How do I meet girls without using dating apps or any social media?
I know that's the way things are generally done these days but I just can't bring myself to use one of those doggone apps.
I live in London, but I just work, go to the gym, and then go home every night. I'm allergic to alcohol so I never go to bars or parties either.
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Knuckle drag your way out of cave and bring club
Hit she person on head and drag back by to cave.
Make sure she not fat so it easier to drag she person also check her for penis. Make sure not have.
Why don't you want to use dating apps?
Tis’ Not a place for le chaste maidens my good gentlesir.
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Actual OP here.
I just can't bring myself to put my pictures up on that meat market. I don't want my ID up on one of those things (I have always been pretty shy of social media).
Ask your parents to set up an arranged marriage back home. And then go back there and stay there.
What the fuck is the worst they can do that life ain’t already done to you?
How does that logic make sense? Once you've been buttraped once it's ok if everyone else do that to you too?
(OP here again)
Nothing. To me, I just find it embarrassing to use a dating app, though. My own insecurity, I'm sure.
So basically the consensus is: use a dating app or I'm out of luck?
Get the word out to your friends and family and acquaintances you'd like to meet someone, they may set you up.
Work on day game and talk to random hotties out and about (see youtube).
Work on yourself; be fit, have goals and a career plan. Have a sense of humour.
How do I find somebody who isn't speaking with 60 other people at once
How do I find someone who isn't a stupid,lying, cowardly, abusive bitch who does not deserve good things?
meetup.com
Dont be a stupid, lying, cowardly, abusive faggot who is destined for shit things.
Not helpful. Answer the above question
Meet lots of people, of all genders.
Join a club. Take an evening class. Do volunteer work.Go to talks, lectures, plays, theatre, entertainment clubs. Hang out at Starbucks.
Meet people. Chat with people. The more people you know casually, the more from among them may develop into friends. And the more that may be female-type people.
The teenagers of Jow Forums have a phobia about the dreaded friendzone, but among those over 20, meeting women as friends is the best route toward connecting with one.
Let's see....
Malls
Laundry Matt's
Shopping Centers
Community Centers
Gas Stations (See it all the time)
Grab yer little nuts & TALK TO SOME BITCHES YO!
Ok, here's how I do it
I am above average, but it doesn't matter if me as a person is not a 9 or 10. Physical attraction works to gain interest, buts its not all of it.
You can fix physical attraction with working out, to offset some genetic problems you may face.
Who would your dream girl date? Become that man.
I want to become the embodiment of what the ancient stoics wrote of. That's who I want to be. So I read their works, I workout, I am learning to control - NOT SUPPRESS - my emotions.
Part of this is my parents. They both, especially my father, are extremely strong willed and I got that too. So I workout when other people dont want to, I read what other people won't, at work, I do what other people dont.
In one line, again,
>Be the man your dream girl would date
Beyond looks. Have morals, ethics, be respectful, honest, stoic, hard working, smart, and strong willed. Not for girls, but for yourself. Then the girls will come. Pic related
And go on /lit/, read the sticky, read the Greeks.
Thank you for the thorough response. Appreciate the recommendation, I'll consider it after I'm finished with current reads
Its very short, you can read it in half an hour
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Also some additional rules I try to follow.
>"Temperance. Eat not to dullness; drink not to elevation."
>"Silence. Speak not but what may benefit others or yourself; avoid trifling conversation."
>"Order. Let all your things have their places; let each part of your business have its time."
>"Resolution. Resolve to perform what you ought; perform without fail what you resolve."
>"Frugality. Make no expense but to do good to others or yourself; i.e., waste nothing."
>"Industry. Lose no time; be always employ'd in something useful; cut off all unnecessary actions."
>"Sincerity. Use no hurtful deceit; think innocently and justly, and, if you speak, speak accordingly."
>"Justice. Wrong none by doing injuries, or omitting the benefits that are your duty."
>"Moderation. Avoid extremes; forbear resenting injuries so much as you think they deserve."
>"Cleanliness. Tolerate no uncleanliness in body, clothes, or habitation."
>"Tranquility. Be not disturbed at trifles, or at accidents common or unavoidable."
>"Chastity. Rarely use venery but for health or offspring, never to dullness, weakness, or the injury of your own or another's peace or reputation."
>"Humility. Imitate Jesus and Socrates."
I met my ex who was a virgin on tinder
Don't hamstring yourself for some half baked ideals. There's no points awarded at the end for having avoided tinder.
>I met my ex who was a virgin on tinder
This is what she told him aaahahahhahaha
I literally dumped her because she borderline asexual
Hopefully you're a girl. What kind of girl would willingly be a virgin until 28+ only to lose it to a hookup? How sad.
Asexual isn't s thing. She had some other mental or physical problems preventing her from enjoying sex. What a waste.
I'm a guy. She didn't "lose it to a hookup", we were dating.
As for why she didn't enjoy sex, I assume it has something to do with her having grown up in the middle East.
This. You instinct tells you to avoid Tinder because you are not outgoing at all. Be more outgoing and you as a person and your life will improve and become much more interesting and quite possibly more joyful. Getting women and having ideas on what to do with them (what would you do with a gf'? Take her to the gym? Sit at home every day?) will be positive side effects.
To make it short, you'll get more life out of life.
If you use Tinder, social media or dating websites, you'll actually miss a opportunity to improve. Using them is less pain in the short run because you'll have success faster, but more pain in the long run because it doesn't force you to improve and you'll stay mediocre.
>how do i meet people without using tools to meet people
lol... never change Jow Forums
>middle east
Yeah that's probably why.
Tinder is a hookup service. If you want a real relationship, go into the real world.
tinder is not the only social media app