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>Girls aren't worth it as an ugly guy.
Thats only your insecurity.

that’s not OP

Then explain to them that you don't give a fuck what they think you're "supposed" to do and that you will live your life however you see fit.

Or just lie about it

I have lied before, but that feels wrong.

It's not unhealthy or "bad" in itself, although it depends on the reason. If you look like that and desire sex but have yet to experience it, chances are you lack friends or the kind of personality that women (and people in general) find attractive. Know this from experience (without being ottermode)

co-workers seem to like me and try to invite me out a lot. But I don’t like drinking. Plus i’d rather just play vidya. As I said earlier, I have had girls at uni try to initiate conversations with me.

What a sweet guy

Why?

Nothing wrong with you, op.
Some people are just assholes when they don't understand something

Negating your very reason for existence is not good.

You know why

our reason of existence isn’t to have sex. It’s to reproduce. Sex is just the method of reproducing. When you have sex with tinder thots, you’re not fulfilling your “reason of existence”

You sound similar to me. I don't know if its because I've gone so long without any physical contact with a girl but the thought of having sex and doing everything necessary to get to that point seems surreal. Like I find it difficult to even project myself into such a scenario and being successful at it. Its a bit surreal.

Funny thing is, that I had way more success with girls in high school but that all faded in my twenties for some reason.

Yeah I know what you mean. It doesn’t seem real. Like sex and all that almost seems like a fake made up thing

OP, are you just not interested in casual hookup sex, or not at all (meaning you don't want a committed relationship with a girl)?

>our reason of existence isn’t to have sex. It’s to reproduce.
That sounds pretty degenerate desu. I'd like to think people are not cattle and are capable of something more than just reproduction.

i said above that I never want to get married or have kids, so I can’t justify dating
the most basic form of our existance is to reproduce. I was just responding to that user.

It's less degenerate than mindless hedonism.

A human being is a both a spiritual and organic being. You have to satisfy the needs of both sides. If you only satisfy your organic side you're a degenerate, if you only satisfy your spiritual side you're a hermit.

To satisfy your organic side you have to produce children by fucking a woman. But fucking random whores on tinder doesn't accomplish this. If you aren't motivated by fucking random women and yet are still highly motivated to produce children that just means you're just better adapted to the modern world than most most people.

I'm not as fit as you, but in the same boat: 28 and a virgin. I don't think it's "wrong" or unhealthy, but normies will see you like you're some kind of freak. God forbid you don't want to dedicate your life to thots.

>i said above that I never want to get married or have kids, so I can’t justify dating
Fugg
The antihedonismpill is a good pill, but it's not good to not seek some sort of partner

>it's not good to not seek some sort of partner
Why?

Why not?

You're just based and redpilled. Don't worry about it.

You sound like an alright guy, but having 0 sex drive is not normal no matter how tolerant people want to be, nor how fine you might feel your life is. While asexuality is possible due to biological reasons, it's usually a psychological thing. If you suffer or have suffered from depression or other behavioral/psychological problems in the past, consider that you may not have everything straightened out as well as you think.
Either way though, good on you for the lifting and for having a pretty positive outlook, most people in your position wouldn't accomplish that.

They might bully you because they aren't even half as Jow Forums as you and this is their way of feeling better about themselves.

Well it doesn't harm anyone, but it seems abnormal. Though better to not force something you don't want.

I'm 26 and have been afk for 10 years or so.
No idea where to go to achieve "personal growth".

I'm only attracted to virgin girls like myself.

If it's causing you a lot of anxiety, then yes it's unhealthy.

Live your life
It's too short to listen to a bunch of sort-ofs on Jow Forums tell you pseudofacts and vaguely scientific-sounding things

If you end up wanting sex you'll know, your peepee will get hard and you'll start to experience horny thoughts. Until then worry about the rest of your life because unlike the fucking Freudenkind in here, there's actually a metric fuckload of shit that isn't sex, but is still a part of life. Like climbing, or woodcraft, or wordplay, or photography.

Do you even get feelings for a girl? Have you ever felt in love or close to someone?

Don't have the body like this guy (could if I tried) but been told I'm attractive. I've been dateless for most of my 20s. It's not that I haven't tried. Its that I have this mindset that by not asking them out, I'm protecting them from myself.

>will never be able to provide them the dream house with white picket fence
>will never be able to provide them their dream wedding
>still live with parents
>inexperienced with women, only had one gf ever
>I probably won't live up to their expectations

Because of this, I had to rely on a "substitute" which I fear has exacerbated my problem even more.

>provide
what a tool

It's about as wrong and unhealthy as never visiting Peru in your 20s.

Not that user but i had couple of crushes. That's all.

Once. I don’t want it again. There is no point