What instantly makes a person more attractive to you?
What instantly makes a person more attractive to you?
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If they like me back. ;-;
this and hugs
This hits too close to home.
Not that I know what it's like to have someone like you back, but I'd imagine it's like when someone wants to hang out with you.
If they are attracted to me
Guess what‘s worse? If you only like them until they like you because then they become “human“. The lovely illusion falls apart.
Someone who knows what they want and sticks to what they believe and is loyal.
XX chromosome
Showing or telling me in some way that they care and enjoy being around me. Also helping/defending me in some way. Also banter and playful teasing.
When they have ambitions and goals in life.
when they kinda look like mitski
Nice tits
Nice ass
Not even trolling, mediocre face but nice tits/ass automatically gives them a +2-3
Race: white, Arab, maybe mulatto if she doesn't act like a Nigger
Brunette / black hair. Straight. Fuck those curly hair cunts. And fuck blondes.
Long, oval shaped faces with long noses. Round potato faces look weird to me
5'7 height, long legs
Hipster/hippie/punk style of fashion when not working.
If she smokes weed. Non-stoner girls are anal cunts that can die in a fire
I refuse to compromise on any of my standards. Currently have a gf that fits the bill, dated girls like this before, will date more girls like this in the future.
An above average face primarily. Other than that, being able to take a joke.
Does
>roof over head
>shoes on feet
>running vehicle
>no debt
count
A lust for life, honestly.
My current gf is a bit mopey, and I've found myself falling for another woman simply because she sees the world through a more positive lens.
Now... the truth is, you only see that superficial/good side of people until you spend every waking minute with them. It's impossible to be upbeat all the time, but you really notice when somebody is balanced and content in themselves.
If they look like me
Met someone and instantly we couldn't stop staring at each other, I had to ask him out. So yeah we dated and that's all fine but then I had people keep telling me that we look like siblings and we actually do
Makes me realise all the guys I find hot look related to me. It doesn't help that I prefer them to have long hair too. Is this narcissism? Anyone else experience this?
Really? Interest in me is a huge turnoff.
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They having money.
Dark circles or bags under their eyes with thick eyelashes. A sleepy boi is a good boi
Honesty, nice ass and not so ugly face
Sense of humor
Genuine honest and self aware
Well, it sounds you're mostly independent, but existing to exist is something I'm not a big fan of I'd say. I love the rare people that come with genuine bleeding hearts and burn with passion for something. It could be whatever.
Non-verbal communication.
Guy here. I’m attracted to people who show interest in me as a person, not just polite interest, but being actively interested in me and my life. It makes me feel noticed and interesting. Also helps if the girl in mind has a lot of personality and slightly flirty with people, idk but it’s attractive to see girls flirt, even with other people.
this and if she has a nice body, because at least I know my children will have good looks and she obviously takes care of herself which is a good value to me. Oh yeah and of course is loyal and wants to be a mother
aesthetic taste, being witty, but most of all having morals.
this
Unironically, somehow, the ability to express anger tactfully
Angry people turn me on.
>inb4 "x issues"
we'll need more than one thread
Acts cute, genuine, dresses artsy, cares about herself/future.
A girl who is happy and not crazy. Frankly it seems like the majority of girls nowadays have some sort of mental illness or are flat out depressed. If i can get a girl who is mentally healthy and who is generally a happy person, that's a massive green flag.
If they are attracted to me & not buttfuck ugly.
>""anime"" hair
I have difficulty describing it in text, I just know it when I see it. When a girl has a hairdo like one of my Japanese animes, it instantly turns my head.
If she has academic interests that are for reasons beyond merely getting a degree because that is what is expected of you. Seriously, someone who is not only highly educated, but highly educated because they genuinely love the field instantly gets a bonus 3 or so points on that mythical 10 point scale. I'm so bad at normal conversation that it's downright disrespectful but I can listen to someone talk about their studies for hours on end. If they can teach me something, then they are much more attractive to me I guess.
A fulltime job and plans for the future. Im not gonna date some retarded thot.
What a fag
Girls who have a life plan, have good mental health coping mechanisms and actually have a set of beliefs instead of "hehe Idk"
Sorry that your favorite hobbies of sitting around and masturbating are of little interest to most people.
Big tits on a small frame
A good haircut. People can go from a 3 to a 8 with a good haircut
Maybe you're just gay.
this so much senpai
nigga this is me. feels bad.
Cute and a bit weird, like pink hair or something.
Ambition
The more they ignore me and others to pursue their goals the more I like them.
For guys, when they're around my height (5'6")
A cute face
A raspy voice
let me put it this way: large breasts don't hurt my opinion of a person
I forced myself to forget. I know for a fact I can't be with anyone, so I force myself to not see anyone romantically.
How does it feel to have someone like you back?
a nice smile and a good attitude
this
This is why nobody wants to date you
You fall for anyone who likes you
Pathetic
I don't get how people end up like this, I never had a GF until I had 19 and I rejected 2 girls before my first gf
are you guys so thirty for attention?
Yes
humulity , grace, and compassion
>milf
>thicc thighs (especially the upper parts), good ass, wide hips and wide waist
>good fat distribution: soft but not flabby body (asians are really good at this)
>big natural breasts or small perky ones or even flat chest
>stretch marks on the upper side of the breasts and on the inside and back side of the upper part of the thighs
>height difference (both ways, but higher girls look better with more fat and small ones look better with less)
>wide cheek bones or something (I'm not a face expert so I can't describe exactly what I mean but OP's pic is not bad; google Judit Guerra)
Having said that, OP's pic is a 9/10. Tanya Song is the absolute goddess.
These don't necessarily come together with the above very well, basically if a girl has some perks from this list, the list above is automatically ignored
>vivid, shining eye colour, detailed iris
>hair matching eye colour (brown: black or dark brown and curly (+freckles), black: black and straight (asian girls), grey: black and straight, blue: blonde and wavy, blue or green: red and wavy or curly (+freckles)
>heterochromia (especially one eye blue or gray and one green)
>tomboy/androgynous body/reverse trap (ever saw a girl and wasn't sure if it's not a trap but then you saw e.g. that she doesn't have Adam's apple so she must be female?)
>short hair (in combination with thicc thighs it's a killer)
cont.
>confident and asserting dominance
>slutty and lewd
>openly sexual, shameless
>any kinks from my long list of kinks
>smart, even nerdy
>nice, friendly and pleasant
>can take the banter
>smile (it's pretty rare in my country)
>shy
>funny
>when she enjoys her life
>when she enjoys her life more when she's around me or I can see I give her a lot of fun
>submissive and obedient
>rebellious against my dominance
Physically? Their face somewhat resembling this. Also, resting bitch face. I never really noticed before how attracted I am to a girl that looks decent enough and has this as her default facial expression.
Emotionally? When they actually bother to express their attraction to me with physical affection.
if they hate everyone
>good skin care
>good hair care
Why?
Genuine Kindness.
When I see a girl going out of her way to be kind to someone it gives me a huge boner.
When a girl has a strong sense of accountability and even a modicum of ambition. I've spent a few years on various dating apps and encountered very few with these traits.