Female colegoue from class is clearly ingoring me, doesn't respond often, avoids contact. I have no idea how to act, it's been ~3 months when she replied to messaged, texted with me - 5 since talked in a friendly manner - into semester and it bothers me a bit. I think I wronged her, when messaging, tend to be clingy to people I befriend. We both are in senior class, when studing is crucial yet I didn't expect someone to straight up ignore my presence, since last we met talked openly, somewhat enjoing each otbers presence. There is a chance that I have few mental conditions, which never openly have I talked about, never will unless it's nessery.
I want you to ask: should I ask her friend about it; try to fix relationship or move on?
I look at it as lost cause hence making myself vulnerable to classmates isn't big deal.
She's a fucking colleague what the fuck are you doing?
Henry Cook
move on
I can guarantee you, you cant do anything in your position without making the situation worse
Jaxson Collins
Bring her flowers one day and apologize for making her uncomfortable.
Ian Cox
She's 2 years older then me yet we're in same class. 15 moths ago we started to notice each otherat after my bday in december last year realized possibility of entering relationship, didn't stand up to asking her out just because I wasn't sure what response she might give me. 10 months later I get cocky and invite her to my place, being rather clingy then annoying messaged her from time to time
I am autist btw.
Colton Carter
yes this is solid advice
Xavier Perez
Her bday is in a 10 days don't want to be pushy with that, she may refuse to accept gift, wanted to message asking if she is up to accepting one
Xavier Adams
I say move on, you most likely dont have any chances with her. imo in the only outcome were you end up dating she reaches out to you and not the other way around
Oliver Young
dont she will be creeped out
Nicholas Evans
Cont. Aslo she doesn't reply to pm's, probably I annoyed shit out of her.
Zachary Nguyen
I say go for it and get her the flowers. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take etc. etc.
Justin Wright
this is an awful idea
Jordan Murphy
I make presents for few people in my class, so it's not a problem of being wierd but rather if she'd refuse to acceot one knowing this for 3 years now
Alexander Hill
There is chance
Mason Cooper
That one ofmy classmates may browse 4fag
Jeremiah Edwards
Thats the point. How can it get worse for me when repercussions doesn't affect both sides. Would like to add that no matter what I think or want, won't do it in a way of direct question - when want to hook up, there has to be occasion for it. Try to stay neutral.
Jose Evans
OP Asked friend of her about it.
Lucas Reyes
it can get worse if you have autism then you may not care about what people may think about you but being pushy will affect her opinion on you and probably those around her considering that you already have 0 chances (imo), to keep going is a mistake I dont think anything good will come from insisting
I have had experiences like this before, you have to quit while you are ahead so you can try again later.
>when want to hook up, there has to be occasion for it. Try to stay neutral. how do you see this happening? she is currently ignoring you, what should happen that would make her want to hook up with you?
Camden Johnson
Guys what the fuck, friend of her responded to me shortly will post some screens
Kevin Cox
OP
She ignored me for months just because I implied that she didn't want to visit me.
Eli Thompson
She wanted apology for it. What the fuck. It can't be true
