My eldest son is an incel

My boy, my oldest child, was so good when he was little, but something broke inside of him when he was a teenager.

My wife and I always accepted, loved, and encouraged him. We pushed him to work hard and treat people with respect. I don’t know where exactly we failed him but as a father I feel responsible for the thing he’s turned into.

It started when he was 14. He had began to watch videos of this man named Paul Joseph Watson. We chalked it up to teenaged mood swings. For some reason he was just so angsty and bitter all the time. We were worried about his lack of social life and his over-reliance on his computer. He kind of hid himself in the online world so my wife and I began to limit his computer time, but he simply became more aggressive and confrontational.

His hygiene was bad, and he was always confrontational when we told him to shower or do laundry. His room stank horribly and we eventually had a huge fight over it where he physically shoved my wife and called her a bitch, and eventually we got him to at least clean and air out his room regularly on the grounds that it was our house and if he couldn’t maintain his space he wouldn’t be entitled to it - essentially we got to the point where we told him he wouldn’t be allowed his worldly possessions or privacy unless he took care of the space we all shared. the room still smelled and he was still rude about cleaning it but we could tell him to get it clean and he would do it after that.

We ended up getting a call from his school saying that a female student felt harassed by him. We were shown messages where he continually badgered her to tell her about this “White Genocide” and how “Facts didn’t care about her feelings”.

Attached: 2913293913dd.jpg (960x960, 70K)

Other urls found in this thread:

reddit.com/r/self/comments/9vs05k/my_son_is_a_hateful_incel_and_i_just_cannot_save/
twitter.com/SFWRedditGifs

We were shocked. We explained to him why this behaviour was unacceptable, and I explained to him that it was ok to be sexually active but his actions were toxic and abusive.

I tried mentoring him man-to-man, taking him on camping trips and whatnot and talking to him about women and girls and trying to give him advice. I suggested he try showering, changing up his hair and facial hair styles, trying out different fashion styles, maybe going to the gym.

I told him some hard truths - that he doesn’t want a gross woman so he shouldn’t be a gross man. By gross I mean hygiene and looks. I explained to him that good looks are more hygiene and self care than genetics but he refused to accept what I said to him.

After that I caught him sniffing his sister’s panties in the laundry room - she was 12 at the time and he was 17. He assured me it had nothing to do with his sister, he said he just had a panty sniffing fetish and he pretended they belonged to girls from porno videos, but still I gave him hell for it, and he was grounded and lost his computer for 6 months. I went through his computer and I was disgusted by the kinds of hateful, racist, incel forums he frequented, the horrid things he said about women, and his save file was full of cartoon porn with girls of questionable ages. I wiped the hard drive completely and began strictly monitoring his online activity. I used parental filters to block incel sites and and porn sites that hosted cartoon porn.

Then I caught him sharing Prager U videos on Facebook....I tore into my son for that, my wife and I both shouted at him, and told him his behaviour was horrible and I told him then that if his actions got him arrested I would not defend him. He accused us of not loving him, but I told him the reason I was so passionately angry in that situation is because I do love him, and I want to help him become a good man so he can stop being so predatory and bitter and miserable.

I told him some hard truths. That he did this all to himself and that he is the only one he can blame for how bitter he is.

I suggested he look to women his own age and he went on a rant about how it was a waste of time because women were already whores (and his definition of a whore is a woman who has had sex even just once) by 17. I called him out on his bullshit and expressed clearly that if he harassed young girls anymore I would personally turn him in.

We got my son therapy but he refused to engage with the therapist, calling him a “sand nigger” and “pajeet” and “terrorist”. His next therapist was a “chad”, so he didn’t relate to that either.

We fought about him not trying, not getting a job, and he said he couldn’t get one because of the immigrants, to which I pointed out that he was struggling because he got fired from his high school jobs for being lazy.

After those fights, my wife tried to empathize with him and understand what made him so bitter but he flipped out at her, and called her a cock-gargling whore and said that she fucked her way through dozens of men until she found a “beta-fag” who was willing to shelter her for missionary sex.

My wife, who works and contributes to the family income, who is an independent, professional woman.

Honestly, I lost it more than ever before. I had never been so angry when I heard what he said. That may be his mom, he may be my son, but the woman he was abusively tearing into is my god damn wife. No one can treat my wife like that.

I am ashamed to say in my anger, he shoved me and I physically retaliated, shoving him back, and pinning him against the wall. I felt ashamed of myself, I have never been an angry or violent person, but I couldn’t control myself. I’ve never put my hands on either of my children in such a way in my life, I hate child abusers... but this boy was no child. He was a grown man.

He was intimidated and backed down, and for a while he was peaceful.

The last straw was this week.

My son was ranting about how West Point had not accepted him. He claimed that he didn’t get in due to “affirmative action” I was looking in his room and found out he started a website called “Turning Point USA” it spreads vile racist content over the internet. My son even has employees who do his bidding. Apparently one of them is even responsible for ruining one of my favorite Hip Hop performers life.

I lost it, I forced my son out of the house, kicking and screaming I might add. I told him “ I don’t love you anymore you piece of shit, he said “nice alliteration dad”. I changed the locks on the house, installed an alarm system and filed a restraining order.

As I was cleaning out his room I found Polaroid photographs of my daughters underage friends. Cum encrusted copies of Atlas Shrugged and The Fountain Head, drawings of him sucking Ronald Reagan’s dick.

I dropped his things off at some weird apartment building near the University. A smelly looking guy took them, I didn’t even see me son.

If anyone sees my son at University, his name is Charlie, he has an extremely small face, big gums, and has an unmistakable odor. Please punish him with physical and verbal abuse. As much as possible.

How do I make sure none of my other sons turn out like this? One's four and the other is Two.

This is obviously a larp. You're a dad on 4 chan, posting a frog, talking about your son being an incel? Sorry, you fail. Nice try though. Game over, please play again.

Regardless of your stupidity, I also think listening to Paul Joseph Watson is a depressing thing to do. Why believe that everything is a democratic/liberal conspiracy? That's a way to be depressed for life. Sure, some liberal crap is degenerate but not all of it. Liberal hippies were crying for peace after all.

Oh, I forgot....being on Jow Forums will make anyone hate girls. That's all the incels talk about - how shitty girls/women are. It's mutual masturbation to make themselves feel the girls have the problem because they rejected them. It means they don't have to be accountable for anything.

4/10

Decent effort, but your overly perfect references to Jow Forums culture gave it away

The same story was posted today on r/self. Come on, man.

> Cum encrusted copies of Atlas Shrugged and The Fountain Head, drawings of him sucking Ronald Reagan’s dick.

Attached: 1531264207139.gif (360x238, 1.43M)