Premarital sex is much like skipping class/work to play video games, eating something huge like a pizza/whole box of cookies by yourself.
Most of us have done these things and it isn't right to shame others for it- but it's not an accomplishment. It's not something to be proud of, it's not behavior to be encouraged.
I think in the past people understood this but somehow with social media every little thing you do in your life is either something to be celebrated or condemned for.
The average age of marriage is 28, how the fuck are you not supposed to have sex until then
For a women, it's really not an accomplishment. For a man, pulling high quality women consistently is somewhat of an accomplishment, indicative of good health or status.
>I'll die if I don't get my pipi wet before ____
nigger.
you realize 90% of girls have sex before they turn 18? Most lose it at about 14
When the average age of marriage was 20, like it was back in they 50's, it was a little easier to hold off. But these days is a totally different story. You're asking someone to give up their entire youth sex life
>The average age of marriage is 28, how the fuck are you not supposed to have sex until then
Uhh you don't fuck anyone. There are probably a few people around this board who have already achieved this but not by choice.
>For a women, it's really not an accomplishment. For a man, pulling high quality women consistently is somewhat of an accomplishment, indicative of good health or status.
But it carries risks and devalues unmarried females. It's understandable behavior for sure, but you shouldn't be proud of it. If you want to look at it from a religious point of view, Jesus forgives all sins but it's still a sin and you should at least feel a little bad about it.
Only ever having sex with one person is like a cheat code for boosting emotional and romantic intimacy with someone by 200%
I am happily married to my high school sweetheart. We both graduated college before we married and we remained virgins the entire time. People are retarded if they can’t keep it in their pants until marriage, and any attempt to say otherwise is just pathetic and you heathens need to get some fucking self control. My wife and I have only ever had sweet sweet sex in the bo da of holy Christian matrimony with Jesus looking on with a knowing smile. It’s glorious and I’m proud.
>Uhh you don't fuck anyone
literally nobody is going to do this
literally nobody. Preach all day long, you will get maybe 1% of the population max. People will not agree to this, it's simply never going to happen. Nobody is stupid enough to give up their entire 20's on virginity
PMS rulez
I'd honestly rather have a pizza than sex. Sex is kind of pointless after you've done it a few hundred times. Pizza never gets old.
I do not disagree with you at all. I don't think you understood what I was saying.
People are going to do it and there's nothing that can be done about that. Just don't encourage it, don't pretend it's a good thing.
If you're going around fucking a different person every week maybe feel bad about that, maybe consider that this isn't good for you or society. Maybe try to sort out your life and even if you're not ready for marriage find a stable partner.
The female I cared about more than all the rest lost her virginity to her bf when we were in high school
I felt like there was no hope after that and understand why I decided to start gettinng drunk/hooking up with hoes while trying to forget I gave her my heart
Or maybe you can do stuff to actually lower the marriage age, that would be a realistic way to solve the problem.
That's why I get so angry at Christians, they preach morality but offer no solutions
But You health does,
Think about That for a second before eating another slice ,chubby
Right Because That Really work out for the Middle East
The problem with premarital sex is that sex simulates bonds and feelings and emotions that aren’t actually there. When you’re boning some girl it’s like there’s a switch in your kind that gets flipped, causing you to feel love, closeness, all the things you would normally build over time with a traditional relationship. Hell, it’s almost like beer goggles, fucking a woman makes them instantly funnier, more compatible, more interesting. In the short term that is. Once the facade wears off, or the sex dries up, you realize you’re in a shallow, loveless, sham of a relationship. The lust and sex is a veneer that hides all the real issues between the two of you. It’s no coincidence that the age of free love and the drastic spike in divorce occurred at the exact same time. Suddenly she doesn’t want to fuck, and suddenly what you thought was love has disappeared.
Why do you think there’s such a hard push from Jews and Marxists for a sexually open, hedonistic lifestyle for everyone? It’s a guaranteed destroyer or families, an instant single mom, a child from a broken home. Just like that, if there’s no family how could there ever be a nation or any sort of loyalty beyond your own self pleasure?
What are some realistic ways to lower the marriage age in an industrial society?
>end feminism
>massive tax cuts on the youth
>subsidize childcare for middle class families
>media propaganda campaigns promoting fertility
there's a lot of shit you can do, it's been done before. Reminder that Hitler created a massive baby boom in Germany, despite Germany being an advanced industrial economy.
But Christians are generally capitalists libertarian types who would oppose all of the above. They want you to be a virgin forever based on pure willpower and self-sacrifice, it's fucking retarded
Really issues like this don't have one clean simple solution. If you pass laws or make rigid societal rules that lock people into certain roles/choices it's not going to work for everyone.
What you can do and what I'm advocating is having subtle but flexible societal pressure pushing people towards doing the ideal thing with the understanding some will fail and not everyone will be able to.
It may be enough that we give them an ideal that you're supposed to strive for. Modern western society has robbed us of that with it's mantra of making everyone feel good about who they are and everything they do.
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