Why are single mothers bad for society when they encourage independence in their kids from an early age? They are doing the job of 2 people yet always put forth effort to make sure their kids are not stunted in development and that they know life hacks and skills.
One single mom I know who has 2 kids with a black fellow who is no longer involved, she lets the kid who is only 6 walk into her school half a mile along the street and up into the school on her own while she waits at the bottom of the path. So that's teaching the 6 year old independence and being able to do things on her own.
Another one i know who has 3 kids with a white fellow makes her kids help her with the housework and chores. They do half of the cleaning etc and they are only 10, 8, and 7 years old and she has them cleaning, dusting, wiping the skirting boards.
I learned many things from my own single mother. How to budget, how to multitask certain things, how to deal with "authorities", challenge things, stand up for my rights. Now I am a father and put those things to use with my own kids, plus i have made friends with many single mummies and to me there is nothing wrong with the way they parent. All their kids are independent, forward, confident and ready for the world even at these young ages.
I noticed that with kids from working class/lower class single parent homes we have these advantages on the middle class sheltered kids from "good homes". A lot of those seem socially stunted and not very creative.
>when they encourage independence in their kids from an early age? lol
If anything they encourage dependence because they turn their child into an emotional punching bag. They never instill good morals or habits in their children and just leave it up to the school system and TV/internet while they work or goof off
Hell, the very act of being a single mother shows their poor decision making.
there's a correlation of single motherhood to crime because most single moms are poor and black, and that's the biggest demographic of thugs.
Jaxson Price
cool blogpost
Jackson Walker
>Why are single mothers bad for society when they encourage independence in their kids from an early age? Maybe kids aren't supposed to *BE* independent at a young age... maybe, just maybe, having a father involved in your life, guiding you and disciplining you is a good thing.
Colton Wilson
This. We could solve the problem by ending fatherlessness, and this means getting rid of the state-programs [church-programs are fine] that allow them to function without a husband with ease.
Kevin Moore
>mother >encouraging independence
Eli Hernandez
>independence in their kids >single mothers almost always on public assistance programs >no positive father figure in home minimizes discipline and restraint in children big reasons niggers are the way they are is because almost all of them don't have fathers in the home. society should nurture positive masculine figures.
the question I have is regarding dating single mothers. Jow Forums seems deadlocked on it being bad but I don't know how you reverse that cycle without someone doing that desu
Jayden Sanders
>Maybe >Maybe, just maybe I agree with you 100% but this makes you sound like an insufferable faggot fyi
John Harris
If single mothers are bad how come all the mentally disturbed kids who go on rampages in schools and shopping malls come from "good homes" with 2 well off parents who both have good jobs and good careers?
You might find kids from single mothers in jail for drugs or gangbanging or something like that but that's correlated with them being poor in the first place. People are products of their environments. So how come the kids who have both parents are turning into school shooters, larpers on Jow Forums, psychotic incels, whining MGTOW pussies etc? Why are they psychotic and weak hearted/minded despite having everything they need growing up?
Carter Brooks
this. Humans are supposed to grow up with the soft comforting presence of a mother and the strong principled presence of a father. as soon as you remove one of the parents the kids end up retarded
Jayden Wright
There’s no such thing as independence.
Aiden Wright
because no one is afraid of their mothers, your mother can't keep you in line. your father has fewer responsibilities around the house, so he can pry into your personal life and punish you for the degenerate shit you're doing. since he doesn't have to worry about cleaning, cooking or breastfeeding.
Chase Perry
If blacks arent niggers then why are they black?
Chase Roberts
Except for the fact that single mothers can't do the job of both parents. There is a void in the children's lives where their father should be. Children learn to cope with this by filling the void in various ways. This situation very rarely leads to positive outcomes.
Julian Thomas
A child needs a man and a woman in their lives.its the most important thing you do for your kids.
Jayden James
>They are doing the job of 2 people Stopped reading here. All the single mothers I've seen do the job of half a person and just farm welfare from the government, then spend that monry drinking and going to clubs and neglecting or actively fucking up their kids.
Jeremiah Stewart
The children either take after the mother and become basedboys or reject the mother and overcompensate for feelings of weakness and lack of masculine rolemodel through hypermasculinity, ie. constant aggression, and become criminals.
Adrian Richardson
Whenever a woman talks about raising a kid (or an animal) they always focus on the result, instead of healthy choices which in turn ends up as a good upbringing. >I teach my kid to stand up for him/herself Just means they will give in whenever the kid demands, and end up a brat, not a humble person with principles. There's no nuance when raising a child, only either/or.
Parker Phillips
Government cash taken from taxpayers took on the role of the father.
some single mothers do a good job. others are atrocious it is too easy to generalise.
I knew one whose 15 year old son didn't know how to shave his teenbeard & so I was asked as a neighbour to help him learn, this is often the problem that for men's stuff they are often clueless.
Kids growing up with no father develop multiple behavioural problems, + have feminine, bad, attitudes, ways of thinking, etc. There is reams of evidence for this.
By your logic kids would be better of being oprhans because omg they're gonna be so fucking street smart.
The "socially stunted", "not very creative" kids from good families you talk about grow up to become engineers, architects, doctors, etc., and live much happier lives, very often.
Joshua Phillips
I also know many single mothers... Many of them don't learn their kids any usefull.. IF they even try to learn them anything. Many of them take their dates home for the night just to fuck them while the kid is in the next room, he/she can hear anything and will be traumatised and highly very sexualised or Asexual in further life...
Brandon Allen
they can not produce the financial necessities to create a fully intelligent and productive individual. even with wellfare, the numbers are so astronomically stacked against the children of single broke moms, that if you ever meet one who has genuinely made something of himself or gotten a degree in something legitimate- you should give him a congratulatory pat on the back, and probably listen to him as he is an exceptionally intelligent anomaly.
Hunter Barnes
>they encourage independence in their kids from an early age?
They do the opposite you retard, single mothers are usually such repulsive people the only person that they can get to stick around is their son or daughter, and that's only because they can use force and MAKE them stick around
