and is always arriving late everywhere.

I still love her and I'll never find anyone like her and we have everything in common but fuck she's pissing me out for a decade and I will not stand this for much longer. I'm already looking for a place to stay and reading about divorce. I have already talked about this with her parent. I'm so done.

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god damnit

this is why Jow Forums is so retarded

everything assumes one extreme or the other.

ANyone who says they're not attracted to anyone else after they get married are liars

but anyone who says you can't be satisfied being with one person for your whole life is just ignorant

life is more complicated and in between those extremes.

you and the autist you are arguing with are both retarded.

>All women are the same in the dark.

dude,
no they're not. I banged this girl once and i didn't even look at her pussy because I had no problem putting my hand in there.

.... the only time in my life i didn't even try to finish because.

>because damn I really want to fuck my friend.
That's why you don't invest your time into maintaining friendships with the opposite sex. (There is no such friendships to begin with)
That's why you invest your time in your friendship/relationship with your significant other. Sexual attraction is something that comes naturally if you spend time with the opposite sex.
So watch who you're spending your time with/you're having deeper conversation with/you're opening up to.

This is very important information and both partners should be aware of this.

t. One of those who answered no in this thread.

No.

This reminds me of how my ex girlfriend used to talk about me.

...Until she eventually dumped me for the next guy.

>(There is no such friendships to begin with)

thats just not true
it is possible, but you need to be careful

one of my oldest friend is a girl and there is zero sexual tension between us.
I'm not saying I could pull that off with all girls, but with her yeah.

>Humans weren't meant to be emotionally and spiritually melted with only one person for their entire lives

Source, youranus

I've never been good at social interactions so I never had the confidence to ask anyone out before her. When we started dating we understood how we struggled in our lives and how we could help each other. Also we usually have sex with a light on.

I'm sorry for that.

I honestly can't see myself leaving him. He's the only man I ever loved this way, I literally only see him. Other men are not even attractive to me.

>one of my oldest friend is a girl and there is zero sexual tension between us.
If you grew up together like siblings do, it's not a friendship it's a brother/sister relationship.
If your friend is gay and isn't interested in your sex, it's the same as a same sex friendship (gay guy + women = girlfriends; dude + dyke = bros)

There are no exception besides the ones above.

>He's the only man I ever loved this way, I literally only see him. Other men are not even attractive to me.
My autistic ass agrees 100% with you fellow femanon.

>ANyone who says they're not attracted to anyone else after they get married are liars
I'm the femanon who said it. I'm not lying, I just really feel repulsed by the idea of having sex with someone who isn't him. Even porn feels bad.
I lost any drive to interact with other men, even with friends. I hate when men hit on me, it makes me feel so uncomfortable and dirty.

I had another long term relationship before and I didn't feel this way, it's just with him. I wouldn't be surprised if in 10 years I'll feel less strongly about it, we've been married for just 4 years. But this far, really, he's everything I can see.

>There are no exception besides the ones above.

Insights of the narrow minded

Fair enough

but that may change over time
or it may not

everyone is different, your experience is not universal. This is a concept that most channers seem to b

so far, no
don't expect that to change anytime soon, but I'm still young, so who knows

Oh sure, I never meant that. I'm aware my experience is not universal, I frankly think it is the opposite of universal. The way I feel for him is really rare, I never felt it for anyone else and I met very few people who could relate to us.
We're very odd people and our relationship is, obviously, really odd.

>Insights of the narrow minded
Have fun falling for your "friend". Wanting to fuck him/her.

Or have fun using him/her as emotional support while fall for you/they dream on about fucking you one day.

no dude

we're friends
its been almost 20 years. we've been in bands together, we've been through a lot.

I don't get why it is so hard to believe one of my best friends is a girl, but I mostly only get that reaction on Jow Forums.

Cute. Where do I get a girl like you?

On here, probably. I met my husband online. Were long distance for 3 years, then lived together for 6 months, then got married.

Pretty much as soon as after I got married women started throwing their pussies at me and it's been really tempting. I cant help but think where dafuq were all y'all hoes when I was single? But then I go home fuck my wife and forget all about those hoes.

not the poster you replied to, but here’s my 2¢. Obviously it feels bad, i’m not a psychopath. And as long as it’s only sexual and safe, I feel like it helps me love her more. Like, I know in my mind I can have any other girl I want, but I realize time after time she’s the only one I want to still be around AFTER sex. If a woman uses that same logic, so be it. As long as they acknowledge that it’s a much bigger deal to get pregnant than it is to get someone pregnant.

>it’s a much bigger deal to get pregnant than it is to get someone pregnant.

i dunno about that dude
she can abort
but if you knock some girl up, she can keep it!!!
try hiding that one.

Damn, that hits me hard
I've had half-siblings whose father ditched them and they hate him

Considering it only lasted 6 weeks, yes

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The way I see it, you can only be forced to pay for a child as a man. If you have enough money to maintain the lifestyle and also pay child support on another kid? You’re doin fine.

However, if you get pregnant or, god forbid, actually HAVE another mans baby, you can put it up for adoption or get an abortion. Abortion costs money (likely coming partially from the man you are with) and physically damages you, possibly resulting in infertility for your current man. Adoption isn’t easy either, and also, it’s always going to be a nagging feeling to him knowing you helped spread another mans seed and not his.

Moral is, if your a guy, don’t cheat if you’re poor. If you’re a girl, always use layers of protection (pill or shots/implants AND condoms).

Oh boy, advice from someone who never had sexual options in their life!

Men and women can be friends and not want to desperately fuck each other, because most of us have had sex with more than one girl in our lives. I can respect that I think my friend Lauren is hot, fun to sit and talk with, but that she's batshit insane when it comes to relationships, and I'd never, ever want to take her on a real date.

Same goes for her though - she has guys that like the same things she does, and she'd rather date... so we can hang out, no fucking problems. It's not just this girl, it's many, and this is how my friends work too.

Maybe if you didn't marry the first girl who paid you attention, you'd understand.

This

stop being friends then, you are just going to blather into cheating on your wife.

Wtb a girl who feels this way about me

I see what you're gettin at, and I agree to an extent but I don't think girls and guys can have a truly deep friendship like guys can

But they can pull it off without fucking each other, it's just rare

I’ve been with my wife for 18 years and she has had to put up with a lot of shit, to be honest. We have built a wonderful life together though so, no, I don’t regret marrying her and we will probably stay together until death do us part. If we ever split I can’t imagine ever marrying again. We got together when we both had nothing and we are now extremely wealthy so I’d be happy to split everything 50/50 with her but I’d always have the sneaking suspicion that any new woman was just with me for my money,..

I became essentially life long fwb (whenever we're single) with a girl that was originally a hot lesbian I treated as a bro. It's not that simple

Are you fat?

I believe you, I’m not married but I’m so in love with one guy that I can’t even see or think about anyone else. It hasn’t always been like that, I used to be the type to flirt with and date and “love” several guys at the same time. Now the thought of being with or loving anyone but him honestly disgusts me.

Nice dubs.

I am about to get married and wonder this myself of others. But this is how I see it: today, the majority of marriages end in divorce. It's very unusual in this day and age in a western society for a marriage to endure for someone's entire life. That said, I'm hoping mine will, and the woman I've chosen seems to be so "perfect" for me that I think it'll ensure the best chances of a long and happy marriage. Perhaps I'm in denial but every relationship is different, and I'm intelligent enough to know what type of person I will get sick of and I don't feel that from her, so I'm hopeful for the future.

whew lad

So if not for the one thing you completely would with Lauren, and you still think about it.

>I feel like it helps me love her more. Like, I know in my mind I can have any other girl I want, but I realize time after time she’s the only one I want to still be around AFTER sex.
Well user that what short playful flirting is for. Not full going through with it.

Enjoy falling in love and FINALLY realizing she's NOT the one you still want to be around after sex this time.

Because you've pushed this again and again.

>Oh boy, advice from someone who never had sexual options in their life!
>Maybe if you didn't marry the first girl who paid you attention, you'd understand.

This advice is from a 32 years old woman with 12 years of marriage, still going strong, and three kids. Of course there where up and downs but that's just life that bitch.

I have had one ex before I married my husband and I've had and still have A LOT of guys trying to make a move on me. And let me tell you this, I'm kinda autistic (well that's given, I'm here after all). I don't even go out besides to the playgrounds with my kids, grocery shopping, work.

Please think of my advice one day

>Please think of my advice one day
when shit hits the fan fucking hard.

>I became essentially life long fwb (whenever we're single) with a girl that was originally a hot lesbian I treated as a bro. It's not that simple
Well fuck. Is she a girly lesbian or a butch? Just don't hang around with people you're sexually attracted to bro! Treating her like a bro doesn't change the fact you wanna fuck her.

No, and neither is he. We're both decently attractive.

Good to know.

Sometimes it's discouraging to find out how anons look like. I don't expect everyone to be walking gods of beauty and physique; but sometimes it feels like it's too much to ask for people to be healthy.

I thought I was fucked because I’m about to be 25 and I’ve been single for 3 years, but this thread is making me feel like I’m better off lmao

Yeah, I get that. But no, we're both very healthy. Work out daily and eat well. We're okay when it comes to face features, too. I mean, I think he's the hottest men who was ever born but I might be biased.

We never had problems finding people willing to fuck us/date us IRL, just personality wise no one ever was such a good match for us. The reason why we were willing to fly across the world for 3 years to hang out together was that we were SUCH a good match it was ridiculous.

no.
she::
positives
sex
birthed 2 children for me
earned about $7Mil herself
Cooks
Cleans
Cares for children

Also
She got another girl to join us, had been living with us for about 2 years now, looks after children also sex her.

Sooooo.

Quite a good deal.

I am smart but neet, manelt but a bit fat
smart but lazy

have stem + law degree though.
unelmployed for most of career....hahahah

but invested in crypto a few years back. every one called me an idiot....i literally tried to explain to every one why they needed to buy in.

no one listened.

So I don't have to work really any more.

>Does she suspect?
No

>How do you manage this without getting caught?
I work at sea. It's a "girl in every port" type situation

>Do you feel guilty about it?
No

>Do you feel afraid of being caught?
I quite enjoy the excitement and risk actually

>Do you think it is inevitable she'll find out something?
Probably. Risk*Time always ends badly over a long enough timescale

>And, what do you think she'll do if that happens?
I'll spin it somehow and she'll forgive me

Absolutely not. Married 15 years know 18.

Best friend, still hot, great sex still including awesome oral giving and receiving, fun to be with, interesting to talk 2, and strippers don't take care of you when sick as fuck or stand by you when parent suddenly dies.

It's your personality I guess I dated fair numbers whackos or had kids or didn't have own career (my wife does as well) and she's still great wife and mother. If your an über extrovert you'll prob hate sex with one person but I love and care to much to hurt her.

And we did bucket list threesome with another woman as gift so yes for me I love being married.