I found out that my gf that I deeply love

Debating whether I should do the same with my gf except she had 15 partners

>wanting to be with a girl that sees other humans as living dildos
He should still dump that thot

Yeah get rid of her. She's a ho,

well many do

as long as he's not a hypocrite who considers chicks cumdumps himself yet for some reason wants a pure waifu, definitely

Fuck off.

Amount of partners dramatically increases divorce rates and ruins pair bonding in women
But it doesn't in men
ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability
google.com/amp/s/www.researchgate.net/publication/288468853_The_societal_dilemma_of_multiple_sexual_partners_The_costs_of_the_loss_of_pair-bonding/amp
nationalmarriageproject.org/reports/

in a row?

How old is she?

Normally I'd say not to give a shit about how many partners somebody has been with because it doesn't matter, but 20 is a LOT, especially if very young. If you genuinely love her, I'd say work through it, but somebody that promiscuous is a huge red flag.

Women with 10 or more partners were the most likely to divorce, but this only became true in recent years;
Women with 3-9 partners were less likely to divorce than women with 2 partners; and,
Women with 0-1 partners were the least likely to divorce.

Science isn't sjw forte.

sorry for hurting your feelings :(

yes yes but there's a tiny little detail you're forgetting: what are op's chances of finding a lower-mileage gf?

op, if you're in your late 20's, beware

Nice cuck rationalization

Whatever eases your mind

Nope, I will date n find a virgin.

good luck

I'm not sure what your point is. OP should settle for someone who is more likely to divorce him, chest on him, and who has worsened their pair bondings?
Frankly, I would go with nogf over a payless prostitute.

And the amount of sex is irrelevant, what matters is the amount of people. Sex once a day with 1 other guy for 5 years is more stable than sex once a week with a different guy for a month, as the studies show.

Depending on how long you've been together you might be able to just ghost her. I've done it a few times, only one ever asked why and I told her I wanted another virgin, she didn't take it well so avoid that.

>Amount of partners dramatically increases divorce rates
True, but we've only discovered a correlation between the two numbers, not causation. There are far too many possible contributing factors to concretely say that a higher amount of sexual partners directly causes relationship instability or the inverse. Also, these studies suffer from one great flaw; their equivocation of marriage stability with marriage quality. The length of a marriage is not equal to its stability. The only thing that someone still being married proves is that a divorce hasn't been filed at the courthouse. To say that someone's relationship is better BECAUSE they've had fewer sex partners is assuming quite a few things. This is all very compelling but you're taking the leap from hypothesis to conclusion.

>ruins pair bonding in women
Unsubstantiated. Its a good hypothesis but, again, we've found a correlation, not causation.

life happens. virginity, 3 kids and an unpaid house didn't safe my old neighbour from divorce either.

it's nice that you've made up your mind, but maybe celibacy for life/sticking to hookers isn't quite what op wants in the future

Not a chick, and my whole point is:

If he loved her, his first instinct wouldn’t go straight to dumping her.

Instead it’d probably be to feel like shit and then try to figure out how to deal, or to talk to her, or be angry, or most anything else that involves actually interacting with her, not stay silent and go straight to “how do I drop her gentlly”

An instinct in humans that often works against us is that when you care about something and then discover something negative or corruptive about it, your first instinct is often to fight to try to find reasons and excuses to keep it, *not* drop it like like you don’t give a fuck. Most people just straight up can’t, even when they know it’s for their own good.

*save

Thanks for having a straight head, unironically.

How do you stop thinking that one penis (yours) versus many will effect a woman's ability to bond with anyone instead of trying to bond with anyone with your fucked up idea of what love is?

Studies show my ass, and you can kiss them all as I've had over 100 partners and still happily married a guy who understands sex is not equal to love unless you both want it to be, and neither of us are cheaters or so insecure we can't believe each other had sexual partners before we got romantic. OP is a faggot.

Stop trolling, user.

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