My kid is in 1st grade and is becoming more and more disobedient with his teacher. What can I do to make him stop being a faggot in class?
As of today he is grounded from watching tv or playing his educational computer games.
His mother is strict but eventually relents on punishment. He knows he'll eventually get out of punishment if he waits it out. This is where i think the problem is, but id like an outside opinion.
Disobedience
In what way does he disobey? Is it intentional or unintentional? Also, does he act that way at home?
Find out why he is disobedient you dumb fuck.
Dont call your son a faggot unless you want him to become one , you braindead monkey.
In what specific ways is your child acting out? I had a nephew who was delinquent until he was moved to tougher classes. After that he mellowed out. Some kids are just underwhelmed so they make something happen.
In regards to punishment, make it so things like TV and video games are dependent on doing well. That way there is no "waiting it out," because the second you slip you lose it. Sort of like a gold star standard, where each A on a test allows for electronic entertainment until the next test. This would require dialogue with the teachers at the school if you think your child would lie to you about when tests are.
have you tried sitting down with your kid, turning off the tv and hitting him?
Maybe the teacher is the faggot?
He ignores instruction and continues yapping to other classmates about retarded stuff.
I've considered both of these options.
do as the good book says and spare not the belt
or something like that
you know what that doesn't matter just give him some time and if he's a bigger faggot by the time he's 16 give him a good fucking
A child who doesn't fear punishment acts like this. Threaten him with a solid smack or two with a belt. Tell him if you hear about him being a little shit head, the spankings will continue and get worse.
He can choose one of two options:
Behave and be rewarded.
Misbehave and get a lesson from the school of hard knocks.
He can choose which path he wants to take.
dont let your wife screw things up on punishment OP, you seem to have a very good grasp on the situation and need to take charge. your wife will also respect you 20x more even if she does get mad in the short term.
Might want to make sure your son isn't on the autism and/or ADHD spectrum. Perhaps he's having trouble paying attention and sitting still because he's not wired for it.
Otherwise, it sounds like your son doesn't respect authority. This is usually because they haven't been TAUGHT to. Does wifey spoil him? Has he ever received a spanking in his entire life?
If not, I'd talk it over with wife and sit down and talk with your kid. (Yes, kids can be made to understand reason.)
I like 's idea about letting the son choose for himself what kind of consequence he'll create for himself. One is never too young to learn that age old lesson:
You are free to choose your actions, but you are not free of the actions of your consequences.
The sooner this sinks into your boy's head, the easier life will be for him further down the road.
>He ignores instruction and continues yapping to other classmates about retarded stuff.
Sounds like me when I was in school lmao.
I pretty much wouldn't stop talking and was told to stop and do the assignments/work.
Though I don't think my parents were told.
Maybe about other more serious things.
Not sure how to help but just make sure you don’t accidentally turn him into a cuck when trying to make him more obetiant
beat the shit out of him with a golf club and stomp on his nuts until he starts behaving
Go back, and read some vegotsky/skinner.
Punishment is probably not the best route, hitting your kids may actually be encouraging him to be more defiant, and reinforcing a sense of self as an outsider and probably overall making the situation worse.
Punishment only works if there's a clear connection between the behavior and the result, for a lot of kids that's often not clear at all so they just become helpless and angry.
You sound like a shit parent, go get some professional help and learn better parenting.
Punch him in the face as hard as you can every time he disobeys you. You could also try choking him with piano wire or putting him through a table if necessary. If none of the that works, then use a chloroform rag on him every day before you send him to school.
make him a good cuck mommy we don't need no rough play! whip that nigga boi! castrate him!
Give him marijuana edibles before he goes to school
You're really asking about child advice on Jow Forums?
Has anyone suggested punching him in the face?
Go punch him in the face, like right now.
give him estrogen and make him a qt femboi loli
>not sitting down and confronting your child about his actions
>not facilitating a dialogue to allow himself a platform
>not giving him space to justify himself
>not deconstructing his motivations to get him to understand and stop
This is "talking to children 101." My advice is to read about how to communicate with children so you can understand why he's acting out and let him understand it, too.
File a lawsuit against him if he continues to misbehave
>get worse
I just would do spankings
Are you a parent yourself?
No, but I've had to work with a lot of children in my life both in my extended family and at camps. Kids aren't nearly as stupid as their parents think. If a kid is acting out, there's a motive. If I had to guess, it's normally because the child wants attention and knows that, if he acts out, he gets the attention of his peers, the teacher, and his parents. Positive behavior is never rewarded enough, but negative behavior always warrants a reaction. From my experience, if the mother relents if he waits it out, then that's proof to a child that he has control when he acts out, and gets a form of reward demonstrated by her love for him.
In other words, punishing him for his natural desire for validation is only going to teach him that being a shithead always gets him a reaction. Essentially, the making of a 4channer.
You’re just bad parents. My friend’s children are spoken to as adults, they don’t get to come in from play time unless they are covered head to toe in mud; in other words they already understand there is a time to be serious and a time to be a kid. Maybe start taking an active role in establishing a relationship and not rely on TV or computer babysitters.
>As of today he is grounded from watching tv or playing his educational computer games.
Try to spend more time with him.
Kids spend time watching TV or playing games when they have nothing to do.
Have him help you fix something around the house, building something builds confidence and makes you want to preserve it.
Next, make a plan for you to do something that is fun for both you and him.
Set time aside for things like that.
Cast tin soldiers, play sports, teach him archery, do something with him that will make him improve as a person.
He is growing up in a world run by women, so you need to show him what he can do that is fun for boys. Is there something you always loved as a kid you want to share with your son?
Something like archery takes a long time to learn, so maybe don't start with that as the first thing, make sure he wants it too.
Get to know your kid. Show him that being a brat does not get him good things in life.