So after some stuff I said about my childhood when I was drinking my gf said I should look into therapy. Does anyone know any ways to do this that won't have an (((agenda)))?
Therapy
Ha, no. That shit never helps. You can never talk about the serious stuff or they'll threaten to send you off. Take our pills, goy!
Not to mention you'll either end up with a female therapist or the few male therapists, which are jews.
Read Carl Jung. The end.
if you have a gf, you don't belong on this board.
Just get some self-help tapes, you're your own best therapist. You know why the way you are.
Become Christian, preferably Catholic. Find a good, traditional church. Do confession and spiritual direction. From experience it's 18x more effective than therapy.
Therapy I would say is typically for women unless you have been through some particularly difficult stuff as a child. Hard to say, if its not bothering you then I would just carry on and be stoic. If it is difficult it would probably help to talk about it and refuse prescriptions.
talk to a male psychiatrist
preferably an old and fat one
avoid females, avoid 'psychologists'
It's hard to say, but chances are you should get it off your chest to some professional. Just be aware that therapists and women in general will always believe that more therapy is the answer, even if it means just picking at an old emotional scar and making the wound worse.
So at the very least, go for a few sessions with the express intent on getting advice on coping skills and keeping your head above water skills, if you're struggling in work and in life.
You might be surprised how good it feels to have a )))therapist((( listen to you and re-articulate what you're going through.
2nd appointment you can get a few tips on how to get through life without self-destructing or something.
3rd trip optional, depending on your issue and your sense of whether it's worth more time with the therapist. See if you like them, etc.
But mostly just know that after your first or second appointment, that you can quit going. Know full well that if the issue builds up inside you again, you know how the process works and you know how to seek and get professional help, even if it's just to get something important off your chest and clean up any destructive habits or problems.
Good luck OP, but remember not to feel too sorry for yourself or make too big a deal out of whatever you are dealing with.
Sometimes people with the smallest problems make the biggest deal out of them, or they go to therapy for years without ever seriously addressing what is really wrong with them.
Think of a therapist like you think of a good anti-virus software. You don't need to scan every day, but if your computer gets a virus you know what to do, having run the software before.
>see a drug dealer
Don’t listen to this subversive kike
I recommend hypnotherapy. Talk therapy is much less effective, and (((Psychiatrists))) just give you drugs.
Cognitive behaviour therapy. Less likely to prescribe shit more likely to work through your demons
I think there's going to be quite an agenda if he confesses his childhood molestation to a Catholic priest.
Dump the gf
>Become Christian, preferably Catholic. Find a good, traditional church.
(((Psychology))) is just a parasite on a preexisting religious structure.
Jungian therapist. Otherwise you'll just end up blaming your parents for everything bad that's ever happened to you.
>user you have (((problems))). See some psychiatrist and get your docile pills.
dump the bitch
>see someone who failed medical school and had to settle for the backup plan who will just diagnose you out of a book or talk about themselves the whole time
Keep looking until you find a therapist with whom you ‘gel’. Trust is the important issue for therapy sessions to work.
I just got drunk and told her about my admittedly rocky relationship with my mom. She was honestly pretty emotionally abusive throughout my childhood and she's all worked up thinking that I'm in a bad way. Honestly I don't think I need one, but she's freaked out.
I already am a Christian, albeit Baptist, granted a pretty traditionalist branch.
You see that's the hard thing, honestly I'm half concerned that for them it's going to be some excuse to either say I'm a tranny or call the cops and get all my guns taken or something.
My thoughts exactly.
That was my initial thought but she really does care about me.
I was never molested by a priest.
That was the approach I had planned. I really don't know what talking to someone can do that alking to my friends can't.
Sounds like your gf is overreacting
Anyway say 'okay I'll go see one' then go fuck off for an hr enjoy the peace and return home
Boom gf is happy and avoid they're faggy agenda where they'll try to put you on lithium or some shit
Thier
Tbh my plan exactly. They'll try to fucking lobotomize me.
Take shrooms with the mental expectation and focus of confronting your issues and that's what you will do.
Just eat about 5 oz of shrooms. It’ll give you 30 years of therapy in four hours.
I meant grams.
your GF is a jew and trying to kill you then fuck niggers.
fpbp and /thread
This. Talking to a therapist about anything serious is a great way to get committed.
Enjoy never owning a firearm again goy
Yeah but if it involved molestation at all the Priest is still going to blame you for it
Some advice based on my own experiences.
If you have to, then find male therapists and screen them for political beliefs. They don’t have to be identical to youre but make sure they’re not post-modern feminist types. Psychology has been completely taken over by the gynocentric Left, and if you get a shrink who fundamentally views you as an evil whitr patriarch, they can and will fuck you up. Don’t let them turn it into a pity party where you wallow in your emotions, that’s useless and even harmful for most men. And no matter what avoid psychiatrists like the plague.
>Baptist
No wonder you're all fucked up.
This is nothing shrooms can’t cure in 4 hours.
Shrooms are end of life, palliative care. DMT is for the living.
You'll just have to work out your issues with women on your own.
You don’t need one. Honestly she should be ashamed of herself for reacting this way when you made yourself vulnerable by opening up to her. The fact that these things came up organically at all suggests that you’re dealing with them in a healthy way, and it’s your gf who’s fucking up.
Yup if you tell a therapist anything real they will throw you into a mental hospital against your will
Redpill me on dmt. I've only done weed cause I have no friends and I'm afraid of what it will do to me if I take it alone
Men need philosophy, not psychology.
If you must, talk to a male doctor as others suggested.
>Listening to gf
Based fpbp
Based and redpilled.
Shouldn't really do anything to you, at least it didn't me but I don't believe in any of that spiritual mumbo jumbo bullshit about machine elves or spirits and stuff. Just a nice trip with loads of weird geometric patterns and an intriguing body load which i would describe as feeling like the body is 'transparent'
This so much. If you’re legitimately suffering from PTSD symptoms (and honestly it sounds like you’re not) then developing a comprehensive philosophy of evil will do more good for you as a man than crying about your feelings for an hour every week — which often just fucks men up more by encouraging emotional instability.
Moreso I'm worried about some kind of trippy side effect, like OD type stuff, or having a "bad trip"
Talk to a priest or pastor instead.
well, i wasted time typing out a response about my positive experience with a psychologist; but i was raped as a kid, so a little different. i doubt you need one for a mean mom. unless she was really fucking mean. like 'girl next door' mean.
Hmm well, it doesn't last more than a few minutes if smoked so having a bad trip isn't too possible I would say, and ime tripping around others is worse for that, but I'm kinda insecure by nature so your mileage may vary.
fpbp. This was my experience back in my good goy days. Tried ~5 different therapists. Made shit worse.
Greentext your shit here.
Old Christian male psychologist, no joke. Doesn't push drugs, no out right condemnation. If you are/were a Christan at one point that's the best way to go. Teaches good morale and virtue.
Many are jews, but get one that isn't
Gotta second this. The whole field is kikes or women and you can't truly open up or they'll chemically castrate you, get you put on a letter agency list, or both. Figure shit out for yourself or confide in a friend.
Dump GF.
Seriously user, I am not shitting you. Having tough relations with your mother means that you see trough cheap tricks that bad women employ to get around. If she is freaked out by this, better bail since she is obviously planning to use said tricks in the future if you write a check against it.
"you need therapy"
>i didn't like your display of weakness and you should talk to someone else about it
this is a huge red flag op, reestablish dominance or break up asap. this is the kind of shit women will use as an excuse to disrespect/cheat on you later
Thanks for the info.
If you live in LA I’ll give you redpilled therapy
I tend to agree with this. She was freaked out by your showing weakness and emotion (that’s her job!), and doesn’t know how to react. That doesn’t mean it’s time to dump her, but it’s a huge red flag.
Long term effects of parenting are zip. If problems with your mother are still causing you grief, distance yourself. Otherwise, you are who you are.
> developing a comprehensive philosophy of evil
What's true here? Redpill me plz. I've seen some shit.
Philosophy wise:
> evolution is real and rewards dominating others
> god created this system so people would have to struggle to be good
> do whatever will ensure my family continues
Journal.
Helped me a lot.
Get into gocnitive behaviour am therapy.
T. Psych grad and ex manic depressive.
do you have mates?
if you think you need therapy, instead have beer with them and talk out your problems.
therapy is paying for the same service at best.
> tl;dr TRP is right, male weakness is disgusting, train to win at all times because it pays to be a winner, and non-winnets die unloved.
Therapy NEVER helped me. I eventually got over most of my childhood trauma. My personality changed a lot when I was young because of it. Antidepressants are horrible. I tried a few different kinds, and at best they did nothing. At the worst, I was getting in fights and severely angry all the time.
If you are depressed or anxious, change your diet first. It makes a huge difference.
Do you really want some middle aged cat lady telling you how to fix your problems or do you want to deal with it yourself like a normal person would?
Not the faggy kind. The trad kind.
get the rapey from the rapist
>my gf said x therefore it must be so
I just wanted to humor her.
I personally think I'm fine, I just dumped a bunch of shit about how pretty crappy my mom treated me as a kid because she loved my sister more than me and she thinks I'm all kinds of fucked up now.
writing can be a useful exercise to get your thoughts out into a more tangible medium. For me it helps because by writing out my thoughts I'm projecting myself onto a document that I can then study from a removed perspective. Removed from the momentary biases of fluid present-tense thought. Think of it like astral projecting so you can study yourself from a 3rd party omniscient narrator's POV. That, and the actual process of my brain compiling and formatting thoughts and information into words helps clarify my thinking. Maybe it would help you too.
Use a mirror and be honest