This whole relatiomship thing is fucking me up

this whole relatiomship thing is fucking me up.
this is my first Girlfriend and im almost not a teen anymore(19), i should not feel like this, right?

>know this girl for a few years, she had a bf, they broke up somewhere around march-april.
>4months ago, start liking that girl, she likes me too, the usual stuff.
dont know if
>we're happy and im still figuring this whole being loved stuff out.

anyway. my two problems.
>1. her ex texts her, still.
dont know what to do about it
she asked me if that would be fine, i just said yes.
she said she is too nice to just block him
and yeah they had a relationship and all, but he treated her like shit and SHE broke up with him.

>2. at times, i dont know what to do.
someone catcalling her? should i respond as if the Person said it to me? what if im not around. should i start a fight..

sometimes i go way back in her instagram profile and think
"at that time she was sucking that other guys dick"
i dont know why.

(btw she is still a virgen)

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>she asked me if that would be fine, i just said yes.

This is where you fucked up.

yeah, i didnt know at the time.
(that was a fast Response thanks.)

Just tell her that you dont like it

yeah im considering that, just being honest etc.

That's a big no no, you tell her you are not okay with that and she either stops talking with him or it's over
If it's over, don't worry about her because she's just a dumb broad that would leave you sooner or later, probably for him
Trust me, I've been in almost the same situation

Spoiler: she’s not over her ex.

>she asked me if that would be fine, i just said yes.

NEVER
AGREE
TO
SOMETHING
YOU
DONT
AGREE
WITH

lesson 1 of being a man, say what the fuck you want, women try to challange it, because thats what they are used to when daddy resticted them

>still a virgin
You're doing it wrong.

at the time i did because i didnt know better
what should i do now?

the fuck you mean

working hard on it

i think she would listen to me, she just has some "opinions" about ex'es
one time she said "i dont get why people have to cut all contact"etc

she is even fucking anoyed with that fucker texting her all day

Listen to us you fucking retard, she still cares about her ex, you need to confront her about it

what on earth makes you guys think that

Because she texts him all the time as you said
If you tell her you don't like that and she stops then it's fine
If she doesn't, she still has feelings for him

she is just replying
he texts her
i agree with the last part yes

>the fuck you mean
not the user you responded to but she had only broken up for a month or two before hooking up with you and she and her "ex" are still talking. That means both of them are still working through things that went right and wrong in their relationship. No way is she totally emotionally available to you because there remains an emotional connection to him.

To be fair to her, it takes time for anyone to totally emotionally disconnect and certainly not within months of the break up, and complicated by trying to start another. OP, you are a transition guy, the guy to fill a slot as they determine their feelings and if they should try again or move on. What usually happens, you hang on, he hangs on, and if she doesn't return to the ex she meets another man and she's out of your life and the ex's.

the problem user is having to tell her to stop. If she stops on her own then she's moved on. If she stops (temporarily or secretly still does it) on OP's insistence it means nothing.

yeah im sure she doesnt want anything from that absolut beta
time between the breakup was probably 4-5 months
also, she is not a basic girl you are taking about

just act like you don´t care at all with who she text or not.
you have to get comftable with that and she is in a relationship with you for a reason.

and if she texts with other people, so what, you can do the same doesnt you?

as long as she doesn´t send anus pics youre pretty much save.
let them other idiots do the communication work you do the sex work.

i would pay for someone who texts with my wife about stupid things.

thanks for your opinion.

Confront her. had the same situation with my ex.
note(ex)

how exactly?
also, can you share your story