I come from an Arab family. Grew up pretty normally we're very big on Vidya and I was closest to my elder brother because he got me into games in the first place. We used to discuss games all the time even after he moved out to college.
I moved out and I am supposed to stay with him and his roommate. As we were on the way he told me his roommate is his boyfriend. And that he's gay. And continues on talking about other subjects as if it was nothing.
I didn't know how to react and I didn't say anything but I can't fucking sleep I can't stay here and it explains why he barely talks to my parents. I feel horrible about knowing it and it is eating at me inside. Its not even about religion I'm just uncomfortable around him. The week I spent at his place I didn't sleep and it's still bugging me
Can I get over this? My parents can't know they'll fucking lose it if they know and Being the only one that knows is killing me.
It is normal that you're feeling like this because I too would be so disgusted. The best thing you can do is to distance yourself from your brother before he spreads the gay disease on to you.
Isaiah Turner
Its a psychological thing. Its kind of retarded that you cant even sleep in their house, but if thats how you are you're not going to get over it over night. You might just need to sleep somewhere else for a few nights so you dont get too sleep deprived.
Jaxon Russell
This is why Arabs shouldn't be allowed in the west. If you're literally disgusted by your brother because he likes dick more than bob and vagine you don't have any place in this civilization.
Grayson Lopez
Throw him off the roof as a blood sacrifice like your god demands, Muhammed.
do you care about your brother? don’t let him feel ostracized and don’t tell your parents unless he tells them first. who cares if he’s gay, move on with it. if he has a roommate he’s a grown man so just get over it. coming on here and whining makes you look like a fucking loser and mentioning that you’re arab and “it’s not about religion” just shows how stupid you are. do you wanna throw him off a building? of course you do
Xavier Cook
SACRIFICE HIM TO BHAAAL LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL
Carson Turner
true
see I also dislike the idea of fags but It's not like they're gonna rape you just because they like men, simmer down Muhammed
Matthew Edwards
Okay so you're uncomfortable around him. What kind of advice do you want? How to not be uncomfortable around him? How to make him not gay? Whether or not you should ostracize him? Or just venting?
Justin Hill
It's not that though. He had a girlfriend before he moved out. He didn't get a job he's been living of my parents who are poor as is to stay away to"look for a job" with his boyfriend who's way older than him. I don't want us to lose him. It feels horrible
Austin Adams
Just venting I guess
John Martinez
I feel that he placed a burden on you in unfair circumstances (you'd already arranged to live with him). He could reasonably expect that this would be a shock to you and that it might cause you some distress. He probably wants your approval and acceptance but you cannot and should not force yourself to say what you do not feel.
He dropped a bomb on you and from the sounds of it just carried on as if nothing had happened. Ideally, you should find someone with whom you can discuss these things irl but I suppose that may be difficult.
Bentley Young
>no place in this (christian) civilization lol
being gay is wrong in all religions only satan and his disciples are ok with it because they want to disrupt humanity and lure them away from god
Jordan Walker
Yes. That's my exact situation. It's not about anything other than that. I sure as hell can't tell my family and I know nobody outside of my home country. Anyone there wouldn't take it kindly.
It's unfair and being here is just uncomfortable.
Josiah Stewart
I don't want that you fucking retard. I mentioned I'm Arab which means I'm raised in an area with no gay people and they're generally frowned upon. I'm not super religious and but the environment I was raised in has an obvious effect on me.
That's why I'm so uncomfortable around here
Cooper Hill
Nigga the west is founded on traditions far older than Christianity.
Dominic Sanders
He's just gay get over it, even if it's a sin and he may lose his head over it, it's not like love is gonna stop for his miserable faggot brain, so be it.
Tell him to live life at it's fullest and to be careful of edged weapons and stones.
Sebastian Gonzalez
>My brother is gay. >I come from an Arab family. So when did you kill him?
Benjamin Ward
at that time, christianity revolutionized world wide, how people thought about good and bad the first years people were hunting down christian believers so the old western world didn't like having people believe in a greater purpose, around them
it's god's constant effort to put people on the right track Jesus, Buddhas, Mohamed etc...